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If you (still) feel the need to discuss Moldies, please do it here so folks can hide this if they want to.

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LittleDonkeyCarrieMaryMumsnet · 23/12/2008 12:47

Well hopefully the title says it all. There's been a suggestion, and we agree, that as we did with Baby P and the Mc Canns we just have one thread where anyone who feels they still have anything to add on this subject can post and those who'd rather move on can hide it away.

It feels strange to put this thread in site stuff as we are definitely not wanting to encourage further discussion of Moldies (we have presents to wrap too you know ) but we weren't sure where else to put it.

We will delete any new Moldies threads that are started, so please feel free to report them in case we miss any (what with wrapping the presents and all...)

And if you do want to carry on the discussion please remember that Mumsnet's here to make everyone's lives easier and not the reverse, and that Christmas is a time of goodwill to all mumsnetters past, present and future

Thanks,
MNHQ

OP posts:
cornsilk · 29/12/2008 14:14

sorry about your friend sheik

Quattrocento · 29/12/2008 14:14

I'm sorry you got deleted again PW.

I apologise for any offence I caused. I truly cannot remember what I said in my posts but I remember arguing vociferously about how many t's there were in twiglet. I had to google it this morning to find out.

I know FOR SURE that I did not call anyone anything but there must've been a reason for my posts being deleted. So I must've caused offence and for that I am sorry.

hunkermunker · 29/12/2008 14:13

Sheik Totally inadequate post, this, but I am very sorry.

ChristmasFairySantAsSLut · 29/12/2008 14:13

Sheik, terribly sorry to hear about your friend. That is just tragic

Aitch · 29/12/2008 14:12

oh sheiky... i am sorry about your friend, that poor family.

Aitch · 29/12/2008 14:10

lol. didn't liberty x have mors hits than hearsay? and who's myleene?

Colbeck · 29/12/2008 14:10

Hunker, read VVq's post, then have quiet word with her.

You're not stupid, don't pretend to be, you can see which posts cause the diffciulties and which don't.

People want you to stay, they want Aitch to stay, they also want to be upset about Moldies, if you can live with that without the bitterness descende to by some moldies then stick around. But you will have to live with/overlook some upset and fallout from the whole thing. You're choice I'd say.

SheikYerbouti · 29/12/2008 14:09

This has gone on now for 10 days. Yes, 10 days. 10 days when you could have been doing something useful (I include myself in that as well)

Shall I out this whole sorry charade, which has led to some pretty vile postings from BOTH sides of the argument, as well as people being attacked personally, into perspective for you?

On Tuesday last week, my friend and colleague died, leaving behind 3 children, one of which is a 7 week old baby. A seven week old baby who will never, ever know her daddy. Christmas will be forever ruined for that family, it will always bring the anniversary of his sudden and untimely death.

We are spending our days bickering about and internet forum, this argument is spilling over into the fucking papers, fgs, which is just showing the whole thing up to be fucking ridiculous, especially when the articles (eg on the front of the Independent on Sunday) are juxtaposed with images of children dying in the Gaza attacks.

I feel like I have played a part in this whole thing as yes, I am a Moldie member. I have probably alienated myself from this board because of this alone. I would like to say that I am truly sorry for any upset this has caused to folk, both moldies and non-moldies.

But just remember one thing, people on MN and elsewhere are going through some REAL shit right now, while you are all here arguing the toss under pseudonyms.

cornsilk · 29/12/2008 14:08

To those who still don't know - moldies were handpicked (like Hearsay.) What's left is Liberty X.

Quadrophenia · 29/12/2008 14:07

I think some moldies have only posted on these threads and haven't posted accross the rest of the boards for quite some time. Hence when they post on these threads in a 'you are all really sad' tone it is likely they will get told to bugger off.

llareggub · 29/12/2008 14:07

Oh I wish I could stop reading this thread.

All those jobs I've ignored

And those children I've scorned

Oh I wish I could stop reading this thread.

(apols Pam Ayres and DS)

BBBee · 29/12/2008 14:06

this thread just moves too fast and there were times when i wanted to ask stuff but it had calmed down and i didn't want to ignite it.

i think it would be helpful to have a thread that explains it so people can get up to speed

i think it would be good to discuss the media coverage

i think threads develop their own tone - some are upset, some are bored, some are joky - throwing them all together results in hurt sometimes.

i think that bunching it all together doesn't work.

hunkermunker · 29/12/2008 14:06

Some appear to view any posting by Moldies as stirring though, or concerted and planned "attacks" - it's an odd feeling, really.

catinthehat1 · 29/12/2008 14:05

I think that was because he had read about Morningpaper's bowel movements in another Moldies thread. I must admit I cried too

pooka · 29/12/2008 14:05

PMSL BBBee.

Tortington · 29/12/2008 14:04

good for you MOB, you are doing exactly the right thing entirely considering it doesn't interest you.

be well
xx

MumofBaby · 29/12/2008 14:02

Well if we're not naming names, and we don't know who they are, why do we care? This is just stupid. People are rowing over sod all, purely because they fancy a row. People (we don't know who) have started their own version of MN... and we're not invited. OH bloody no. What a shame.

Honestly.

There are more important things going on.

I CANNOT believe it made the papers. Sad.

Time to hide this thread I think.

BBBee · 29/12/2008 14:02

just saw jeremy paxman in the co-op and he says newsnight are running it as the main story tonight.

he looked quite stressed about it (and his eyes were red like he had been crying)

Tortington · 29/12/2008 14:02

INdeed Hunker, you are right.

I hope the press can get the quotes right in future.

Quattrocento · 29/12/2008 14:01

of breastfeeding. Honestly it would be better if Moldies didn't come back on here to stir things up though. Speaking as one who (I think and hope and pray) has never told a Moldie to go home.

You have to promise to stay and cause more breastfeeding envy, now.

holidaywonk · 29/12/2008 14:01

Fuck me, I got deleted again!

I'd like to make it VERY clear that I did NOT say what everyone else was deleted for saying. I think I've been deleted because it would make clear the content of subsequent deleted posts.

Anyways, like OBM I feel bad this morning for my part in what went on last night - it crossed several lines and it wasn't pretty. Apologies.

NorthernLurker · 29/12/2008 14:00

Oooh Aitch - if reading about Christmas gluttony, domestic practices and internecine war is helping you feed dd2 then I'll step up a gear shall I?

Ok then which of you (insert insult of choice) has stolen my (insert expletive of choice) IRONING BOARD!

hunkermunker · 29/12/2008 14:00

I think this is the right place to talk about it.

If nothing else, it'll mean the press can cherry-pick quotes and hopefully attribute the right MNer if it's all on one thread!

Aitch · 29/12/2008 13:57

quattro, there have, i'm sure i've seen a few 'piss off back to moldies, then' etc. and i'm not getting worked up, in fact i'm bfing dd2 so if anything i'm getting let-down.

tbh i'm really sad about this, MN is a great place, i don't know what i'd have done withouth the support i got when dd2 came early. i was so frightened, pals phoning me to tell me what everyone was saying really, really helped. this is like being in the middle of a civil war.

ChristmasFairySantAsSLut · 29/12/2008 13:56

oh right.....life is to short....but I suppose it could be upsetting to some...

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