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Dear Mumsnet please could we have a 'Larger Families' section?

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PaulaYatesBiggestFan · 13/03/2008 20:31

rather like the 'multiples' section

it could be for 4+ children maybe and we can all get together and discuss how to run home soup kitchens/chinese laundry and whether or not Nick Leeson had the right idea for how to finance our broods?

I have mooted it before and people seem quite keen - it is different having a lot of children and it helps to have support

Thanks !

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Psychomum5 · 21/03/2008 14:38

lol kitty. yup, there is that big downside to a large family........pelvic floor is trashed!!

I remember sobbing for hours on my youngest ones 3rd birthday as I always by then had had another, and he was most definately my last, which made all rather heart wrenching.

tokk until he was at full time school, and I found that I could go shopping alone, and even have a hot cup of coffee, befoer I stopped with the gut wretching broodiness!!!!

kittywise · 21/03/2008 13:55

I'd like another, but I think that feeling will never go away no matter how many more I have..

Sometimes I think it's all I know how how do. When my babies approach their first birthday I have always got broody, it's happening AGAIN but I have never bothered to resist the urge before.I think 6 kids is enough, although the kids want three more

Must think of my poor old pelvic floor, may it rest in peace

137wallis · 21/03/2008 11:36

ahh thats great, go and have a rest even if you don't get sick! I don't drive, as I would be causing accidents! still can't drive a pushchair very well after nearly 10 yrs with one!

ggglmpp · 21/03/2008 11:34

I never know what to put - but I have

DD 18
DD 16
DD 11
DS 8
DD 2
DS 3 months

and a DSS 18.

If I were 10 years younger I would have another one.....

Psychomum5 · 21/03/2008 11:33

I just rang DH and asked him if we had any spare cash......his first question was whether I had crashed the car again.

just cos I have had 3 accidents doesn't mean that every time I ask for money means I have had another now does it?????

hopefully he will be headed home soon, specially as I too now have the beginnings of tummy ache.

137wallis · 21/03/2008 11:29

coffee definatly! not so much wine as still breastfeeding! but will be back on that soon! you have my sympathy, all that sick and no telly my idea of hell! luckily none of mine are ill at the mo so theyre all outside getting muddy with daddy!

Psychomum5 · 21/03/2008 11:27

wow, 5 boys........you must go thro a lot of wine and coffee.

yup, DH needs lots of lists as and when I am not here, just to be able to cope with the amount of info needed to keep tabs on them all!

137wallis · 21/03/2008 11:26

oh and liahgen I got pregnant with my 5th without restarting periods, as was still feeding ds 4, and don't have them either, was a bit of a shock, when the doc actually confirmed that I didn't just have a bug!

137wallis · 21/03/2008 11:23

hi I would love to join!
I have
ds 9
ds 7
ds 6
ds 2
ds 9 1/2 months
I'm 26 and dh 34 and we've been together for 12years he wants at least 2 more, but I'm holding off for a bit!
as he is just like psycomum5's dh and is fine if I leave them, but needs me to write a full bulletin whats going on list every time!

Psychomum5 · 21/03/2008 11:17

Think of me more now......

TV downstairs just effing blew up (not literally, but it fizzled and the nuffin)

how the hell am I going to cope with them all now hey.....sickness abounding and TV was the thing keeping them grounded while huggin their bowls, and I could MN.....

PaulaYatesBiggestFan · 21/03/2008 11:02

lol Psych i keep thinking of you!

we have ds4 sick all yesterday and now a shadow of former self nibbling on a rice cake

dd pale and puking

ds3 diarrhoearing but not yet sick - wont stop eating though so that should be fun

me feeling iffy but have done most of pg so would not know difference!

i shall keep you posted!

thank gawd for my ironer!!

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Psychomum5 · 21/03/2008 10:57

collision.......I do it all with lots of humour and much wine

collision · 21/03/2008 10:56

I shall lurk on here and watch you all with admiration and think

'how the hell do you do it?'

I have 2 boys of 5 and 3 and dont want anymore but really admire those of you who cope with the cooking and the washing!

Psychomum5 · 21/03/2008 10:55

ok......maybe three for us into the domino effect.....arghhhh

DS1 came in looking better, followed by DS2 complaining of tummy ache in the same way DS1 did about an hour before he started throwing up, and then came DD3 complaining the same.

DD1 now next to me also saying her tummy hurts, but by all accounts in a different way to the others, so I am confused, which doesn;t take much these days!

sooooooo........we will see what the day brings now, and hopefully the rain will hold off for me to do sime washing should they start with the vomiting.

Oh, DD2 is complaining of BOREDOM as all are ill and I am not jumping to her her every whim.

waggledancer · 21/03/2008 10:46

I qualify.

DD1 17 (18 in 11 days)
DS1 14
DS2 2
DS3 9 months

We are having T-shirts printed saying "Yes, we are mad!"

Am nearly 41 and have definitely finished at 4, but now DS3 is growing am feeling wistful.

Swedes · 21/03/2008 10:31

My comment was in light of another thread.

I would like to join - I have:
DS1 16 years old
DS2 12 years old
DD1 2 years old
DS3 8 months old

oliviaelanasmum · 21/03/2008 09:31

Hi i have
dd1-6
dd2-3 (next saturday)
dd3-6 months
dc4 due october/november
dp 43 me 26

YeahBut · 21/03/2008 09:25

at you all with the lovely big gangs. I'm desperate for a 4th but dh says no way. Anyway, hope you get your own section!

cadelaide · 21/03/2008 09:23

By cadelaide on Sun 16-Mar-08 23:11:56
"jealous of you all.

I've had to stop at 3.

I shall woefully lurk."

....I must just pop in and retract that statement.

I've been thinking about it and I'm so very lucky to have my 3, some never get any at all.

I hope you get your board (and I shall cheerfully lurk!)

evenhope · 21/03/2008 09:16

liahgen I'm 44

kittywise · 20/03/2008 22:08

God we need one of these. I've wanted one for ages. I have 6 little ones and I think sharing tips, discussing the problems that larger families bring would be great

TheDuchyEggOfNorksBride · 20/03/2008 22:06

I'll be the newbie...

DD1 - 6yo
DS1 - 4yo
DD2 - 3yo
DS2 - due in May

I'm nearly 39 so won't be having a 5th - I really don't want to be doing this through my 40s. DH is younger than me.

Stopfighting · 20/03/2008 22:06

Oh, and respect to Idobelieveinfairies.

Out of curiosity, does your body feel any worse after 8 than it did, say, after the fourth or fifth?

PaulaYatesBiggestFan · 20/03/2008 22:03

Yes stopfighting we really do!

Welcome to this half-way house awaiting approval!!

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Stopfighting · 20/03/2008 22:00

Yippee, I qualify too:

DS 12
DD 10
DS 8
DS 5
DD 1

Who else constantly hears: " Oh you're the one with 5 children !" ??

Please make a new section for us. We have our own isues...