is there a moldies part three?

I think people who want a link and want to ask to apply just want reassurance that it IS as harmless as people are saying i.e. why can't they ask to join, if they are well known and liked and are being told that most non-invites were over-sights?? It does seem baffling.

I could post the link but it is just a box that says USERNAME and PASSWORD. I would do it to reassure people but I don't know why the Moldies aren't doing so? It's harmless enough to do so isn't it? I'm a bit baffled by it TBH

But if someone arranged a big girls night out and X wanted to invite Y and the person who arranged the night out really didn't get on with Y would it not be ok for her to ask her not to invite her.

Can you make head or tail of that sentence?

Too many hers aye.

But if I arranged a big girls night out and Sheila wanted to invite Caroline and I really didn't get on with Caroline would it not be ok for me to ask Sheila to not invite her?

By THOMCAT "Ahh see, I only accept people I know on FB. I have to have met them or have know them well enough to know their MN name without having to think abou it. I once accepted someone I didn't really know and saw their status updates and wall activity every day and kept thinking who the hell is this person? So now only accept people who I know well or are proper RL friends."

I think that one person was me!!

I don't want a link, and no I don't want to be a moldie, neither, tbh...by what I have herd on here about it, it is a dark place to belong too

So you dont want to give the link out, and you can only apply for membership if you are invited right?

So, how do you lot over there decide who gets an invite? huh?

given the amount of vitriol that has been posted towards moldies over the past two weeks or so, do people really expect that they'll be wanted over there anyway?

the people posting that they want a link and want to apply to join aren't upset that moldies exists, they're upset that they're not well enough thought of to be considered to be invited. You can't have it both ways.

Either people don't like the concept of moldies, or they completely understand the concept and want to know whether they can receive an invite.

which is it then?

lol pagwatch....moldies seems more fightclub than Bondstyle

wannabe....I don't ecpect all my friends to like eachother....well...most of my friends don't even know eachother....however if several of my friends who know eachother set out somewhere else, and not really caring if I was there, too...I think I would take that personal, tbh....how could you not....[puzzled emoticon]

The location is secret because it is in a disused underground station near the Embankment.

Oh no. That is James Bond isn't it.

I am in a bit of a muddle today. Sorry

vt..i think mi5 security would be easier to crack than this

Well it isn't so much 'not allowed' as 'don't want to'. There isn't anyone in the centre of all of this saying 'DON'T GIVE OUT A LINK TO THE SITE'!

You can only apply for membership if you are invited to do so.

You can give the link so people can see for themselves where it is and apply for a membership once you decide to let people in again

But your not allowed to give the link are you, why is the location such a big secret?

Why on earth would I want to give you a link [bizzare emotion]

mamazon I have reported your post

"if you truely thought of someone as a friend and put them forward and they are vetoed...if you were
a true friend would you than not say, ah, well, stick it than?" doesn't that imply then that you will only be friends with people who like all your other friends and you only expect people to be friends with you if you like all of their friends?

Life just doesn't work like that does it?

Have no unknowns on facebook, I seem to have a bloody lot of them on msn though!

ok fine, you can still give us the link though? whats the harm in that?

No one is being invited at the moment.

lol at TC posting post 666....

So if the polls have stopped, how do they decide who gets in now? whats the link so i can join? or are invites still vetoed?

You know moldies is still in its infancy. Finding the best way to do things, the only thing we're sure of is we want to stay small.

Some of you who are wondering why you weren't invited, the answer is simple, you hadn't been invited YET. There was every intention to invite more people and quite often the cry was heard 'omg we forgot xxxx!' No ulterior motives, no nasty reasons, just temporary memory loss

The polls only lasted a day TC - right at the very beginning.

Polls??? LOL! Sounds intruiging. Will have to go back and see now!

Oh was there? Oh ok, sorry, I didn't know that.

But there was a voting system, TC - even if you didn't see it. There were polls in place. Aitch told us about it.

My last pos was no 666 -