"Lesbians being anti-trans is a lesbophobic trope"

You appear to have a knack for only seeing what you want to see.

Stonewall think otherwise as was made clear by Nancy Kelley when she likened lesbians who don't do dick to sexual racists.

But whatever, carry on with your man centring alternative reality.

I see we are back to centreing men, on a thread about lesbians, no less.

OP has sealioned their own thread. Amazing.

Anyone can be the world's leading expert in who they fancy, who fancies you back is out of your control.

The words people use to describe their sexual orientation cannot (reasonably) be redefined to include different people.

The word is 'dirty' lesbians don't want men however they present. What is so hard to understand about this?

Well put.

I don’t know why TRAs are so caught up about ‘passing’ and whether we ‘can or can’t tell’. Mostly we can, especially in person as opposed to a photo that could have been heavily filtered. Sometimes, it’s true, we may not be able to tell.

But ultimately it doesn’t matter why here or not we can tell. It doesn’t matter if I’m fat and in my forties and less pretty than some transwomen. I’m a woman, they are not. I’ll always be a woman, they never will. A simulacrum, even the prettiest most perfect simulacrum in the world, can never be the real thing. No lesbian is ever going to want a simulacrum of a woman.

I saw the tweet with the men on Her. Yes they did find each other plus several other men (I think there were at least 6 if not more). It was quite funny because one of the men got a number of likes. It was so obvious he was just a man (as we’re all the others) I’m not sure who was doing the liking.

This is the inclusive standard of the modern world.

Hahaha 🤣

The article has one example?

I call BS on the story about the two so-called cis-men only being able to find each other when they looked for transwomen on HER. As if all the transwomen on HER are ever so good at passing that the two cis-men couldn't tell they were transwomen. Yeah, right. How very believable! It is clearly a constructed story.

IT IS NOT PHOBIC TO DECLINE TO SLEEP WITH SOMEONE YOU DO NOT FIND ATTRACTIVE!!! NO ONE OWES YOU SEX!

"sexual orientation and gender are different parts of our identities. You can be trans and a lesbian"

Possibly, if that means you are female and identify as a man, and are attracted to females then yes you are a lesbian. Or that could be reduced a little bit to : female and are attracted to females. Which is the definition of lesbian.
Otherwise it's just made up gender woowoo bollocks.
If you've a female and you date dick you are either straight or bi, and if you call yourself a lesbian then you are probably "queer" which is about politics not sexuality now, and also probably have brightly coloured hair which means stay the fuck away from me I'm a toxic virute signalling narcissist.

It's yet again the outraged "How dare you upset and limit my freedoms by complaining that my size 13 beetlecrushers are hurting your feet when I'm only peacefully jumping up and down on them to express myself."

I refer you to the OP for evidence.

Logic and rationality is in short supply. And exceptionally interesting and rather crowbarred perspectives based on absolute inability to see anything from a service human's POV.

So a well known public figure, male, standing in line for the women's toilets (offense against women number 1, excluding some women while that male meets his wishes at the expense of their needs and inclusion)

adjusting self in a highly male and inappropriate way (which rather messes with the whole just a woman thing and makes it very clear a male sexed person is heading wilfully into a female only space - this particular male with a history of dominating and controlling the space by chasing female people down the street and shouting at them if they show alarm at said male's presence)

becomes: women cruelly stalking innocent trans people in order to mock them for going about their lives peacefully.

that young lesbians are making their own quiet groups, finding each other and sharing female only spaces.

It's so sad that lesbian spaces are having to go 'underground' to stop males from infiltrating them.

This is what gender ideology does. How any one thinks this is progressive is beyond me.

Are you in the her marketing/SM team of something? Because if you are… this strategy is not very effective.

Why can't there be lesbian dating apps (for women seeking women) and "lesbian plus" apps, for want of a better word, for lesbians who don't mind heterosexual males in their dating pool? As long as it's clear who's included, why can't these two services co-exist?

Oh, I know, because women can't have anything just for themselves, can they?

Well that's good for them.

I don't know what you want me to say.

But it is NOT a lesbian dating site. You are kidding yourself if you think that it is.

So it's not a lesbian dating site. It's a site for bisexuals and heterosexuals with kinks.

But literally who cares? The app has already been infiltrated with heterosexual males. If they want to mock each other I dgaf.

But no, you don't give a shit about women do you? Only the males.

Well what happens when there are no 'hers' on her?

Certainly no lesbians. The only people using it males and bisexual/ heterosexual women who want to date men with kinks?

What happens next? The males go to the next lesbian dating app, because cotton ceiling. Can't have those pesky female lesbians wanting anything to themselves can they?

If only words had meanings eh.

Do you know what irony means?