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FWR clarification; deletion and strikes

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ItsLateHumpty · 21/08/2020 17:09

Hey MNHQ

(I’m) Back on site stuff from FWR to talk to you because either we’re not understanding the rules or the rules have changed and we’ve not changed with them.

There seems to be a marked increase in all thread rather than suspect post deletion.
Or regular posters getting posts deleted but not sure why.
Or you acknowledge ‘not in faith’ posters and delete a whole thread, even though there’s been some very good discussion.
And we don’t know if we’re on a ‘strike’ deletion or not 😬

Totally appreciate you guys do a difficult job, and sometimes between a rock and a hard place! but if the rules sticky was updated or deletions were explained, we’d stop tripping over our own feet which causes you extra admin work.

Can you help us?

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ItsAllGoingToBeFine · 10/09/2020 16:00

It's like MN is being used by outsiders hmm as a platform for planted posts that become screenshots to vilify Mumsnetters

Not just like it. That's exactly what is happening.

JellyFishSquish · 05/09/2020 01:00

Seen that too. A very infrequent poster has re-appeared on the same day that an old post of theirs (from 2019) is revived by someone else and posts on that thread are then deleted. It's like MN is being used by outsiders Hmm as a platform for planted posts that become screenshots to vilify Mumsnetters.

Melroses · 05/09/2020 00:30

The old threads keep appearing. I had a look and it is always a once-only poster who is bumping these threads.

I saw that a post had been deleted on one of them today. It is obviously being gamed. Sad

RufustheSniggeringReindeer · 04/09/2020 23:38

@RufustheSniggeringReindeer

Oh and do you know what...in for a penny in for a pound and all that

People have been deleted for saying things that weren’t even against talk guidelines when they were originally posted...and get a strike

How is that fair

Is it poor form quoting myself?

Anyhoo

I’ve heard people saying that they have received deletions and strikes for old posts

I know lily explained this upthread but i think that If the the deletions Happen within a 6 week period then 3 strikes could be made within that Time frame without the poster realising

This is horrendously unfair...especially when you have posters gleefully reporting on old fucking threads

MNHQ is being gamed...and maybe they don’t mind being gamed

I mean, if thats the way you want to run the report system then all power to you...your playground and your rules and all that. But it would be much fairer to tell people the rules

And i like Mumsnet And I’m fairly confident that you could check all my posts and not find anything deletable (apart from cartoon characters obvs) but this isn’t fair

ColleagueFromMars · 01/09/2020 13:46

Interesting to find this thread. I agree it seems like the way things are being moderated has changed.

I'm on two strikes (I frequently name change and got one under each on different occasions) and both times I didn't think I'd broken rules. Both times I posted about AGP. I asked for clarification but the responses just didn't clarify anything for me. "We shouldn't post anything on FWB that might be taken as offensive" was the sentiment of the response. Which just seems like the "why can't women just be nice and give up our rights" sentiments that are the whole thing we are rallying against.

I also perceive an increase in whole thread deletions by with the deletion message saying "posted in bad faith" or "not within the spirit of the site". This also seems to happen overzealously and I know I've been accused of "in bad faith" when I know I've posted in good faith but it's just a matter of one word against another.

Has who is moderating and interpreting wooly rules changed recently?

ItsLateHumpty · 01/09/2020 13:26

What?! They can stop you posting on a specific thread, or you can’t post honestly on a thread without being deleted and banned 😱

In other news are MNHQ ever going to come back to this thread? 💀👻

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Jux · 01/09/2020 12:45

Actually, I can post. Just not on one thread.

Jux · 01/09/2020 12:44

@RufustheSniggeringReindeer

Individual posters are definitely targeted

You can see it in action on some threads

Yes, it's very obvious.
TinselAngel · 29/08/2020 17:26

@RufustheSniggeringReindeer

Individual posters are definitely targeted

You can see it in action on some threads

And I know of at least two regular posters who have been on the receiving end of it recently.
RufustheSniggeringReindeer · 29/08/2020 17:19

Individual posters are definitely targeted

You can see it in action on some threads

TinselAngel · 29/08/2020 17:09

@Quaagars

This comes across as an attempt to gaslight

Confused Hmm

What else can it be when individual posters are definitely being targeted and you are implying women are mad for pointing it out?
YetAnotherSpartacus · 29/08/2020 12:04

I agree Tinsel.

Quaagars · 29/08/2020 12:03

This comes across as an attempt to gaslight

Confused Hmm

TinselAngel · 29/08/2020 11:43

@Quaagars

I think posters are being targetted not threads Something shifty is going on

That doesn't begin to make sense though - even if it was as you say "posters are being targeted" which I think is a bit Hmm and tin foil hatty
If they weren't breaking the talk guidelines, their posts would still stand and there'd be nothing wrong with them.
TAATs has always been a no no as well when it comes to guidelines so that's nothing new either.

How is thinking that somebody might have a grudge against a particular poster "tin foil hatty". This comes across as an attempt to gaslight.
RufustheSniggeringReindeer · 27/08/2020 16:06

Yeah monster

You’d be VERY disappointed 😀

MonsteraCheeseplant · 27/08/2020 14:15

You be fair, redacting the word allowed my imagination to fill it in with something that is likely far more offensive Grin

RufustheSniggeringReindeer · 27/08/2020 13:11

My redacted word was actually pretty tame

But i didnt want to lose the post Grin

RufustheSniggeringReindeer · 27/08/2020 13:09

Thing is

Bless
Yawn
Biscuit
Bollox

Etc

Are all fine...as long as some [redacted...cos i just know ill be deleted] doesn’t report them

On every other thread there are those exact words and some Much worse, and they stand

They stand because no one reports them...because they aren’t worth reporting. And usually (not always) grown ups are happy to debate, argue and brush off someone being silly or flippant

Rather than report

ItsLateHumpty · 27/08/2020 12:59

And don’t yawn ladies. It’s subversive. Or something.

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RufustheSniggeringReindeer · 27/08/2020 12:27

@YetAnotherSpartacus

I got deleted for one word - 'bollox'. That was all my reply (to the thread on doulas) said. Bollox means (I thought) I think this is rubbish and I disagree. Are we not now allowed to disagree? I didn't use the term in any way intended to signify a double-entendre. It was just 'bollox'.
Well i thought Biscuit meant no comment

How wrong was I??!!?

MonsteraCheeseplant · 27/08/2020 10:56

Its unfair

YetAnotherSpartacus · 27/08/2020 10:38

I got deleted for one word - 'bollox'. That was all my reply (to the thread on doulas) said. Bollox means (I thought) I think this is rubbish and I disagree. Are we not now allowed to disagree? I didn't use the term in any way intended to signify a double-entendre. It was just 'bollox'.

GCAcademic · 27/08/2020 10:34

@Quaagars

I think posters are being targetted not threads Something shifty is going on

That doesn't begin to make sense though - even if it was as you say "posters are being targeted" which I think is a bit Hmm and tin foil hatty
If they weren't breaking the talk guidelines, their posts would still stand and there'd be nothing wrong with them.
TAATs has always been a no no as well when it comes to guidelines so that's nothing new either.

Specific posters have definitely been targeted. I've seen TRAs on Twitter with my own eyes say that's what they're doing.
Mollscroll · 26/08/2020 16:00

I can confirm that posts which do not conflict with guidelines also get deleted.

Quaagars · 26/08/2020 15:44

I think posters are being targetted not threads
Something shifty is going on

That doesn't begin to make sense though - even if it was as you say "posters are being targeted" which I think is a bit Hmm and tin foil hatty
If they weren't breaking the talk guidelines, their posts would still stand and there'd be nothing wrong with them.
TAATs has always been a no no as well when it comes to guidelines so that's nothing new either.