blimey, I stay off the computer for one evening, and it fills up.
Harman, yes I live in Maidstone...oh god do you know me??
Well, I was also told at about 20 that my chances of conceiving naturally were virtually nil, due to endemetriosis,(sp) had lots investigations, laparoscopys etc, the just tried to not think about it.
Met 1st H (no D there!!) and he wooed me by telling me he would sell his sports car to pay for IVF. Year later, I fell pg naturally, and he told me, get rid of it, or I'm leaving,,,(yes, nice guy)
Obviously, dd was born 9 mths and 18 days late!!
Like a sucker, took him back, kind of, he got sent to prison, (refer to nice guy statement)told him, if we were going to get back together, then I really couldn't see me living with just one child, ds appeared 9mths later. (doctors really know what they're talking about round here)
Couple years later, eventually found the strength to kick him out, it's amazing what you find out after you've had enough eh? I think he must have had affairs with most of the slappers where we lived.
Met love of my life a year later, talked about what we wanted, having death threats, his car wrecked, etc and my 2 kids wasn't enough to put him off, so 4 mths in I was pg, after one cycle of trying.
ds is nearly 5. dd followed 21 mths later, dd 2years and a month after her.And just got green light yesterday to have my last!!!!(I had to promise not to want any more after that!!)
have had 3 angel babies too, one fairly late, 21 wks, 2 at 11wks.
My menfolk are out at footie practice at mo, bubs in bed, littlies playing, and me relaxing here. Ahhh
Oh yeah, I baked biscuits with littlies at 7am this morn, so am feeling all smug.