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Dear MNHQ, I didn't see all the problems kick off over poor Revjustabout...

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georgimama · 20/01/2009 12:38

but I would be grateful if you could tell me that you have at least given serious consideration to banning the posters who were harrassing her.

Thank you.

OP posts:
jute · 20/01/2009 14:02

"Frankly it seems like it is an abuse of power for someone from Mumsnet HQ to ask that she prove who she is.

No one else I know has ever been asked. I have not been asked to prove my identity."

Well presumably because she's posting in a rev role (I haven't followed the reluctant worshipers threads but understand from her previous posts she has someone from the church overseeing her posts?? i guess that makes her a church representative of some sort). I think if someone (anyone) posts in a semi professional role then they may be asked to prove who they are. I'm guessing HQ have to do that; otherwise they could be in the stew if something went pear shaped following advice from a professional.

CreativeZen · 20/01/2009 14:02

Hmm, well strictly speaking there was no need for the rev to start a thread about defrocking was there? She could have kept her rev name for her worship threads and changed to another more anonymous name for all other purposes. It seems to me, as a newcomer, that she herself has stirred things soemwhat.

CountessDracula · 20/01/2009 14:02

Well maybe the rev can confirm whether indeed that was true (about the supervisor thing) and clear it up.
Shit now I keep calling her that
What is her name now?

dizzydixies · 20/01/2009 14:01

by invitation and voting system apparently slim you should search previous threads for info if you like, there will no doubt be tonnes

VinegarTits · 20/01/2009 14:01

It was highly suspicious though, that suddenly there were serveral posters (all moldies) attacking rev, and it does read like they had been watching/discussing the thread, then one of them came in on the attack, then the others turned up as backup.

my gut instinct tells me Rev has definatley been disscused on moldies, or else why would those posters turn up with such vitrol

princesspeahead · 20/01/2009 14:00

Rhubarb has it crossed your mind that people who have been really nice posters for um 6 years may still be really nice?
And do you not think it odd that Rev claimed that all her posts were being checked by her "supervisor" who has happy with her "ministry" on Mumsnet? Do you not see why that might make some of us, who have a small idea how professional ethics etc work, go "well, THAT'S a lie?" and get deleted for our pains? (I note she has resiled from that position)

But I repeat I have NOT contacted MN with any concerns and I have CERTAINLY not been in any way involved in any private life of Rev, as I say, I don't know who she is or anything about her apart from her economy with the truth. And any accusations of harrassment are utterly unacceptable. My dealings with Rev have been completely transparent and public.

slim22 · 20/01/2009 13:59

So is it like some sort of MN cult?

Is MNHQ involved in that site? Is it by invitation? cooptation?

Threadworm · 20/01/2009 13:59

That is true, Aitch. I will shut up now.

Aitch · 20/01/2009 13:59

i agree, cd. it would be nice. and afaik she doesn't have a parish at the moment.

CountessDracula · 20/01/2009 13:58

I don't understand why the Rev (or whatever she is called now) doesn't just become the official mn vicar (or deacon or whatever) then she can call herself Rev (or Dec or whatever is short for a Deacon) with impunity.

Surely that could be possible? If she has the blessing of her... erm... whatever you call a Boss in the church. Surely a group of people online is just as viable a flock as people who go to a church.

ForeverOptimistic · 20/01/2009 13:57

Well now Rev's privacy has been infringed, perhaps another spin off needs to be formed. This is like groundhog day.

Aitch · 20/01/2009 13:57

does the rev want this fuss? i doubt it. she seems to me to be an eminently sensible and robust woman, with a forgiving nature as befits her role. (and there was much to forgive, imo).

this is an OP that is designed to stir up trouble, imo. last thing this place needs at the moment. if the OP feels strongly, she should have emailed MNHQ at the time.

coppertop · 20/01/2009 13:57

We know you're a domestic goddess really.

And is now a good time for me to confess that my top isn't actually as coppery as it once was? I'd hate to post on a thread about hair and have people get the wrong impression.

ComeWhineWithMe · 20/01/2009 13:57

I really like Rev and her blog hope she is still going to be around .

Lauriefairycake · 20/01/2009 13:56

Thinking about this in general I have no idea why the Rev bothered to prove herself.

Frankly it seems like it is an abuse of power for someone from Mumsnet HQ to ask that she prove who she is.

No one else I know has ever been asked. I have not been asked to prove my identity.

This is an internet talk forum - anyone could be anyone.

Rhubarb · 20/01/2009 13:56

Zen, the Moldie site DOES discuss Mumsnet threads and HAS posted links to Mumsnet as well as certain blogs.

It seems highly likely that it was linked as a lot of Mouldies suddenly descended onto that thread - and as the Rev asked for her OP to be copied into the Mouldies site too.

Of course they'll deny it though, as they deny everything.

dizzydixies · 20/01/2009 13:55

slim22 MN Oldies who have defected onto their own forum for the sake of privacy after what happened to Cod, apparently

is my basic understanding of it

fuckitgoblin · 20/01/2009 13:55

thats not a link though vonsuda, its just a supposition isnt it?

TotalChaos · 20/01/2009 13:54

Noone has suggested I'm a domestic goddess and that my username is an utter fabrication

slim22 · 20/01/2009 13:54

been working so missed all those very informative threads.

ForeverOptimistic, please do tell. I googled it (how pathetic am I ) and it's some sort of science fiction epic??????

vonsudenfed · 20/01/2009 13:53

By Rhubarb on Tue 20-Jan-09 13:13:45
So the Mouldies added a link from their site to this did they? Very nice of them.

Stick that in your Paranoid Corner mouldies! ffs. Your claims of being a mouldie to escape harrassment of this kind has just been shot to pieces.

Some of those posters on that thread I thought were nice people, really nice people. Seems to me that some people are having personality switches of late.

pagwatch · 20/01/2009 13:52

I don't believe you. You are a goddamn satsuma. Don't deny it

smallorange · 20/01/2009 13:51

Just wanted to point out that I am a real small orange and not a clementine. I have the documents to prove it.

CreativeZen · 20/01/2009 13:51

All I can see there, von, is the rev asking moldies to post a link on their site. No suggetion that the thread is being linked to on their site, whatever their site is. And is there any reason why it shouldn't be linked there?

ForeverOptimistic · 20/01/2009 13:51

You don't know what Moldies is? Where have you been???

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