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University gym "womxn only sessions"

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adulthumanfemalemum · 31/07/2023 20:52

Went into local uni sports centre today. Posters everywhere advertising their special gym sessions only for "womxn and non-binary." Lots of blah about how important it is for "womxn" to feel comfortable using the gym. At the bottom in small print an explanation that "womxn is an inclusive term which includes people previously excluded from white feminist discourse, such as women of colour and trans women." FFS. So it's okay to use the word woman to describe trans women but not to describe actual women. And these special sessions are in fact open to anyone who says they are non-binary or a woman. So not remotely a safe single sex space. I'm so cross. I was there with 15 year old DD who is super woke with lots of trans and non binary friends. I really wanted to talk to her about it but didn't want to spoil a rare activity together by arguing.

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NotTerfNorCis · 07/08/2023 07:46

This idea that earlier feminism was racialised and only for white women comes across as an attempt to discredit feminism and divide feminists. Obviously, trying to redefine 'woman' as a set of social stereotypes is pretty anti-feminist.

Muckysmucky · 07/08/2023 07:39

Do we know if anyone has complained about this?

NotTerfNorCis · 07/08/2023 07:27

womxn is an inclusive term which includes people previously excluded from white feminist discourse, such as women of colour and trans women

So insulting to equate black women with males. Also dishonest and insulting to earlier generations of feminists to pretend feminism was only for white women.

Igmum · 07/08/2023 07:18

It's appalling. Agree the comment equating women of colour with trans women is deeply racist. It used to be done a lot by TRAs. Is it an unthinking link to the US history of segregation? Not relevant to Canterbury but plenty of TRA stuff stems from the US experience.

Riverlee · 05/08/2023 07:55

@MimiGC It’s a good example of ridiculous the situation is. Ie. A session for people who don’t want to train with men, that includes men!

DiabolicalFinial · 04/08/2023 23:56

How could that definition not be considered racist hate speech - denying that all women of colour are women? Shocking.

MimiGC · 04/08/2023 23:32

I just showed this to my 16 year old daughter, who is generally very understanding and positive about trans issues and she thought this ad was 'bloody ridiculous'. An indication, I think, that even supporters can be pushed too far too.

Froodwithatowel · 04/08/2023 16:56

I really am done with any lingering sympathy for men who identify as being other than men, as they apparently lack the faintest capacity for inclusiveness or care or sympathy for the class they claim to have joined and do not care what harm they do so long as they get what they want.

Froodwithatowel · 04/08/2023 16:54

'Women wanting and needing space from men is something made up by nasty old white women'.

Tell them that in the third bloody world you very stupid child.

Gateappreciation · 04/08/2023 16:51

Just used this poster to start a conversation with young adult dc about gender. I tried to point out the contradiction of allowing people ‘identifying ’ as women’ into women’s sessions, designed for people who didn’t want to train with men.

Needless to say, he didn’t get it, and couldn’t quite understands that people like Eddie zizzard, wearing a skirt, shouldn’t be allowed in such sessions.

I did press him on whether you could change sex, and mentioned sport as well. He basically wrote me off as an old woman not understanding stuff. I think I know more than him!

methinks I have work to do.

user123212 · 02/08/2023 10:50

"womxn is an inclusive term which includes people previously excluded from white feminist discourse, such as women of colour and trans women."

what a load of distorted crap. now they're including men, they're effectively excluding all women, of all colours.

Thisishard23 · 02/08/2023 09:06

It's part of a movement to undermine women. The younger generation have bought into it hook line and sinker.

Boiledbeetle · 02/08/2023 06:35

User6424678852 · 01/08/2023 22:57

Well, I wondered too …

What is Non-Binary?
Denoting, Having, or relating to a gender identity that does not conform to traditional binary beliefs about gender. People may still present femme or masculine and still identify as non-binary.

If I am gender critical. and don’t “conform to traditional binary beliefs about gender” (because I believe gender is a social construct and sex is biology), am I therefore non-binary now?

I think you are!

You know I'm fairly sure if your average 20ish non binary person discovered that the majority of their mum's friends are actually also non binary they'd be mortified.

User6424678852 · 01/08/2023 22:57

Whatwouldscullydo · 01/08/2023 17:08

Well there seem to be 2 types of non binary. One involves an.orange tutu and demanding and being given permission to enter womens spaces because using the mens is triggering because" they arent a man but using the womens isn't equally triggering 🤔

And one involves removal of breasts or binders...

I'll leave you to work out what the difference is.

Well, I wondered too …

What is Non-Binary?
Denoting, Having, or relating to a gender identity that does not conform to traditional binary beliefs about gender. People may still present femme or masculine and still identify as non-binary.

If I am gender critical. and don’t “conform to traditional binary beliefs about gender” (because I believe gender is a social construct and sex is biology), am I therefore non-binary now?

Thisishard23 · 01/08/2023 22:49

Is the word woman a swear word FFS?

Thisishard23 · 01/08/2023 22:47

Jesus. Reading that gives me the rage.

dimorphism · 01/08/2023 21:25

You know that "the good men stay out so the bad men stand out"? Well when it comes to exercise classes, I'll be looking for ones that are mixed sex because then there will be good men in there to balance the ones who don't give a shit about women.

These 'inclusive' so called women only things are now basically using women as a resource for bad men (the boundary pushers) to use. Give me the decent chaps over that any day.

WarriorN · 01/08/2023 20:31

Jesus.
that's a stock photo.

They really could have made a bit of an effort there.

This is such a lame trend. And then there's trans exclusive sessions creeping in.

Women simply don't count.

Changeforachange · 01/08/2023 19:04

Interesting image they've chosen to advertise their 'womxn' sessions for the excluded minority groups who are their target audience.

What appears to be an attractive young white woman in gender conforming gym gear...

University gym "womxn only sessions"
forgotmyusername1 · 01/08/2023 19:03

So if a group of blokes turn up at the wrong time they can just go 'damn it's women's hour - just say we are women and we can go it'

Somanyquestionstoaskaboutthis · 01/08/2023 18:46

What?? So women of colour are not women? How the hell have they got away with that piece of excrement without being prosecuted?
Between that and the Costa thread my blood pressure is suffering today.

NeedToKnow101 · 01/08/2023 18:40

Thehonestybox · 01/08/2023 18:15

I thought the main point of women only gym or swim sessions was that muslim women can participate without worrying about covering up?

I'm not sure how hijabi muslim women feel about not covering up around trans women or non-binary? But it seems like the aim of these sessions is just "men are excluded just...because"

My friend who is an observant Muslim and wears a hijab self-excluded from women-only swimming sessions that were changed to allow 'anyone who identifies as a woman'. That was her main form of exercise.
She was and continues to be furious about it, of course.

FrancescaContini · 01/08/2023 18:19

Or eyes, even.

FrancescaContini · 01/08/2023 18:18

🤦‍♀️ at “these sessions are for people who don’t feel comfortable exercising with men” - women, then?

This ideology is eating itself up before our very eye.

Atomsaway · 01/08/2023 18:17

JanesLittleGirl · 31/07/2023 21:47

Every session is a session for mxn.

Exactly this.

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