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Official Complaint to Mumsnet

639 replies

CoconutQueen · 02/02/2023 09:47

Totally inappropriate enormous vibrator adverts now ALL over Mumnset.

What on earth are you thinking of? Is Mumsnet really that short of cash that they have to stoop this low?

Not to mention the ridiculous woke language ie "people with wombs".

Totally inappropriate on ALL levels.

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ShirleyPhallus · 02/02/2023 11:05

Agreed, it’s awful

ValerieDoonican · 02/02/2023 11:05

AllOutofEverything · 02/02/2023 11:01

This is not about babies but about sex toys. Do you think sex toys are necessary to having babies?

Oh absolutely not. The holy act of procreation should not be sullied by any pleasure on the part if the receptacle, should it?

Moopsi · 02/02/2023 11:05

lifeissweet · 02/02/2023 11:00

Looks like it was designed by Team Apex on the Apprentice in 45 minutes while the sub team shouted at a poor graphic designer and argued about the spelling of 'vulva'.

'Green. Let's make it green. All over? Yes. It looks eco friendly doesn't it? Is it diverse enough? As long as we don't use the word woman, we're good'

Do you remember the brown and green "turd" toothbrush from season 16?! 🤣

RaiseTheStakesAndMakeTheLastWordDuckhead · 02/02/2023 11:05

HoodieBell · 02/02/2023 11:04

I'm not offended at all, sorry if some find that offensive. I am a womb and vulva owner, they are both my own not weird mementoes from my serial killing days.

Actual mega-LOL! Thank you!! 🤣

siucra · 02/02/2023 11:05

I think it's been an embarrassment for Mumsnet, to be honest. All this talk about 'down there' and 'vulva owners'. It's not sexy, it's silly.
This company - Smile Makers (yuk) - doesn't care about mothers or women, it just wants to flog a product.
If Mumsnet wants to do deals with companies - and another vibrator company? - then it needs to make sure that it isn't silly, doesn't used womb carriers and is genuinely something that aligns with women's values.
Look at the mess that is happening in Scotland at the moment. Real women's lives are being put in danger because of the desperation not to hurt trans people's feelings. If you asked actual Trans people, then you might find, they don't want to trample over women's rights either.
Mumsnet has been a safe space from this misogyny - please do something about this straight away.
MNHQ - don't you realise we are EXHAUSTED by misogyny, we are feeling under attack and it happens here?

RaiseTheStakesAndMakeTheLastWordDuckhead · 02/02/2023 11:05

I don’t get the drama.

In the ad I’m seeing the word “women” everywhere.

HoodieBell · 02/02/2023 11:04

I'm not offended at all, sorry if some find that offensive. I am a womb and vulva owner, they are both my own not weird mementoes from my serial killing days.

SpareHeirOverThere · 02/02/2023 11:03

God, it does look like Shrek's ear! I can't unsee that now.

UnfinishedBusiness · 02/02/2023 11:03

ok, so if I’m a vulva “owner” does that mean I can take it in and part exchange for a spare pair of hands, or eyes in the back of my head maybe🤷‍♀️

Riverlee · 02/02/2023 11:03

Seriously mumsnet, do you read the threads on the forums and realise how terms like vulva owners are offensive? Of all the sites in all the world, you would have thought mumsnet would have got it, but no. How many times have their been posts where mn-etters have actively boycotted products that disregarded or disrespected women (for me, McCains and their knockers advert).

MrsPelligrinoPetrichor · 02/02/2023 11:03

RedCarsGoFaster · 02/02/2023 10:30

"anybody with a clitoris"?????

FFS, we're women!!! Women!!!

Why is the word women now taboo?

Massive fail by MN and the collaboration company.

Am I a TERF because I have a vulva and a clitoris? Apparently so.

The only good news is it's shit like this that is waking people up to the radical agenda to erase the female sex from real life and allow the trans agenda to overtake us.

THIS!!!

ZeroFuchsGiven · 02/02/2023 11:02

AudreyBabs · 02/02/2023 11:01

Is it suitable for arsehole owners?

'Created by arseholes for arseholes'

IceyDicey · 02/02/2023 11:02

I’m not at all offended by the pictures popping up(fnar fnar). No child is going to recognise what it is.
i absolutely object to the language used in the advert.

AllOutofEverything · 02/02/2023 11:01

TheLeadbetterLife · 02/02/2023 11:00

How can sex and motherhood be taboo? Do they think babies are brought by the stork, or found under gooseberry bushes?

This is not about babies but about sex toys. Do you think sex toys are necessary to having babies?

AudreyBabs · 02/02/2023 11:01

Is it suitable for arsehole owners?

butterfliedtwo · 02/02/2023 11:01

while we are at it, could we have an option to "hide" specific "promoted by mumsnet" headlines that appear interspersed with real chat threads in the Active Conversations list.

Agree with the OP and also with this. Incredibly annoying.

ancientgran · 02/02/2023 11:01

Moopsi · 02/02/2023 10:56

@Octopusmittens not sure what your snide comment means. The ad says it's for people with wombs. I am making the point that you don't need a womb to use a vibrator or have sex and it is offensive to describe women as people with wombs.

Just realised I'm not qualified, "lost" my womb over 20 years ago. Should I have given up sex then or 50 years ago when my first was born. I suddenly realise I've been doing things all wrong for years.

ZeroFuchsGiven · 02/02/2023 11:01

MargaritaRita · 02/02/2023 10:58

The company will be delighted with all this exposure to their product. They don't care about anything but sales, and there's only one thing worse than being talked about, and that's not being talked about.

That makes no sense, literally everyone is saying they would not put money into that company 😂

TheLeadbetterLife · 02/02/2023 11:00

How can sex and motherhood be taboo? Do they think babies are brought by the stork, or found under gooseberry bushes?

lifeissweet · 02/02/2023 11:00

Looks like it was designed by Team Apex on the Apprentice in 45 minutes while the sub team shouted at a poor graphic designer and argued about the spelling of 'vulva'.

'Green. Let's make it green. All over? Yes. It looks eco friendly doesn't it? Is it diverse enough? As long as we don't use the word woman, we're good'

Moopsi · 02/02/2023 10:59

Yeah but most of the women here are saying we won't buy it due to misogyny.

Let alone the similarity to Shrek's earwax.

ItsNotReallyChaos · 02/02/2023 10:59

I find the whole thing bizarre. Anyone who is a regular Mumsnetter could immediately see how very wrong they've got it. It appears they haven't got a clue who their members are. Very poorly judged.

ancientgran · 02/02/2023 10:59

Cherryblossoms85 · 02/02/2023 10:47

I think the only person who had a problem with mothers having sex was Elvis.

Yes and it was considered very weird.

swimlyn · 02/02/2023 10:59

I traded in my Vulva for a Toyota.

MargaritaRita · 02/02/2023 10:58

The company will be delighted with all this exposure to their product. They don't care about anything but sales, and there's only one thing worse than being talked about, and that's not being talked about.