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Original poster

Why are you allowing people to troll the Sex Board?

262 replies

HornyBee · 18/02/2023 12:36

If it was any other board you wouldn't allow it.
If I went on another board and started posting recipes and taking the piss out of the posters I'd quickly be banned.
It is flooded with people trolling it.
Every single thread.
It's really horrible.
Take it off active or just shut the whole board down.
It's disgusting.

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PifflePishAndPap · 19/02/2023 22:37

Hawkins003 · 19/02/2023 22:30

Just a bit, cuppa tea ? Least I'm memorable,

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Well tbf so is the boil I had on my arse in 1983 so...

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HornyBee · 19/02/2023 22:35

TheShellBeach · 19/02/2023 22:32

"Maybe look at threads going back to a few months ago"

No thanks. I did, and they are as grim as the current ones.

Well obviously I didn't mean YOU did I! You can't be trusted to look at threads in the sex topic without trolling them with your hilarious little comments.

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TheShellBeach · 19/02/2023 22:32

"Maybe look at threads going back to a few months ago"

No thanks. I did, and they are as grim as the current ones.

Hawkins003 · 19/02/2023 22:31

TheShellBeach · 19/02/2023 22:31

I do mind the sleazy hook up thread

And so do I.
I feel that it is out of place on MN.

I can understand knowledge and tips, but I agree that's one thread I would pull

Getir · 19/02/2023 22:31

BIWI · 19/02/2023 22:28

All the best @Hawkins003

🤣

TheShellBeach · 19/02/2023 22:31

I do mind the sleazy hook up thread

And so do I.
I feel that it is out of place on MN.

Hawkins003 · 19/02/2023 22:30

BIWI · 19/02/2023 22:28

All the best @Hawkins003

Just a bit, cuppa tea ? Least I'm memorable,

Hawkins003 · 19/02/2023 22:30

radiatorflush · 19/02/2023 22:29

I don't mind mechanics of sex posts. I don't even mind the anal and rimming ones - although they're not for me.

I do mind the sleazy hook up thread.

And I do mind having them in active. And because I use the app I can't hide them.

With that context I can understand your perspectives.

radiatorflush · 19/02/2023 22:29

I don't mind mechanics of sex posts. I don't even mind the anal and rimming ones - although they're not for me.

I do mind the sleazy hook up thread.

And I do mind having them in active. And because I use the app I can't hide them.

BIWI · 19/02/2023 22:28

All the best @Hawkins003

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HornyBee · 19/02/2023 22:26

gamerchick · 19/02/2023 22:20

The whole tone on that board is off now tbh. There's a woman on obviously distressed by her blokes porn usage and she's got grow up and men are visual creatures. It's weird.

At least now some sensible replies can come along if it's in active. Rather than just tell someone to grow up for not wanting porn in her house.

I actually think it's the other way round. I don't think the 'grow up' comments would have been said before. I think those comments have come from it being on active.
It really was a nice supportive place before. Maybe look at threads going back to a few months ago.

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Hawkins003 · 19/02/2023 22:23

AnotherAppleThief · 18/02/2023 13:12

You're right, it is disgusting.

It's disgusting that I now have to see titles about rimming and flesh lights and anal whilst browsing MN at the breakfast table with my 12 year old nearby.

It's disgusting that MNHQ have a product to sell and have unilaterally decided that we should all see your disgusting topics and conversation titles.

No thanks.

And if you think for a minute that the sex board isn't already heaving with trolls and perverts, you're sadly mistaken.

So how do you square a parenting site that also includes information on the mechanics of becoming a parent?

gamerchick · 19/02/2023 22:20

The whole tone on that board is off now tbh. There's a woman on obviously distressed by her blokes porn usage and she's got grow up and men are visual creatures. It's weird.

At least now some sensible replies can come along if it's in active. Rather than just tell someone to grow up for not wanting porn in her house.

BIWI · 19/02/2023 22:19

I'm not giggling about anything. And I'm quite happy to say 'cunt' without the need for twee asterisks.

I'll also happily call out a man for mansplaining.

But you do you. If you like being patronised by a man, then fill your boots.

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HornyBee · 19/02/2023 22:14

BIWI · 19/02/2023 22:01

Well yes, generally, mansplaining is done by men.

And actually, I don't find much about the sleazy sex chat thread funny.

Interested, though, that you seem to think that's immature? Why?

I don't find anything about the sex chat thread funny either.

I find it immature to try to insult a man by telling him he's 'mansplaining' after every comment or opinion he gives.

A bit like if I replied to all your comments saying 'c*nt'. It's a bit childish and immature in my opinion. But that's just my opinion. You giggle away!

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Surplus2requirements · 19/02/2023 22:01

DanseAvecLesLoup · 19/02/2023 21:56

Mansplaining squared?

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Or two negatives make a positive? 🤔

BIWI · 19/02/2023 22:01

Well yes, generally, mansplaining is done by men.

And actually, I don't find much about the sleazy sex chat thread funny.

Interested, though, that you seem to think that's immature? Why?

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HornyBee · 19/02/2023 21:58

Mermaidparades · 19/02/2023 21:52

@Surplus2requirements wasn’t mansplaining though

I wouldn't bother. Anything he says is 'mansplaining' on the basis that he is a man. They are just immature and think it's funny.

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DanseAvecLesLoup · 19/02/2023 21:56

BIWI · 19/02/2023 21:46

With respect (seriously) I think its fair to think I might have a better idea of what most men would like to get themselves off and the use of man's planning is unfair and trying to shut me down

So you're mansplaining about the mansplaining?! Grin

Mansplaining squared?

radiatorflush · 19/02/2023 21:53

I don't object to the sex board. I'd like to post there about sex issues post menopause.

But the hook up thread means I'll never post there. That thread is just sleazy. It makes me feel that the whole board is just wank fodder.

Mermaidparades · 19/02/2023 21:52

@Surplus2requirements wasn’t mansplaining though

BIWI · 19/02/2023 21:51

Or fools, @radiatorflush Grin

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HornyBee · 19/02/2023 21:48

Clymene · 19/02/2023 21:45

You're salty because you're using the board to hook up with blokes. I'm sure there are other places to do that

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Have you actually read my op?
I had an issue with the trolling of the sex board that wasn't being dealt with.

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radiatorflush · 19/02/2023 21:48

Great minds @BIWI

BIWI · 19/02/2023 21:46

With respect (seriously) I think its fair to think I might have a better idea of what most men would like to get themselves off and the use of man's planning is unfair and trying to shut me down

So you're mansplaining about the mansplaining?! Grin