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Why are you making fun of someone's appearance with your logo change

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Reasonableadjustments · 06/05/2023 06:50

Can I ask why you've changed the logo to be big ears to poke fun at King Charles?

I'm not a royalist but I don't think making fun of someone like this for their appearance is really fair.

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VisionsOfSplendour · 07/05/2023 09:44

we think it’s important as a society that we can freely make fun of the rich and powerful
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So if we un pick that a little @YetAnotherBeckyMumsnet are those who become rich through bloody hard work or winning the lottery or luck in the property market fair game or is it the landed gentry only?

What about for example someone who receives a large insurance payout as a result to horrendous medical malpractice?

I can't help but think that your policy is a little ill judged and light on detail, wlll you be updating the guidelines?

StormzyinaTCup · 07/05/2023 09:42

Where's the income cut off at which mocking becomes allowed? Does that apply to all ages or is it ok to mock the physical appearance of a child if they have wealthy parents?

Yes, I think we need need an appendix to the MN T&Cs on this 'new rule' just so we are all clear:

  1. what's the income bracket?
  2. Is it gender specific?
  3. Is it culturally and ethnically inclusive?
  4. is it just physical appearance or are we including learning difficulties?
  5. are rich people's children fair game?

MNHQ have not put out an apology they have put out a justification and it's made a bad situation worse. They should be way better than this.

megletthesecond · 07/05/2023 09:20

"didn’t think beforehand how it might go down as it was intended as bit of fun".

You're a paid adult in social media, surely part of your role is to bloody well think about these things.

Reasonableadjustments · 07/05/2023 09:14

Justine got her CBE in 2017.

Protestors were getting arrested before that and many times since. Is she going to hand her cbe back? Since she feels so strongly?

Would it be ok to change the logo in such a way that it mocked an element of her appearance, given that she's one of the rich and powerful?

Where's the income cut off at which mocking becomes allowed? Does that apply to all ages or is it ok to mock the physical appearance of a child if they have wealthy parents?

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Treesandsheepeverywhere · 07/05/2023 09:13

"we think it’s important as a society that we can freely make fun of the rich and powerful...."

@mumsnet, is this a joke? It certainly isn't an apology!

Do you teach kids this?

There'll always be someone richer, so where is the cut off point before you're deemed too poor to be bullied?

Bullying is just plain wrong, be it at school, in the workplace, at home or online.
To base it on looks, that most people can't change, is deplorable.

On a site meant for supporting each other, when the people at the top come up with such, it's disgusting.

But people make mistakes, and having been iven a chance to respond,
you come up with that as an apology????

SunnyEgg · 07/05/2023 09:07

Polarsnare · 07/05/2023 09:03

we think it’s important as a society that we can freely make fun of the rich and powerful

I didn't see the logo but what the fuck is this statement? Appalling.

When since have they thought this to be important?

I seem to recall some celeb threads going as NITS. Not all though maybe there’s an approved laugh at these people list

Did Justine really say ok post that, they’re not short of a bob or two

Polarsnare · 07/05/2023 09:03

we think it’s important as a society that we can freely make fun of the rich and powerful

I didn't see the logo but what the fuck is this statement? Appalling.

ElonMust · 07/05/2023 09:00

YetAnotherBeckyMumsnet · 06/05/2023 10:26

Hi everyone - we’re sorry that the logo has upset everyone. We honestly didn’t think beforehand how it might go down as it was intended as bit of fun - but we take your point. In a world where people are being arrested for being antimonarchist, we think it’s important as a society that we can freely make fun of the rich and powerful but clearly we misjudged the mood and it was poorly executed. We've now taken it down.

In a world where people are dying as a result of vaccine injuries, and seeing as mumsnet think it’s important as a society that you can make fun of the rich and powerful, so why not put some dollar signs on the covid threads?

I mean it’s not as if Pfizer and others haven’t made billions from this.

Whataretheodds · 07/05/2023 08:57

YetAnotherBeckyMumsnet · 06/05/2023 10:26

Hi everyone - we’re sorry that the logo has upset everyone. We honestly didn’t think beforehand how it might go down as it was intended as bit of fun - but we take your point. In a world where people are being arrested for being antimonarchist, we think it’s important as a society that we can freely make fun of the rich and powerful but clearly we misjudged the mood and it was poorly executed. We've now taken it down.

Come off it! Don't compare the logo to antic monarchist protestors.

There was nothing in that logo that critiqued an archaic institution which allows the preservation of significant wealth and power along hereditary lines. Just playground teasing.

Tirrrrred · 07/05/2023 08:48

In a world where people are being arrested for being antimonarchist, we think it’s important as a society that we can freely make fun of the rich and powerful but clearly we misjudged the mood and it was poorly executed.

It must have been an error surely? Did she miss out a sentence after powerful??

Furries · 07/05/2023 02:20

Rubbish response from HQ.

I, too, would like to know their criteria/cut-off level as to when it becomes fine to be free to mock the rich/privileged etc.

Have reported their post back to them.

This site keeps taking some slightly odd turns.

bd67thSaysReinstateLangCleg · 07/05/2023 01:04

fUNNYfACE36 · 06/05/2023 22:42

Do the rich and powerful not have feelings any more?

It's not about the rich and powerful's feelings. It's about refusing to mock big or bat ears. I live with lifelong pain from my childhood ear pinning. If "big ears" was not an insult, my parents would not have agreed to that purely cosmetic surgery.

fUNNYfACE36 · 06/05/2023 22:42

Do the rich and powerful not have feelings any more?

LittleBrenda · 06/05/2023 22:12

What's the amount of money a person needs to have before we can attack their appearance?

Will that information be released monthly?

Sunak is richer than the King already isn't he so he's OK for us to attack?

SunnyEgg · 06/05/2023 20:00

Reasonableadjustments · 06/05/2023 19:59

I do hope Justine was making fun of the royals when she got her CBE

Or did she miss that memo?

I wonder if she left the chippy republican manning the site to post this stuff whilst at a coronation do

Reasonableadjustments · 06/05/2023 19:59

I do hope Justine was making fun of the royals when she got her CBE

Or did she miss that memo?

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treespouse · 06/05/2023 19:56

we think it’s important as a society that we can freely make fun of the rich and powerful

Wait, WHAT?!
What's happened to this site?!

DidyouNO · 06/05/2023 17:33

Parents come on this site to ask advice. There have been a few threads about children getting their ears pinned back and now the same parents who worried about how their children will be treated have their fears confirmed by the very site that should help them. Absolutely disgusting!!

SirChenjins · 06/05/2023 16:52

Jonei · 06/05/2023 16:23

I think the problem is all yours unfortunately. You could work on that.

No - it’s all yours.

ExhaustedPigwidgeon · 06/05/2023 16:31

For someone who had better things to do today you’ve wasted an awful lot of time making goady posts.

Efacsen · 06/05/2023 16:31

Reasonableadjustments · 06/05/2023 16:15

I've been out. I haven't seen the thread about the kings teeth but I will go and look for it now and report it.

Nasty comments about appearance are not ok.

There's also an equally unpleasant Coronation Special about Carole Middletons face

Jonei · 06/05/2023 16:23

EarringsandLipstick · 06/05/2023 15:44

Sorry to hear that you're struggling with that.

😂 not at all, just unfortunate for you to be unable to write in any way clearly.

I think the problem is all yours unfortunately. You could work on that.

NotOnTheList · 06/05/2023 16:21

lljkk · 06/05/2023 16:10

Will mumsnet delete nasty, personal comments about appearance from now on then?

I hope so. Maybe I'll start to report each and every one.

I hope so too. I have reported many and have been told they’re fine, even when I’ve kept questioning them. They told me in an email once that had a certain comment been said about a poster here, they would have deleted it as a personal attack, but as it was a public figure, they felt it was ok! Then sometimes they do end up deleting the whole thread days later as the comments escalate but not always. No idea how their moderation works.

Reasonableadjustments · 06/05/2023 16:15

I've been out. I haven't seen the thread about the kings teeth but I will go and look for it now and report it.

Nasty comments about appearance are not ok.

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lljkk · 06/05/2023 16:10

Will mumsnet delete nasty, personal comments about appearance from now on then?

I hope so. Maybe I'll start to report each and every one.

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