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Moderation Sex Board

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onirgellep · 13/04/2023 23:06

Back in February Justine* committed to an urgent review of moderation of the Sex Board subsequent to the considerable concerns mainly arising from the longstanding Sex Chat thread

Unsurprisingly, issues continue

Would it be possible to have an update on the progress of the review?

And hear when do you anticipate it being completed and the new moderation put into action?

Thank you

I'm afraid I'm unable to link Justine's post on the thread References to Underage Sex on the Sex Board* page 13

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HornyBee · 15/04/2023 18:41

In case you didn't see mumsnet post earlier @Bamboux

we'd be grateful if this thread could remain about policy, rather than personal comments about individual posters.

Surplus2requirements · 15/04/2023 18:41

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With respect I didn't reply to you

Bamboux · 15/04/2023 18:38

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Bamboux · 15/04/2023 18:37

I see someone managed to get my post deleted for expressing the apparently verboten opinion that men don't get to tell women that we should lighten up and not mind sexual harassment. Interesting moderation choice.

Well done. You must be very proud.

StraightOuttaContext · 15/04/2023 18:37

I don't understand the purpose of the rhetorical question @everywhichway I'm not being goady, I genuinely don't get it. You're under zero obligation to explain but it would help my tired brain if someone did lol!

Mermaidparades · 15/04/2023 18:24

@Bamboux rhetorical question, remember?

Bamboux · 15/04/2023 18:21

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So your earlier post asking me to recommend sex sites to you was not a genuine post then?

Bamboux · 15/04/2023 18:20

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everywhichway · 15/04/2023 18:20

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We've removed this post as we understand there may underage content on this site which we strongly oppose.

Theyresexpeoplemn · 15/04/2023 18:19

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horridjobescapee · 15/04/2023 18:15

So why did you ask for suggestions then? And why do you specifically need suggestions from women of mumsnet?

everywhichway · 15/04/2023 18:14

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horridjobescapee · 15/04/2023 18:12

@everywhichway can't you use google?

everywhichway · 15/04/2023 18:10

onirgellep · 15/04/2023 18:08

Perhaps you'd like to suggest a suitable alternative site for people like that to go to then @everywhichway

Hmmm

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I wouldn't know, having never used any for such purposes.

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onirgellep · 15/04/2023 18:08

everywhichway · 15/04/2023 15:09

Perhaps you'd like to suggest a suitable alternative site for people like that to go to then?

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Perhaps you'd like to suggest a suitable alternative site for people like that to go to then @everywhichway

Hmmm

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horridjobescapee · 15/04/2023 18:06

@Surplus2requirements with respect that's not how I read it.

HornyBee · 15/04/2023 18:06

TheShellBeach · 15/04/2023 18:02

Out of interest, was that comment sent to you when a comment you made was deleted?

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Yesterday? Erm.... no, because mumsnet only said it today 🤷🏼‍♀️ What are you talking about?

Surplus2requirements · 15/04/2023 18:04

horridjobescapee · 15/04/2023 17:59

I have reported my comment and asked MNHQ to confirm one way or another what is allowed.

I find it staggering that a request to direct to other sleazy sex chat sites on the internet would not be allowed to be challenged on any thread on mumsnet and have asked MNHQ to confirm.

I challenge racist opinions. I challenge ableist opinions. I challenge sexist opinions. For example. I also report. And have, on numerous occasions, been told that MNHQ are not going to delete the comment but please challenge it on the thread. Which I then have done.

It is worrying to me that this cannot be done on this thread, especially given the subject matter and the request for sleazy sex sites.

With respect I think you're taking it far to seriously.
It read to me as a light hearted response to the many many other posts saying there are so many other places to go

TheShellBeach · 15/04/2023 18:02

HornyBee · 15/04/2023 17:58

we'd be grateful if this thread could remain about policy, rather than personal comments about individual posters.

What further clarification do you need?

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Out of interest, was that comment sent to you when a comment you made was deleted?

Mermaidparades · 15/04/2023 18:02

@TheShellBeach tell your friends, one of them has just accused @everywhichway of being a sexual predator. I reported instantly.

horridjobescapee · 15/04/2023 17:59

I have reported my comment and asked MNHQ to confirm one way or another what is allowed.

I find it staggering that a request to direct to other sleazy sex chat sites on the internet would not be allowed to be challenged on any thread on mumsnet and have asked MNHQ to confirm.

I challenge racist opinions. I challenge ableist opinions. I challenge sexist opinions. For example. I also report. And have, on numerous occasions, been told that MNHQ are not going to delete the comment but please challenge it on the thread. Which I then have done.

It is worrying to me that this cannot be done on this thread, especially given the subject matter and the request for sleazy sex sites.

Bamboux · 15/04/2023 17:59

TheShellBeach · 15/04/2023 17:52

I believe that we are on a slippery slope to getting this thread deleted.
There are posters on here who are trying to be provocative.
May I suggest that nobody rises to it. Too many of these threads have been deleted. Let's try to keep this one.

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There are a lot of men who really can't stand the fact that they're not welcome or wanted in a space so they have to destroy or annex it. Being rejected or ignored by women is too familiar and painful an experience, so they have to use whatever weapons they have to try to get a reaction. Because even a negative reaction is attention; it confirms that they exist. It's the same motivation that drives flashers and public wankers.

HornyBee · 15/04/2023 17:58

horridjobescapee · 15/04/2023 17:54

I challenge comments on lots of threads @HornyBee

@mnhq can you please confirm whether we should or should not be saying that comments are unacceptable? That seems designed to allow perverts and miscreants of all kinds to run riot on here.

Thank you.

we'd be grateful if this thread could remain about policy, rather than personal comments about individual posters.

What further clarification do you need?

Surplus2requirements · 15/04/2023 17:57

This isn't the Sex Board it's Site Stuff. Please can we respect HQ before yet another thread gets deleted

HornyBee · 15/04/2023 17:55

horridjobescapee · 15/04/2023 17:54

I challenge comments on lots of threads @HornyBee

@mnhq can you please confirm whether we should or should not be saying that comments are unacceptable? That seems designed to allow perverts and miscreants of all kinds to run riot on here.

Thank you.

But on this thread mumsnet have specifically asked people not to.

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