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Dear Mumsnet please could we have a 'Larger Families' section?

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PaulaYatesBiggestFan · 13/03/2008 20:31

rather like the 'multiples' section

it could be for 4+ children maybe and we can all get together and discuss how to run home soup kitchens/chinese laundry and whether or not Nick Leeson had the right idea for how to finance our broods?

I have mooted it before and people seem quite keen - it is different having a lot of children and it helps to have support

Thanks !

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PaulaYatesBiggestFan · 20/03/2008 21:46

I am 40!

Psychomum - we are two down in the domino effect!!

DD went out to a lomg awaited birthday sleep over at her best friends and was promptly sick in the loos of pizza express.....it is a long night ahead

I have put old towels and bowls in everyones rooms plus changed of bedding and nightwear on all their chairs in case of middle of the night voms!

I am rubbiing anti - bac gel into mine and dp's hands madly

DP is self employed - NEVER has any time off and we have A LOT of diy planned for this weekend

I told him - no matter how ill he is tomorrow he is going to Wickes aren't I mean!!?

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liahgen · 20/03/2008 20:02

If I am going out and the kids need to be somewhere specific, I do have to leave precis instructions.
Dh is very good but, nothing else gets done when he is in charge, and they generally eat out!!. Bless.

Did anyone conceive before getting periods back? littlest is 10mths and I don't normally get any periods until have completely finished feeding no matter how little or how much baby';s taking. Had to stop at 15 mths with dc 4 so we coule work on dc5, but am a bit reluctant to do that this time.

Maybe we will just see what happens, I'm 41 now so maybe it won't happen , who knows.

Any more older mums amongst us?

cazboldy · 20/03/2008 19:40

oooh Pollyanna - how exciting

and Pollyanna was my first shetland pony's name

My dh is exactly like that! everything has to be done before I go anywhere.........but I might be a bit of a control freak, cos I don't like the way he does things

Psychomum5 · 20/03/2008 18:41

oh, was thinking he should just be able to know what to do....like osmosis type thing.

as for swedes post....I am thinking it may be a 'tongue in cheek' response to another thread going on today!

magnolia74 · 20/03/2008 18:39

By Swedes on Thu 20-Mar-08 18:15:59
Can we have a larger families by a number of different fathers section?

magnolia74 · 20/03/2008 18:38

My dh is great if I am going out but he would probably find it hard to do what you have put without some gentle reminding and maybe a list

Psychomum5 · 20/03/2008 18:31

sorry....DD2 is scouting!

Psychomum5 · 20/03/2008 18:31

ok, I want to ask a question, and only you ot will be able to tell me if it is me, or whether DH is the odd one.

I am going out tonight with the b'mouth MNers.

DD1 and DD3 are at dancing until 7pm.
DD3 needs to be at scouts for 7.30pm.
DS1 is ill (sick)
DS2 is being a pickle
I need to be at the restaurant by 7.30, but can be a little late as the others will drink and not care.

I am telling DH who needs picking up, who needs dropping, the plans for DD2 to get home after scouts, where to put DS1 as his bed is still airing from the sick all over it in the night.....

he is confused, has said my brain works to fast and my mouth faster and that I am going to have to sort me out and leave him a list of what to do with everyone, and text him to remind him about DD2 later when I am out.

HE IS THEIR PARENT TOO........surely after 15yrs together, 14 being parents, the last 5 as parents of 5, he should have some idea pn how to keep tabs on everyone too without my 100% imput ALL THE TIME.

is it me, my DH, or do you all have the same problems with YOUR DH's????

PaulaYatesBiggestFan · 20/03/2008 18:21

Caz!! Fantastic re the Asda

I am very pleased with it actually - veg looks much fresher than sainsburys MUCH!!!

also this price matching business is soo far superior to sainsburys in that i do not pay more for a substituted item - so far so good !

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Pollyanna · 20/03/2008 18:20

Hello, do I qualify too?

ds 9
dd1 7
dd2 5
dd3 3

dc5 due next week.

I would probably like 6 (but need to get no 5 born first and persuade dh!).

NomDePlume · 20/03/2008 18:17

Crikey Idobelieveinfairies ! 8 ! And DH & I think we're brave for thinking about DC4

Swedes · 20/03/2008 18:15

Can we have a larger families by a number of different fathers section?

magnolia74 · 20/03/2008 18:15

Mine go through stages of thinking he is ok, him and my dad clash a bit though so I try not to let them see each other too often

cazboldy · 20/03/2008 18:13

You could say that magnolia (he was 19) but I was very grown up, and he was (is) very immature)

It caused even more of a stir when I got pg!

We have been married for 10 years, and they still say it won't last

They have come round a bit lately as my sis is now a single mum, and they are not at all sure about my brother's wife, so they are starting to think that actually dh isn't so terrible after all

SheherazadetheGoat · 20/03/2008 18:10

can your section be called 'lucky bitches'! i come from alarge family and wish i had a huge brood.

magnolia74 · 20/03/2008 18:08

Wow Caz, did the age gap cause a stir with your parents? (the being with him at 13 I mean )

I was 16 when I met dh and moved in with him within a year My parenst were not impressed
Feels nice to prove them wrong though

cazboldy · 20/03/2008 18:03

I did an asda shop on line the other day, and it came to £354 for about a fortnight! (excluding milk and fruit and veg! )

cazboldy · 20/03/2008 18:02

PYBF - I was 15 two months before he was born

dh and I have been together since I was 13, and we got married just after I turned 16

Cadmum · 20/03/2008 15:40

My post was cut short...

We only have 4

DS1 11
DD1 9
DS2 6
DD2 2

Cadmum · 20/03/2008 15:35

Chinese Laundry... Don't even get me STARTED!

I knew that my life had become truly pathetic when I nearly, oh so nearly started a thread about how often people wash everyone's bedding.

I might change my name to short-order-cook first though.

I'm in. Thanks.

Psychomum5 · 20/03/2008 15:29

paula....don;t you just find that!!!!

I swear there is some type of geenie watching over me, and as soon as he see's me all relaxed and thinking we could actually have a nice calm holiday, he zaps me with something and ensure's it all goes to pot....!

tiredmumov4 · 20/03/2008 15:21

hi can i join im 30 dh 31 and we have
ds 6
dd 4
ds 2
ds 4.5 months and i recon we are done dh says no more unles we can get one that s*s gold !!

PaulaYatesBiggestFan · 20/03/2008 14:59

yes psycho ds4 has one today and dp said 'bodes well for the holiday!'

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Psychomum5 · 20/03/2008 14:57

I'm jumpin in

DD1 14 next week
DD2 12
DD3 9
DS1 7
DS2 5

I am 35, DH 38, and with this ot we both feel ancient most of the time!!!!

got DS1 with nasty sick bug today tho, so wait for easter sunday and we will all have it as we go down like domino's in our house!!!!

PaulaYatesBiggestFan · 20/03/2008 14:52

yes Lisa lisa I am surpirised how many are coming forward

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