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We've deleted the Madeleine McCann thread

244 replies

JustineMumsnet · 04/05/2009 22:34

Because had we deleted all the posts that were worthy of deletion contained within it we would have lost half a thread, and what remained would have made no sense.

We would like to remind folks that Mumsnet's central philosophy is to make parents' lives easier. The McCanns are parents, they haven't been found guilty of anything and they have lost a child. By all means discuss the issues around this tragic case but please don't attack them personally here.
Thanks,
MNHQ

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mamadiva · 05/05/2009 09:46

Because we need fed?

LadyGlencoraPalliser · 05/05/2009 09:42

The thread both sickened and saddened a lot of Mumsnetters, DP. We didn't post because why feed the vileness?

mamadiva · 05/05/2009 09:40

Well I actually thought on the most part it was an interesting discussion. Were some posters getting a bit Poirot on us but other than that it was fine!

Everyone has an opinion and this subject brings out the extreme in our POV so bound to be problems at some point.

I've heard far worse on buses in Glasgow and there's more chance of being heard by a relative there.

Ledodgy · 05/05/2009 09:37

Exactly Robespierre.

Robespierre · 05/05/2009 09:37

Yes dp, that's because it was at top of active convos all day and many people will have clicked on it, read parts of it, and realised that it was too vile to participate in.

daftpunk · 05/05/2009 09:35

it's interesting that so many people who wern't on the thread seem to have read it

Thebolter · 05/05/2009 09:34

Amen to that. Thank you MN, the thread was horrible.

thumbwitch · 05/05/2009 09:26

Glad you pullled it - I avoided it because it doesn't need rehashing on this forum (or, tbh, anywhere until all the facts are known)

dollius · 05/05/2009 09:23

I think deleting that thread was a good call.

I have never understood the vitriol against that couple.

mamadiva · 05/05/2009 08:56

oh good god can we turn this round again people!!!

I assume this was why they deleted the other thread.

rutyfruty · 05/05/2009 08:54

dp Madonna has not lost a child. Once again you make a comparison which reveals that you see the McCanns as entertainment fodder rather than human beings.

mamadiva · 05/05/2009 08:49

LOL.

RyanAirVeteran · 05/05/2009 08:45

Here's hoping it was pulled before a journo got their hands on it. They would have a field day with it.

Who are these vile people and how did they find MN ? You have to wonder what sort of upbringings they had to think that that sort of behaviour is the norm.

Hulababy · 05/05/2009 08:17

Good call.

I read most of the thread on and off as it unfolded and some of the comments were definitely verging on libelous, if not already so.

It continues to amaze me some days how mean spirited some people can be, even where there is a lost child involved. Oh well, if it makes them feel good must be okay then TBH I am just glad I dont have to live with all those negativve nasty feelings building up inside me.

mamadiva · 05/05/2009 08:16

Ach well we'll never know what was deleted and what was not, now will we DP?!

Probably the offensiveness of the posts containg coldplay

piscesmoon · 05/05/2009 08:12

I am very pleased that you did-I left early on and gave up reading it it was so vile.

daftpunk · 05/05/2009 08:10

mamadiva;

i didn't read all the thread tbh...joined it halfway, but from what i saw there was only one or two posts that i thought were a bit near the mark...the rest...nope, and certainly not your posts md.

RubyrubyrubyRodent · 05/05/2009 08:09

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mamadiva · 05/05/2009 08:06

Daftpunk I was referring to the comments towards the end like I said, even I was gobsmacked at the apparently well founded accusations! It was a bit much.

Although I imagine most of my posts were deleted too so heyho.

shootfromthehip · 05/05/2009 08:02

Thank goodness that it's gone- I don't shock easily but that thread had me breathing in sharply more than once. Fugly thread, fugly ideas, fugly situation- best left alone.

herbietea · 05/05/2009 07:56

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daftpunk · 05/05/2009 07:54

wrong to delete the thread. they may have been a few posts that needed deleting, but i've seen worse said on here about madonna.

it was a discussion, and quite frankly posters who are calling certain other posters "vile" and "disgusting" should be ashamed.......we are all parents on here you know!

mamadiva · 05/05/2009 07:52

Right sorry was v.bad night for me last night LONG STORY.

Mintchoc I am sorry for coming across so aggressive last night.

FWIW I do agree it was right to pull that thread, there was one poster who was bang out of order it went a bit too extreme, even for me!

Also agree with Hecate that speculation is rife everywhere yes but here is not the place to broadcast (especially such vile) opinions on this case.

RealityIsMyOnlyDelusion · 05/05/2009 07:40

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HecatesTwopenceworth · 05/05/2009 07:34

Since our system is "innocent until proven guilty" - and that is 'proven' by a court, not by public speculation - and the McCann family have already taken (or threatened) legal action against those who have publicly speculated or suggested or attempted to lay blame at their door, I think that it was a wise business decision for MNHQ to not leave themselves open to legal action.

People will say what they want, they will talk about it in the pub, at the school gate...that's not the same as it being in black and white on the www.

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