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Unacceptable word.

63 replies

theheadgirl · 26/04/2008 19:37

To MN HQ:
Many of us have contacted you, to express the opinion that the word "mong" should not be acceptable.
In the thread in question, the poster, who I am sure meant nothing derogatory, used the phrase "to mong out in front of the TV"
It has been suggested that this meant nothing more than to "veg" out.
However, this word derives from the word "mongol", which many years ago was the acceptable medical term to describe Down Syndrome. Thankfully the medical profession no longer use the word.
As the mother of a beautful, lively girl with Down Syndrome, (who never, ever "mongs" anywhere!) I find this a vile word. It is one that reminds me of the way that those with learning difficulties are sometimes labelled, are treated as 2nd class, and are denied any individuality. Ignorance of its history should not mean it can be continued to be used. Look at the picture of my girl on my profile and ask yourself - would you be happy to hear the word used?
If you feel that this word is unacceptable please add your name to this thread.

OP posts:
berolina · 26/04/2008 19:48

Adding my voice. Dreadful word, and I'm astonished the post was allowed to stand.

Whizzz · 26/04/2008 19:47

Why don't you press the red ! on the thread in question to alert MN??

gymgym10 · 26/04/2008 19:44

Totally agree this word should not be used.

Purplepillow · 26/04/2008 19:44

Yes I agree too, awful word

doggiesayswoof · 26/04/2008 19:44

I agree it's not acceptable.

But I'm unsure what you're asking MNHQ to do. What is the point of this thread?

chinchi · 26/04/2008 19:44

I agree

nell12 · 26/04/2008 19:43

Another vote for Headgirl's proposal

TrinityTheProgressingRhino · 26/04/2008 19:43

Totally agree

Blandmum · 26/04/2008 19:43

what a horrible word, I've never heard it used before, how awful.

Saggarmakersbottomknocker · 26/04/2008 19:43

Unacceptable.

dd is proper gorgeous theheadgirl

sarah293 · 26/04/2008 19:41

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avenanap · 26/04/2008 19:39

Sorry. The term, not the thread

avenanap · 26/04/2008 19:39

I feel that this is unacceptable.