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Is there just less content being posted now?

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partystress · 18/06/2022 03:08

Been a MNer for 16 years I think. For the first time ever, I’m finding nothing to read. The same threads hang around for days and days. Active is a longer list than it used to be, but seems to have threads that have not been added to.

I will keep popping in because FWR is so informative, but I no longer feel this is somewhere to come for entertainment or amusement. (Although I did lol at Frubes for the fanjo yesterday!)

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SpinningRoundRightRound · 19/06/2022 10:44

It's definitely put me off. I've been here years, i can't see me starting any more threads any time soon. The default response by lots of people seems to be very thinly disguised personal attacks without even properly reading the OP or considering if their response is going to add anything constructive. You always got some nasty bastards but now it's overwhelming. Every single thread I've seen recently.

I can't quite put my finger on it, but it's almost like it's a deliberate strategy. But why? To damage the site and the reputation of MN? Then why doesn't MNHQ do something about it? Has the move to the new platform hampered its ability to handle trolls and idiots and previously banned posters (PBPs)?

Or is there a new mod culture, that's not that fussed about 'user experience'? Can't see that flying too well with the mum-and-baby-focused avertisers.

And I'm still highly suspicious of that email data leak, that occurred at and by MNHQ (I mean 'MNHQ' in the sense of who's responsible - could have been an intern working from their bedroom but ykwim).

Daisyroseandhyacinth · 19/06/2022 10:39

Mindymomo · 19/06/2022 09:33

I must admit I read some posts and cannot actually believe what I’m reading. My life is so boring.

Agree. Sometimes its a windows into a whole other world of unpleasantness that I didn't know existed.

debbrianna · 19/06/2022 10:13

I have found starting a new thread really difficult at the moment. I will only go through the steps if I really need to. It used to be so easy on the phone.

Seeline · 19/06/2022 10:07

Viviennemary · 18/06/2022 10:44

I used to look at trending to see if there was anything interesting to read and there nearly always was and it changed all the time. Now it's the same threads for hours or even days on end. At least it seems like it. And even the old emoticons have gone.

You can still use the old emoticons. If you click the emoji button there is a blue Mumsnet M at the end of the row - click in that and they are all there!

I also discovered the other day if you start typing the square bracket and the MN code fir the emoji, the original ones pop up too.Wink

MarshaBradyo · 19/06/2022 09:55

I hide the ones full of moaning now

just too depressing

Sparklingbrook · 19/06/2022 09:47

Mindymomo · 19/06/2022 09:33

I must admit I read some posts and cannot actually believe what I’m reading. My life is so boring.

So do what everyone else does and make stuff up. Grin You can be whatever you want here.

Mindymomo · 19/06/2022 09:33

I must admit I read some posts and cannot actually believe what I’m reading. My life is so boring.

Sparklingbrook · 19/06/2022 09:30

Hiding topics does improve things a bit. I only have 9 visible topics, so I don't see a lot of the Relationship madness or FWR, or any of the baby stuff unless it pops up in AIBU or Chat.
But a skim down Active sometimes is like Groundhog Day. There's a driving/non driving one that's been going about a week now with everyone saying the same old things (including me Hmm), nothing really changes with those sort of threads. You could copy and paste some answers and insert them where necessary.

Daisyroseandhyacinth · 19/06/2022 08:09

To delete whole topics you need to go into settings I have found after much trial and error.

Daisyroseandhyacinth · 19/06/2022 08:08

If anyone finds another site which is better, please let us know.
I can’t PM anyone now either since the site has changed. Don’t know why.
It doesn’t seem like MN HQ are listening to any of the complaints or
trying to do anything about changing things

User4387075 · 19/06/2022 07:53

Can''t post about anything nice at the moment anyway as people just pile on with 'don't you know people can't afford to eat' to every thread

B0ssAssB1tch · 19/06/2022 06:58

I posted an innocuous thread about something boring in a dull sub forum the other day as wanted more information about a subject. I got jumped all over by some very nasty people just for asking a question.

It's definitely put me off. I've been here years, i can't see me starting any more threads any time soon. The default response by lots of people seems to be very thinly disguised personal attacks without even properly reading the OP or considering if their response is going to add anything constructive. You always got some nasty bastards but now it's overwhelming. Every single thread I've seen recently.

Jojoanna · 19/06/2022 03:52

Since the upgrade I have stopped posting or even engaging on MN , it's just not so user friendly

mackthepony · 19/06/2022 02:13

Agreed.

The ick thread is the only one keeping me going at the moment

Azizai · 19/06/2022 02:09

I don't know why I'm still here tbh, since the new platform it seems worse than ever.

lentiIsoup · 19/06/2022 02:05

LadyCampanulaTottington · 18/06/2022 05:52

The vitriol does it for me. The way some people speak to each other on here is awful.

You have to tread on eggshells, or blatantly ignore people, if you don't want a row. It's so combative. There was even a mildly rude person on an innocuous, inoffensive train timetable thread today of all things. I've been here years and have the skin of a rhino but it might put others off posting.

The threads don't change much. There's still a few from a few hours ago. It's slow moving too.

GirlDownUnder22 · 19/06/2022 00:58

SpinningRoundRightRound · 18/06/2022 09:15

[MNHQ] used to be very good at getting the balance right and foster a culture of witty grown-up discussion

I agree, @FinanceLPlates. I could be wrong, but I'm kind of detecting the 'feel' of some different pairs of hands making some of the moderating decisions since the big platform switch.

I was just thinking the other day that MN now often comes across as a bunch of unpleasant people arguing joylessly and weirdly about crap. Making a contribution on a thread should not make a poster feel like they're being aggressively tailgated. In this atmosphere - and let's not forget the drafted posts that disappear in a cloud of ad-loading - posters who have wit, writing skills and literary grace are hardly going to bother.

I agree with this. MNHQ are responsible for setting the tone of the site and they don't seem to have the same approach they used to.

I'm on an Australian parenting site (everybump) and the mods are really good at keeping nastiness at bay, but it takes time and effort, maybe MNHQ is lacking staff at the moment?

partystress · 19/06/2022 00:55

Really interesting range of reasons why people are spending less time and feeling less engaged. I wonder how much is within MNHQ’s gift to change? The tech stuff, obvs, but the general tone and feel of the place? Would a different approach to moderation help I wonder? Could the days of (mostly) good humour, wit and support be revived, or is it just an inevitable evolution of online spaces that they kind of degrade?

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SheldonesqueTheBstard · 19/06/2022 00:50

I’m struggling with my post disappearing mid type. I have resorted to copying some of the tv ones as I go along. Others? If they disappear I lose the will.

I may just be fed up but I see potential hairy hands a lot. Usually the subject matter will get my prongs out, but there are phrases/words/writing styles that scream to me it is someone who isn’t being entirely truthful. If three or more gems appear in the first paragraph, I don’t bother.

cstaff · 19/06/2022 00:46

The other thing that is driving me insane is when you bookmark the last Post you have read on a thread and the next time you come onto that thread you are left at page 1 post 1. Infuriating..

cstaff · 19/06/2022 00:42

I just wrote a long comment on a thread about a father's day present and step child but it just refused to post so I have now deleted it which is such a waste of time, and now I am wondering if this one will make it on. Here goes...

AmberLynn1536 · 19/06/2022 00:33

And @mnhq they don’t even have the curtesy to leave a deletion message the thread is just gone.

AmberLynn1536 · 19/06/2022 00:30

I posted on a thread earlier and yes it’s gone just because the OP stamped her foot and didn’t like the replies, there was some really good advice that would have helped others, I don’t know why I bother posting, it seems you can get your thread deleted whenever you like now, need to find another site.

AuntTwacky · 19/06/2022 00:26

walkersareback · 19/06/2022 00:19

How do you hide a whole topic please?

Just click on the side arrow and the option to hide will come up

minipie · 19/06/2022 00:23

FinanceLPlates · 18/06/2022 08:20

I have noticed this too. It’s a combination of things I think:
The site relaunch has made MN more cumbersome to use (to post and to read).
Maybe the world feels more scary and depressing and some of the content and tone reflects that.

What can we do? I think it would be a shame to let MN die like a high street where more and more shops are boarded up and only dubious characters like to hang out looking for a fight.

@MNHQ I realise the relaunch of a site with lots of complex legacy code is no picnic. I’m getting used to the new look and I know you’re working on bug fixes and improvements. For me, these are the top priorities that affect how much I post, and read:

  • Server slow. This happens especially at what I imagine is peak time (evenings). Can’t post, time-outs
  • page keeps refreshing. This is annoying when reading, but “fatal” when trying to post. Have lost several half-written posts that way! Then not bothered to write it all again. This seems to be connected to ad reloads?

This.

Lots of things I might have posted, but haven’t because of these issues.

If it’s the same for many then that’s going to affect content pretty fast.

Also, the pile on culture. Nasty.