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Dear MNHQ, I didn't see all the problems kick off over poor Revjustabout...

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georgimama · 20/01/2009 12:38

but I would be grateful if you could tell me that you have at least given serious consideration to banning the posters who were harrassing her.

Thank you.

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RiaParkinson · 20/01/2009 23:11

its not a phrase oft used chez nous either

Nantucket · 20/01/2009 23:11

Just wondering..hypothetically

Would you rather:

Someone who pretended to be kind and thoughtful

or

someone who atually was a vindicative bitch.

I know we've established these weren't the cases here but, just think that on a more general point this whole troll accusing mentality has got rather warped?

I think PPh outing of JF had afffected her judgment here, she stated in her first attack thread that her sense for trolls was 'legendary'.

Her attitude to REv really didn't seem rational at all, she was believing her own hype, I think she thought she was an expert on troll spotting!

JustineMumsnet · 20/01/2009 23:11

HerIllustriousEminenceOnebat the conversation re name change was much more on the lines of a two way one i.e. I wonder why folks are so suspicious of you - could it be something to do with the fact that they think you are carving out an official role - a la Judge Flounce - one way to counter this kind of unpleasant suspicion might be to drop rev from your name, which is kinda counter to MN philosophy anyway? OK let's do that. Ok but let's wait a bit so it doesn't look like you're conceding anything...

does that make any more sense to you?

tortoiseshellWasMusicaYearsAgo · 20/01/2009 23:09

The JF is simply a way of showing that a poster who seems really genuine and helpful can be bogus. And that's why people sometimes have suspicions. As I understand Justine, the dropping the 'Rev' thing is a different issue - to do with not being an 'officially appointed minister to MN'.

HighPriestessrutyofthe7Seas · 20/01/2009 23:08

yes i haven't heard the phrase fuckigoblin before either - 'tis funny though. No shame in admitting to being a mold, surely?

dittany · 20/01/2009 23:08

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controlfreakythecontrolfreak · 20/01/2009 23:07

pssst, justine. that ladymuck is NO lady..... thought you should know....

controlfreakythecontrolfreak · 20/01/2009 23:06

that does seem v v odd doesn't aitch.... it's not a phrase i've heard before (and am fond of sweary phrases)....

JustineMumsnet · 20/01/2009 23:06

LadyMuck I think trusting in someone for spiritual advice is probably (if anything) an even greater trust than trusting someone for legal advice - after all we all know what lawyers are like
But we might have to agree to differ I suppose...

dittany · 20/01/2009 23:04

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LadyMuck · 20/01/2009 23:04

tortoiseshell, I was there. I even ended up on the phone to MN.

The fact that the JF episode was mishandled doesn't mean that this should be mishandled because of that. Nor does it mean that pph shouldn't follow proper procedures this time given that now MNHQ are happy to investigate (they were not on that previous occasion until a thorough and public witchhunt had occurred).

Someone has concerns about a poster, then there is a red exclamation mark making it really easy to report. No need for public cries of "fake" or whatever.

Am now going to get a life.

HerIllustriousEminenceOnebat · 20/01/2009 23:04

But what on earth has JudgeFlounce got to do with anything, once MNHQ has confirmed that the Rev isn't a troll?

At that point, WHY would you say 'well, we suggest you drop the rev bit, it's been worrying us for ages' rather than 'Gosh, thanks for providing all this proof (that we needlessly asked for) and all. We'll now put out a thread warning those who are attacking you to back off or else. Especially about the incursions into your private family life."

Aitch · 20/01/2009 23:03

tortoiseshell, isn't the key thing that having checked the rev's credentials and found them accurate, she is neverhteless being asked to change her name? she IS actually a rev, there is no misrepresentation.

KerryTheMNExpertonEverything · 20/01/2009 23:02

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tortoiseshellWasMusicaYearsAgo · 20/01/2009 23:02

(That post not written by JF - written by someone else 'benefitting' from their advice).

I disagree that you would only need to read Rev's posts. JF's were highly plausible (and vigorously defended) to non legal-types. Hence the length of the deception.

bundle · 20/01/2009 23:02

errrr

no you're not

KerryTheMNExpertonEverything · 20/01/2009 23:01

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Aitch · 20/01/2009 23:01

we both work from home, KM, so it's a bit difficult to organise.

TheFallenMadonna · 20/01/2009 23:01

But scummy, Justabout says she's still going to be doing the reluctant worshippers thread. And why the hell not really? Lots of people use MN to spread their word, whatever that might be. Hunker for example is more evangelical about her thing than Justabout ever was IMO. And again, why the hell not? You want a secular site? What else is it?

tortoiseshellWasMusicaYearsAgo · 20/01/2009 23:01

And another where she flounced - read particularly the post "Have to say BTW I only come on the legal/money matter threads now to read your wise words I am learning so much from you and I think I can speak for loads and loads of MNers who really appriciate (?) who much time and effort you go to on behalf of them. Simply having a few legal brains on here mean that we do get facts, not heresay and we don't all have to say 'oh go and find a solicetor/trot off to the CAB they should help' type of advice for those who need it."

  • which I KNOW is different from the Rev, but shows why you need to be careful when someone assumes a role.
KerryTheMNExpertonEverything · 20/01/2009 23:00

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Aitch · 20/01/2009 23:00

CF, on moldies someone said 'i wasn't going to post (about moldiegate) but the fuckitgoblins made me do it'. mucho applause

shortly thereafter a poster named fuckitgoblin appeared on those threads defending moldies, so i assumed that it wasn't a coincidence.

HighPriestessrutyofthe7Seas · 20/01/2009 22:59

But if anyone had bothered to read Rev's posts you'd know she was nothing like JF. Perhaps a better idea than shouting 'Fake!' at her.

tortoiseshellWasMusicaYearsAgo · 20/01/2009 22:58

Here is an example of a Judge Flounce thread - under the name of W&R - obviously his posts are deleted, but you can see there is no questioning of the seemingly plausible advice here.

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