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war topic

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Samcro · 14/02/2022 11:15

any chance of a covid style war topic for all the "are we going to war " threads please.

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Redshoeblueshoe · 24/02/2022 23:08

I think it's important enough to have its own topic
then I can hide it just like COVID and Brexit, some conversations are good, and some of them are absolute bollocks

ouch321 · 24/02/2022 23:06

Some v weird/bossy posts in this thread.

Why should there not be a war topic?

Do you object to the cooking topics, the doghouse, the home decor topics etc?

Why does the site need to be disorganised?

What's the point in having topics if everyone puts everything into Chat/AIBU?

Otherwise you may as well delete all the topic areas and just have every single thread about anything at all 'loose'.

saraclara · 24/02/2022 22:53

I'm not sure why making a branch for these threads makes them less important. I'd have thought it was the other way round. I don't think that war and conflict is a 'chat' or 'AIBU' subject, personally. I think it does deserve its own area.

Sparklingbrook · 24/02/2022 22:41

@Lampface

Lumping a war and a word game into the same box is actually disgusting.

MN please don't make a separate topic, these conversations are important.

Wouldn't War having it's own topic make it even more important? Log into MN, straight to the War topic for those that want to discuss it.
Lampface · 24/02/2022 22:39

Lumping a war and a word game into the same box is actually disgusting.

MN please don't make a separate topic, these conversations are important.

Sparklingbrook · 24/02/2022 22:38

I think it's a good idea. It's like back in 2020 when it was thread after thread about Covid with a lot of differing information/opinions.
Those that are interested in constantly discussing it will know where to find the threads and post, those that don't want to can hide the topic.

AlexaShutUp · 24/02/2022 20:28

@User5438965

Yes, the threads are taking over like the Covid ones did, if I want to know about the war I will watch the news.
If the threads are taking over, then that probably means that the majority of MNers want to talk about this stuff. Why do you feel that you should be able to control where and how they talk about it just because you don't want to join in.

If you want to talk about something else, then start another thread. I'm sure that there are plenty of like-minded people who will join you.

cakeorwine · 24/02/2022 20:25

@ChardonnaysPetDragon

Absolutely not.

It's one of the biggest news stories ever.

Of course people are posting. Stop whinging OP.

THIS
cakeorwine · 24/02/2022 20:25

You only have to look at some of the nastiness on this thread to see how divisive it is on the main boards

Don't open them.

If MN had been around in the 1930s, there would have been people asking the threads on Hitler to be moved, and then surprised when WW2 kicked off.

There seems to be people who don't want to know. Who want to bury their heads.

This affects us all. Things will calm down on here.

bangaverage · 24/02/2022 20:23

I'd like a war topic so I can hide it. I'm terrified.

ChardonnaysPetDragon · 24/02/2022 20:23

Absolutely not.

It's one of the biggest news stories ever.

Of course people are posting. Stop whinging OP.

saraclara · 24/02/2022 20:23

@User5438965

Yes, the threads are taking over like the Covid ones did, if I want to know about the war I will watch the news.
Exactly. There's nothing that can be said here that won't be speculation and/or anxiety. So it's ridiculous to suggest that those of us who world rather not have to see thread titles about building bunkers, are putting our heads in the sand.

Mumsnet isn't the place to find informed political international reportage.

StarsAndSugarlumps · 24/02/2022 20:20

@saraclara

If it was all rational, informed discussion about what is currently going on then fair enough, but we are already at the point today when the following are being discussed almost as as foregone conclusions.

Prepping.
Conscription.
Total annihilation by a nuclear strike.
Evacuating the UK.
People overheard discussing buying guns.

Agreed. If this carries on, I simply won't spend time here. Which might not be a bad thing as I spend too much time on Mumsnet.
The hysteria and constant presence of war and fear is something I really don't need. I don't have anxiety, I'm no more mentally fragile than the next person. But it just isn't what I'm here for.

If there's a branch, I might visit it occasionally. And I'll be watching the news. I'm not sticking my head in the sand, but I don't need lots of panicky voices when I come here to pass the time..

I totally agree with this.

A new topic would be good.

You only have to look at some of the nastiness on this thread to see how divisive it is on the main boards.

NativityDreaming · 24/02/2022 20:20

I would like to see this change as well, I think it is a good suggestion.

User5438965 · 24/02/2022 20:16

The whole site is going to be an hysterical mess again like it was for Covid.

User5438965 · 24/02/2022 20:12

Yes, the threads are taking over like the Covid ones did, if I want to know about the war I will watch the news.

A580Hojas · 24/02/2022 19:19

Yes, you do have to open it to hide it - annoying! In ye olden days you could hide from active conversations.

XenoBitch · 24/02/2022 17:36

How do you hide threads? I am on desktop and it seems you have to actually open it to have the option... which defeats the point.

Juno22 · 24/02/2022 17:33

Samcro my apologies, I mixed you up with another poster.

AlexaShutUp · 24/02/2022 17:14

No, no, no. I don't support this at all.

Please MN, don't let a handful of pushy posters dictate what the rest of us can post on general boards like chat or AIBU. Some issues are hugely important and should be widely discussed. Most of us do not want a sanitised version of mumsnet.

Those sensitive souls who don't like seeing serious topics discussed should hide the general threads and stick to the specific topic boards that they find inoffensive. They should not be allowed to dictate what the rest of us are discussing or where we are discussing it.

I will be really pissed off if MN listens to this nonsense and the most popular boards are gradually reduced down to mindless trivia just in case it upsets anyone. That was never what this site was supposed to be about.

Samcro · 24/02/2022 17:13

@Juno22

I objected to this earlier as it felt like a high handed approach by the OP who earlier posted on another thread asking people to post on 'In the News'. It probably does need its own Topic because of the hysteria others have mentioned. I'm not sure what the title should be though.
Ffs I have not posted on any threads. Will people stop making shit up
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ItsAlwaysThere · 24/02/2022 17:12

I would like a topic on the conflict so I can hide it.

minipie · 24/02/2022 17:08

Parpophone but it’s only been one day of loads of threads.

If there’s still absolutely loads of Russia related threads in a couple of weeks then I would agree with filtering them into a topic. But I bet there won’t be (sadly not because the conflict will have ended but because conversations/news here in the UK will have moved on).

Juno22 · 24/02/2022 17:05

I objected to this earlier as it felt like a high handed approach by the OP who earlier posted on another thread asking people to post on 'In the News'. It probably does need its own Topic because of the hysteria others have mentioned. I'm not sure what the title should be though.

saraclara · 24/02/2022 17:02

If it was all rational, informed discussion about what is currently going on then fair enough, but we are already at the point today when the following are being discussed almost as as foregone conclusions.

Prepping.
Conscription.
Total annihilation by a nuclear strike.
Evacuating the UK.
People overheard discussing buying guns.

Agreed. If this carries on, I simply won't spend time here. Which might not be a bad thing as I spend too much time on Mumsnet.
The hysteria and constant presence of war and fear is something I really don't need. I don't have anxiety, I'm no more mentally fragile than the next person. But it just isn't what I'm here for.

If there's a branch, I might visit it occasionally. And I'll be watching the news. I'm not sticking my head in the sand, but I don't need lots of panicky voices when I come here to pass the time..