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ofwarren · 11/02/2023 09:26

Hi,

The Nicola Bulley thread must have been hidden overnight by nightwatch. I wasn't on it at the time to see what happened.
Are we allowed the post back or are we not allowed to discuss it now?

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EarringsandLipstick · 11/02/2023 14:04

JaneJeffer · 11/02/2023 13:19

Amazed at the people who followed 7 threads whilst being horrified at them all.

Or people who dipped in & out, as I did, and thought their premise, and how they broadly were headed, was really unpalatable?

SueG60 · 11/02/2023 14:03

ThighMistress · 11/02/2023 13:51

I agree @SueG60 . I saw the altercation yesterday and felt that commenting so authoritatively on the state of NB’s mental health was really unpleasant and you were quite right to challenge it.

I feel bad though because in the process of trying to say its not a suicide case I think I upset some people. People were speculating it was, I said its not, they say 'how do you know it could be', I then give reasons why its very much not likely, then people pop up saying how they know somebody who did it without any signs beforehand and how I'm wrong.

So apologies again if I upset anyone with that. I just don't think it can be discussed sensibly without becoming chaos, and everything that can be said about it has already been said, unless any more evidence comes to light.

EarringsandLipstick · 11/02/2023 14:03

you seem to be spending a lot of time on here covering it and have spent a lot of time reading all the news reports.

How stupid.

I'm not a) spending a lot of time - it's a few minutes several times over a day b) reading all the news reports - I keep appraised in a normal, non-obsessive way, like I do with most news stories of national and international relevance.

EarringsandLipstick · 11/02/2023 14:01

Hillsmakeyoustrong · 11/02/2023 12:33

It's seven threads long because they have filled up quickly with those protesting as well. @EarringsandLipstick you are a major contributor to this thread whether you like it or not. This is said respectfully.

😂

'Major contributor' 'Respectfully'

I've given my opinion a number of times on this thread. I've made no comment about the case itself.

No idea what point you are trying to make.

EineKleineNachtwatcher · 11/02/2023 14:01

Anyway, I'll probably turn into a pumpkin or something if I continue to post during daylight hours, so I'm going now.

I just wanted to make it clear that the thread wasn't hidden in response to police or anyone else reporting because NW don't see reports

EineKleineNachtwatcher · 11/02/2023 13:56

Hi ofwarren Smile

Dunno, but I imagine they are still ploughing through the overnight reports!

ofwarren · 11/02/2023 13:52

EineKleineNachtwatcher · 11/02/2023 13:50

Nope. Night Watch don't receive any reports. It's just what we happen to notice or threads that have been drawn to our attention via the NW topic.

I wasn't around last night but the nightwatchers that were felt the thread should be hidden until MNHQ could look more closely at the increasing speculation, insinuation, accusations and acrimony between posters.

NW can't just monitor a thread all night and neither can MNHQ during the day. They rely on reports, as has already been pointed out by some on thie thread.

Thank you
It isn't night watches fault, I totally understand your constraints
I still haven't heard from mumsnet what they are going to do about the locked post though

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ThighMistress · 11/02/2023 13:51

I agree @SueG60 . I saw the altercation yesterday and felt that commenting so authoritatively on the state of NB’s mental health was really unpleasant and you were quite right to challenge it.

EineKleineNachtwatcher · 11/02/2023 13:50

melonraspberry · 11/02/2023 12:40

It also felt at times that it was people working inside the police who were trying to zap the thread - hope I’m not getting too conspiracy like here - with the exception of one regular poster who was local and police related. So that makes it even more important we’re allowed to discuss and raise awareness.

Nope. Night Watch don't receive any reports. It's just what we happen to notice or threads that have been drawn to our attention via the NW topic.

I wasn't around last night but the nightwatchers that were felt the thread should be hidden until MNHQ could look more closely at the increasing speculation, insinuation, accusations and acrimony between posters.

NW can't just monitor a thread all night and neither can MNHQ during the day. They rely on reports, as has already been pointed out by some on thie thread.

confounded234 · 11/02/2023 13:48

Someone earlier was looking for an example of a copper or ex copper trying to shut the post down? Ahem….

SueG60 · 11/02/2023 13:40

What happened last night was a certain poster came on and started trying to attack me as she had done earlier in the day, I asked her to leave me alone and not reply to me anymore and then the thread disappeared shortly after that.

At first I thought there was nothing wrong with this issue being discussed, its a truly horrific situation and people are scared/want answers on whats happened. It makes you think twice about going out on your own.

However, I think it should be left alone now. There are too many posters just trying to look for any reason to blame the family, or to try and say she was suicidal or has walked off without any evidence whatsoever. If you try and push back against their toxic narratives then it descends into arguments and they twist what you say and it goes on and on.

Tidsleytiddy · 11/02/2023 13:29

I found the previous threads no more than an exchange of theories in a deeply upsetting and unsettling case. It is human nature to speculate as to what may or may not have happened to a young mum going about her day x

confounded234 · 11/02/2023 13:26

JaneJeffer · 11/02/2023 13:19

Amazed at the people who followed 7 threads whilst being horrified at them all.

Quite

JaneJeffer · 11/02/2023 13:19

Amazed at the people who followed 7 threads whilst being horrified at them all.

ofwarren · 11/02/2023 13:16

Daisymaker · 11/02/2023 13:15

Thank FUCK

🤣🤣
I laughed far too much at this

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Daisymaker · 11/02/2023 13:15

PurpleButterflyWings · 11/02/2023 11:15

And I shall start by hiding THIS thread!

Thank FUCK

Daisymaker · 11/02/2023 13:14

PurpleButterflyWings · 11/02/2023 10:37

It was 'hidden' (or deleted) because there were some dreadful accusations aimed at Nicola's husband on there from some armchair detectives with naff-all qualifications, who think they know everything about what happened.

People who think they are experts and they know more than the police, more than the experts, and more than the people involved in her life. Some of the accusations were absolutely vile.

It got completely out of hand. No wonder it was taken down. It does NOT need to be re-instated. As a pp said, there were so many deleted comments that it won't make sense. IMO, there is no need to start a new thread either. Nothing new has been found, NOBODY on here knows any more than the police, and her family, and the conspiracy theories. and accusations are dangerous and damaging.

Calm down with the capitals

DingDonkey · 11/02/2023 13:12

If the new thread was a continuation of what was happening on thread 6 I can see why it got pulled. Two posters just arguing and arguing in a very unpleasant manner, someone continuously posting her inane "theories" as if she was speculating about a TV show...

ofwarren · 11/02/2023 13:11

TheWeeDonkeyFella · 11/02/2023 13:03

I much prefer talking about it on here, rather than on twitter/Facebook/Reddit with all the nut jobs.

To be fair, the thread wasn't exactly a sensible exchange of thoughts the last time I looked last night.

I came off it about 10pm so missed all of that.

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Quveas · 11/02/2023 13:10

JaneJeffer · 11/02/2023 12:49

I wasn't on the deleted thread but the previous one definitely had people posting stuff to try and get it deleted whatever their reason was.

Given the nasty and toxic content of three quarters of the posts on MN, I do wonder how you tell the difference? I dipped into those previous threads, and was horrified at a lot of the content - and that was the stuff that wasn't being zapped by moderators.

TheWeeDonkeyFella · 11/02/2023 13:03

I much prefer talking about it on here, rather than on twitter/Facebook/Reddit with all the nut jobs.

To be fair, the thread wasn't exactly a sensible exchange of thoughts the last time I looked last night.

HitTheBars · 11/02/2023 12:59

melonraspberry · 11/02/2023 12:46

Possibly I’m being paranoid. But this is the effect of shutting down conversation.

What makes you feel it’s the police trying to get the thread zapped?

Bluebellwood129 · 11/02/2023 12:56

@JaneJeffer I've no idea if it has been reported but I would assume they would have looked at Strava segments and actively followed up anyone shown to be in the area at that time - particularly a person walking some distance along the river bank.

ThisOrdinaryLife · 11/02/2023 12:53

ofwarren (sorry I don't know how to link back) this is what I'm wondering. I've always thought the river was a red herring, a very obvious one and one that should be investigated, but in other similar cases it would have been just one line of enquiry, not the only line of enquiry.
This tunnel vision is what I think is causing such anguish to Nicola's family and onlookers.

JaneJeffer · 11/02/2023 12:49

I wasn't on the deleted thread but the previous one definitely had people posting stuff to try and get it deleted whatever their reason was.