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Sex board in Active and Ann Summers

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AutumnLeavesFallingIntoPlace · 22/02/2023 17:37

Hi @MNHQ

As the previous thread about the sex board being in Active is almost full after a lot of discussion, I think a few of us were hoping you could address the main concerns arising:

  • firstly and most importantly, it seems that no one wants it in Active. Posters on the sex board and off are widely agreeing across all threads that it was better not showing in Active for many reasons. It's making everyone's experience worse.
  • secondly, we'd like to know to what extent Ann Summers and other advertisers have dictated the change in the sex board's visibility and the change in users being required to register three months prior to being able to post on the sex board to seven days. The 'reigniting intimacy' promotional piece seems to suggest this is a deliberate choice to bring the forum 'inline with [Ann Summers'] Pleasure Positivity Project'. Given the response to previous threads on Ann Summers in 2021 and 2022, they are not popular with many site users and their maternity/postpartum promotion might be considered to be unhelpful and unsupportive of new mothers and very much not in the spirit of MN.
  • the sex board hosts a sexchat thread which invites users to contact each other via DM for explicit conversation and then move to other platforms to continue. There are no safety warnings or age verification on the sex board and this puts users at risk of predators exploiting MN's trustworthy reputation, particularly given the change in registration requirements
  • finally, a lot of us wonder why MN have done such a u turn on the sex board, having argued initially that it would attract trolls. How and why did this change?
OP posts:
lovem · 22/02/2023 17:50

Thanks @AutumnLeavesFallingIntoPlace and also placemarking to hear reply.

Freshair87 · 22/02/2023 17:47

Good summary and agree with all points

onirgellep · 22/02/2023 17:46

Thanks OP

Excellent synopsis

Getir · 22/02/2023 17:44

Thanks, OP. I'd like some answers to your questions from MNHQ too,

LangClegsInSpace · 22/02/2023 17:43

Excellent summary, thank you. I hope MNHQ give a meaningful response.

PlaitBilledDuckyPuss · 22/02/2023 17:39

I'd also be interested in the answers to these questions - very pertinent, OP.