is there a moldies part three?

agre i alwys found
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really patronising.

sinking - are you sure you were 'activley rejected'? from what I can make out it could be for very little things. The process was chaotic and haphazard rather than calculated and like opius dai or that bit in the film eyes wide shut.

Lol seeker!

Georgi - I am trying to respond to my legions of needy posters at the same time as mopping tears over ere.

Somebody's got to do it

That is a very kind comment, Flight.

I think I would rather have been actively rejected than completely overlooked!

Thready if anything it was probably envy that you might be more popular than they

You are very funny and nice and have good user names. IMVHO

I was activley rejected too, apparently. I think the selection process was just too chaotic for me to infer from rejection that I am actively disliked. I hope that is true.

So I would try not to worry about it too much, sinking.

Anyway, the reason I came on to this thread was to say for god's sake stop discussing moldies. I thought the discussion might die with the last thread. What on earth more os there to be said?

Enough, please.

What wannabe said.

While people are obsessing here about this issue, there are people who want to be part of MN posting about real problems, or just wanting to chat, who would love you to reply.

Are any of you lawyers? Please look at my thread if so.

Oi dunno, stealth. Oi hav not been 'hinformed of such

Probably....I wouldn't be surprised! But rather not know I think or I'd be really upset.

were you deemed not worth as well Flight?

When people feel the need to discuss the goings on on a website over and over and over again just so they can get worked up and upset over it all again it's time to step back imho.

So there's another website. Big deal. And some posters who thought they were more popular than they were weren't invited to join. Oh well.

Is it the fact there's another site that people are upset? or is it the fact that people who thought they were part of the in-crowd turned out not to be? If those who are up in arms about moldies had been invited would you have said no? Somehow I don't imagine so.

Mn is a website. Moldies is a website. If friendships from here are real then they will have moved from the internet into more real forms like email/phone/meeting up in rl, in which case there should be no need for invites to other websites as you will be conversing with those friends away from the net anyway.

Fwiw I am not a moldy neither have I been invited to join, but I do have a rl friend who is. So what. I'm sure I have other rl friends who I haven't met online who do things in which I'm not included either.

Friendship is not exclusive. If I'm friends with someone doesn't mean I have a right to access every part of their life/have an entitlement to join in everything they do.

I care and I'm sorry people have got hurt. But have been through this with a RL group of yummymummies and that was harder. I do understand why people are upset and want to talk about it, but I really wouldn't want to be part of a group who are voting on who can or can't join in their group. I'm glad that there are so many of you lovely MNetters who are still here for all of us.

I'm sure you are

Got me worried now!! arghhh

No, I was told that all the rejections were for good reasons ie not just because someone was unknown. I know far more than I should know, but I am not going to say all. Contrary to what someone thought about me, I am a decent person.

oohh Stealth - loving the new year name

I agree - a lot of people just got vetoed because the ones in charge apparently didn't 'know' them personally - from what I can gather.

Sinking, you were probably rejected because X or Y didn't actually know you, or Z was having a bad day. Come on, it's hardly a fair or rational system!

I am glad for you Mamazon, I truly am. I wish I didn't care but the truth of the matter is, I do.

I think the best thing I read on this subject was when someone said that a lot of people on forums such as this are shy or in some way socially inept, so when they get rejected even a virtual rejection, they are the least able people to overcome the hurt they feel. That described me. If you really truly don't care about rejection or being overlooked, then I admire you.

I am sadly coming to the conclusion that there shouldn't be a third thread. Despite people still wanting to talk about it (me included) there are too many people who, instead of just clicking hide come on to have a go. Or to say "grow up and get over it - don't see why you're upset". Even though people like Custy and Sinking have explained over and over again they either don't read those posts or deliberately ignore.
Don't know which is worse - to be mominated and found wanting, or to be overlooked. But I know which happened to me Also, considering the voting only went on for a day or so, they were very busy blackballing during that time, weren't they?

Well I have certainly revised my opinion of all those posters who have become moldies-and lets just say it is not an upwards revision!

good for you sinking - fecker that they were

whats a hun point btw?

evil

Stop the madness!!!!

am i the only one who wants to know who is a Moldy? nosy i know but i am way curious about who they are !