How do we discuss the reality of parts of the UK absorbing large numbers of men from other cultures

Lets face it.
You wanted to spark the flames and hoped the thread would turn into a massive fight which would end up in the DM and you’d just sit back and enjoy the fireworks.

I know this poster from other boards on Mumsnet. Definitely not the case.

So you’re not going to bother answering my questions then??

Even though it was you that started the thread and wanted to encourage discussion??

Lets face it.
You wanted to spark the flames and hoped the thread would turn into a massive fight which would end up in the DM and you’d just sit back and enjoy the fireworks.

You can’t start a thread about the large numbers of men coming to the UK from other cultures and then refuse to answer any questions about it and accuse anyone who questions you that they have a bad tone or accusing you of racism or trying to get the thread shut down, if that was the case we’d just report it and get it deleted.

don't worry, we know you're not being racist
just as we all know you're going to die upside down on the floor of a pub toilet

in terms of learning, also as per deleted thread, does anyone know if the Home Office make any attempt to address these issues?

Move to Wolverhampton, Bradford, Coventry and live in my shoes.

The problem is misogyny. There is institutional misogyny in the police force and across many, many organisations in the UK that cannot be attributed to race (indeed as we all know there is instructional racism in these organisations too).

Until women in the UK can join as a collective, without the interference of ‘liberal’ men who think they know better than women know about what women want and need and indeed who we are, we are not in a position to combat any forms of misogyny outside those which stem from factors unrelated to British born and raised men.

It might be best to carry on the discussion with those concentrating on the actual topic. No point letting people create a bun fight.

I imagine a lot of us are immigrants, children of immigrants, married to immigrants as per the deleted threads. I don't feel the need to attach other labels to men who cause trouble.

You're awfully defensive considering you're not a racist, OP.

But it isn't racist and goady it is simply asking to talk about an issue that arises.

Why don't you think that women should be able to talk about an issue that affects them?

I thought a lot of the grooming gangs who'd been convicted were born and raised in the UK, not recent refugees? Certainly the case in Bristol. All educated here.

If I started a thread saying all foreign women are an issue because they agree with FGM and are a danger to females, I would be completely wrong and racist.

And rightly so. But NOT ONE person has said that all foreign males are an issue. So it's a false equivalence.

a question that isn't goady as fuck for example?

Right there 👆

That poster you quoted gave you a clear question. You responded with the above. Pure aggression, you completely disregarded the question and clearly looking for an argument/reaction. Goading.

your question makes rude and insulting assumptions about my position. try again

Why are you being so difficult?

You started a thread to discuss issues, yet you’re being pretty aggressive in your replies like me or other posters are singling you out but you are the one that’s created the thread.

Your thread title is about large numbers of men coming in to the UK from other cultures.

So I’m wondering what your views are - considering it’s your thread.

So…
Is it all foreign men?

And is it just foreign men from a certain class or would it be ok if they all earned over £30k a year?

What about Freddie Mercury for example, he worked as a baggage handler at Heathrow airport with a bunch of other foreign men.
So would he have been ok or not?

Rubbish. It’s a very important topic that needs wider discussion.

Hugely agree

If you want to start a reasonable discussion, maybe post a question that isn't inflammatory and racist in tone. The question at the start of this thread insinuates the vast majority of men granted immigration status in the UK are dangerous to the communities they now live among. Where's the proof of that?

Can you be specific about which cultures you think are composed of "dangerous men"? Indians, Pakistanis, Poles, Irish or Germans? They are the largest non UK born populations

I live in a refugee settlement area, in all honesty the biggest issue seems to be suspicion from locals and the fact they' roam the streets ' (( they roam the streets to ease boredom, they can't work and have no money. ))

They haven't done anything to anyone and have been here a few years now.......my bigger issue is the fact that Ukrainian refugees were cosseted, Given the immediate right to work, they've had special days out and meet ups to integrate. World's apart from how these young none white men are treated who are also fleeing war. And who are also somebodies son.