is there a moldies part three?

Didn't realise people had been vetoed thought it was just the non invitation that was the problem.

Notnow I'm not hurt now. I was initially.

Because it would have been nice to be remembered I guess; for one person I've spoken to in 7 years to have said 'Oh hey what about Peachy?'. It makes you wonder if anyone even noticed you posting.

TC that is an amazing birth pic! I look rancid in mine with ds4. And blardy dh sent it to his father straight after .

have only glanced over this thread admittedly and am not out to cause hurt although as I said am surprised anyone truly is that hurt and was wondering what the reasoning behind that is.from what I can see custardo is very popular

LOL Fio!

notnow...those that really are hurt, are people that actually have had longstanding friendships (on and offline) with a lot of people that now seem to be moldie...surely it is easy to see how they would be hurt?
I mean, well, if your friends actually put you forward and than you were vetoed, than you surely would have to wonder why your friends are still willing to be at a place you, yourself aren;t good enough for....

if you friends didn't even put you forward, again...not much of a friend than...

it is not that difficult...and btw...I am not personaly affected....but I can see how people might be hurt...it is pretty straightforward and not rocket science....

I dont have a problem with you TC, i like you, but can you tell me if you are allowed to post a link to Moldies? and if not why not? thanks.

You can read what you want into my posts.
I'm saying that if you have a problem with some people you know on Moldies then don't tar everyopne with the same brush. If you have a problem with X or Y then it doesn't mean you have to have the same problem with a and B. That's all I meant. But take it as you will. I'm really not bothered.

And custardo - no it doesn't, I was told about the site and joined. Have chatted to a few old faces over there, it was nice. There were no terms and conditions. I haven't been on there for ages and it's only reading stuff on MN that has given me any idea about this voting thing. I've never seen anything of the sort over there. So no I don't think my "membership" makes me complicit in accepting such behaviour as I really have no understand ing from Moldies what this behaviour is, I've never come across it. I opn't apologise for joining a site to chat to some old friends that I never really get to see on MN as it's so huge on here and people get lost.

notnowplease - have you actually read any of these threads? I know there are a lot of them, but people's feelings (including Custy's reasons) have been very well documented.

Asking for us to go through it all again is not appropriate now, not to say insensitive. Unless that was your purpose?

I just want to see if they are allowed to post a link

Its very existance is secret, so the fact that they are saying its not vetoed, its not selective, its just old friends chatting, is bullshit, why make it un-googleable if thats the case

They arent even allowed to tell us the web address, what harm will it do posting a link if we cant even see the messages or get in without an invite then? whats the link?

VinegarTits, want to swap jobs

I get the impression that some people have been deliberatley snubbed and some just forgotton and that's the gripe.

I do understand why the organisers wanted to break away.

Can I just ask those who are seriously hurt why?And if they were 'invited' would it somehow fix it?We don't all gel in rl so it is bound to be similar here surely?Not looking for another barney but am surprised to see someone like custard riled by this

Wow Thomcat! You are gorgeous! Far too glamorous for the likes of us on this board!

Even if they did post a link to the Moldies site it is probably set up so that you can't see any messages if you're not a member.

thomcat...completely off topic...but just looked at your profile and some lovely pics...but wow at your Birthpiccie....

lol at the not all I fear TC may be getting blackballed.

Ok prove it then Thomcat, post a link to the Moldies site?

Bet you wont

Your not allowed to are you?

Harold, you thicko

< types furiously with one finger >

italics...grrr

x-post tnog

took me that long to figure out fecking italica

not all

says it all

Not all, TC

That implies that some are...

Can I just say - I'm a Moldie and have never ever, not once been asked to vote on whther someone can join or not. I was told about Moldies, didn't ever really feel it was an invite as such. I joined, was happy to see an unclutted site where I could 'see' some Mumsnetters I had formed some sort of friendship with over the years and recognised 98% of the names on there and thought oh how nice so space to talk with some old friends. Never did anyone ask me what I thought about x or y joining or not joining.
Just want to make that clear as some people seem to think that all people who are on Moldies are underhand, sneaky bitches who are all huddled together picking who they consider to be the cream of the cream and that's just not the case.