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If you (still) feel the need to discuss Moldies, please do it here so folks can hide this if they want to.

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LittleDonkeyCarrieMaryMumsnet · 23/12/2008 12:47

Well hopefully the title says it all. There's been a suggestion, and we agree, that as we did with Baby P and the Mc Canns we just have one thread where anyone who feels they still have anything to add on this subject can post and those who'd rather move on can hide it away.

It feels strange to put this thread in site stuff as we are definitely not wanting to encourage further discussion of Moldies (we have presents to wrap too you know ) but we weren't sure where else to put it.

We will delete any new Moldies threads that are started, so please feel free to report them in case we miss any (what with wrapping the presents and all...)

And if you do want to carry on the discussion please remember that Mumsnet's here to make everyone's lives easier and not the reverse, and that Christmas is a time of goodwill to all mumsnetters past, present and future

Thanks,
MNHQ

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seeker · 29/12/2008 15:10

An alternative forum the existence of which was, if I recall correctly, repeatedly denied.

llareggub · 29/12/2008 15:07

I have never seen the word "disingenuous" used so often on a forum. I really must nominate it as word of the week. Or get out more.

Lockets · 29/12/2008 15:05

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whomovedmychocolate · 29/12/2008 15:05

I'm bored with this. If you want I cna tpye leki thsi so you don't all miss Cod so much

annoyingdevil · 29/12/2008 14:59

National newspapers, well I never. Mumsnet's PR team must be working over time. Bet they're loving this.

needmorecoffee · 29/12/2008 14:56

which, of course, you all wanted to know

needmorecoffee · 29/12/2008 14:54

sheik - I have just snorted tea out my nose!

SheikYerbouti · 29/12/2008 14:52

No NMC, I am not. I know this must come as a shock

Do you think the Sport or the Star will pick it up and make their copy sound like we are all indulging in some gratuitous girl-on-girl wet T-shirt mud wrestling? Will their readers send in Txt Msgs like "I'd like 2 c all dem mums fytin in da flesh, coz I'm a snivvlin prik wotz nevva had a gurlfrend. Wayne, Markit Harburra"

SheikYerbouti · 29/12/2008 14:52

No NMC, I am not. I know this must come as a shock

Do you think the Sport or the Star will pick it up and make their copy sound like we are all indulging in some gratuitous girl-on-girl wet T-shirt mud wrestling? Will their readers send in Txt Msgs like "I'd like 2 c all dem mums fytin in da flesh, coz I'm a snivvlin prik wotz nevva had a gurlfrend. Wayne, Markit Harburra"

dittany · 29/12/2008 14:51

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ElectraInExcelsis · 29/12/2008 14:50

Ok, though I may not be 'qualified' to make a comment on this and have certainly not followed this whole thing through from beginning to end, one thing occurs to me.

A couple of years ago a row blew up on MN because mothers of children with SN felt that they needed a private group to post on, because of insensitive comments directed at them here. I think there was a suggeston that the SN board should somehow be more private although I don't remember exact details.

I distinctly remember some people (who are now trying to defend the idea of a moldie board) strongly objecting to this at the time...

NorthernLurker · 29/12/2008 14:49

No Daisy - you're not the only one!

seeker · 29/12/2008 14:48

"think about some of the people you know to be Moldies and then ask yourself if it WAS snide, unpleasant and bitchy, would they be involved in it?"

I am thinking about some of those people - that's why I still feel sad about the whole sorry mess. It just goes to show that you really don't know anything at all about people you have only met online.

WalkinginWaynettaWonderland · 29/12/2008 14:46

I've been racking my brains trying to think of how we can exploit the laziness and stupidity of those journos.

If you see me starting a thread entitled "The world is flat", please join it for a ruck, and see how far the debate will go before it makes the front page.

Of course we could discuss the situation in Gaza or Zim, but apparently that's not real news......

Lockets · 29/12/2008 14:46

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TheTwelveDAISYofChristmas · 29/12/2008 14:45

Am I the only one who thinks it's just a bit superior to be sending out apologies?

"sorry for the oversight and all, but you're still not getting an invite to our special club"

....that's supposed to make people feel better, how?

and like the existence of the whole other website (not the separate area of MN that has been quoted in the papers that no-one seems to have picked up on) and exclusion of some posters who feel they have been left behind by their so called friends, word of the select apologies was bound to get out as well

and apologies from me if this is a bit behind, but with three children to run around after I'm struggling to catch up

mumofbaby, you've only been on MN for a few days so it was unlikely you would have heard of moldies as the row started, as sheik says, 10 days ago. It is, as noted above, a separate website and nothing to do with MNHQ so their condoning of it, or otherwise, isn't really an issue.

Now, how about some sex on the beach

Sheik, so sorry for your friend .

needmorecoffee · 29/12/2008 14:45

you mean you aren't a 6 foot leggy blonde?

Quadrophenia · 29/12/2008 14:44

are the quotes maybe from the poster above or underneath? perhaps they ahve problems with the MN layout?

needmorecoffee · 29/12/2008 14:43

'I think the other inference is that moldies are gracious, kind and lacking in self-indulgence or at least are the arbiters of such things,'

oh, so thats why I dint get any invite then

have to laugh as a NZ paper running the story. Slow sheep day or something....?

brightongirldownunder · 29/12/2008 14:43

I watched an amazing programme on Perkin Warbeck the other day...
Now thats someone who used a pseudonym for the right reasons...

NorthernLurker · 29/12/2008 14:42

My dh can't believe all 3 papers have made such a balls up of the quotes either.

Quattrocento · 29/12/2008 14:41

Sunday Independent, New Zealand Thingy, Mail, Telegraph.

Four papers including one antipodean one.

Perhaps we should stage a duel and sell the photo rights to Hello.

Am prepared to throw down the gauntlet at a Moldies foot (providing the weapon is pistols).

needmorecoffee · 29/12/2008 14:38

that would be something to see. topless yummy mummys. Any volunteers
dh can't believe its made 3 newspapers!

SheikYerbouti · 29/12/2008 14:37

To the Editor of The Sun:

Please describe me as "Sheiky, 21, who is a 6ft leggy blonde and successful model" or I will sue.
TIA

catinthehat1 · 29/12/2008 14:37

HM, I think the "people who aren't here to defend themselves" thing doesn't stand up too well. Nothing to stop said posters coming back and dealing with such comments directly if they can be bothered.

There is a whole extra set of issues to do with what is written on the private Moldies board as you know, which means that all sorts of personal attacks can be made with no reciprocal opportunity for redress.

Sadly, I don't have your warm feeling about the attitudes of some (a minority clearly) of the other Moldies.

To steal from Warren Buffett, now the tide is out it is obvious who has been swimming without a costume.

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