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'Liberal Feminism' subtopic

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PersonFrom2045 · 27/01/2020 18:21

Hi @MNHQ

Following on from this AIBU thread:

www.mumsnet.com/Talk/am_i_being_unreasonable/3804680-To-think-mumsnet-needs-a-separate-Gender-section?

There was limited interest in a 'separate Gender section' but some agreement that a 'Liberal Feminism' topic might be a good thing.

The idea of this would be to create a subtopic within FWR that was free of TWAW debate, without affecting any of the existing FWR topics where TWAW debate features heavily.

I'm aware you are reducing the number of topics at the moment rather than adding to them, but I thought it was worth floating the idea.

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Datun · 28/01/2020 10:57

There are a couple of different things going on here.

There are, and always have been, people who want to shut the feminist board down. For whatever reason, they don't like what the women are saying and want them to stop.

One of the ways to do that is to complain that there are too many trans threads and it puts people off.

Coupled with that, I'm sure it does genuinely put some people off (not the people I'm talking about above).

Another way to try and shut it down is to complain there is no debate. But, as blistory points out, "I'm not so sure that the trans discussions on FWR are a debate and seem to be more of a fact finding, tactical approach to oppose transactivisim/provide safeguarding/protect women's rights.".

If someone does want to debate, as evidenced on the Center Parcs thread, the response is well-informed and robust.

So I think you've got two factions complaining. Those who would genuinely like to see a more liberal feminist board, and those who just want to shut down the current board. Of course, that will become quite transparent, if there was another board, by who becomes a regular poster.

As I said on the other thread, I personally would have zero objection to another feminist board. The more the merrier. Misogyny is misogyny. It comes in all shapes and sizes.

And, personally, I could quite easily refrain from any gender identity remarks.

2BthatUnnoticed · 28/01/2020 09:37

Oh definitely worth asking OP, and I cannot see a downside.

You’d probably call me GC I (guess) but personally I’d be happy never to discuss gender / trans again. But while shelters and services are being TWAW-ed, causing vulnerable women to self-exclude (some with children) I have to talk about it. It is hurting women.

We need a space where women get it and care, and FWR is that space.

But for those women who think TWAW, or are unbothered, I can see why FWR might not resonate. So having a LF board might meet a need.

PersonFrom2045 · 28/01/2020 07:29

But is there anywhere at all where gender ideology is being freely debated, with people representing both sides? I don't think there is.

I don't think there is, either, and I don't think a LibFem board would become that place. I understand that GC feminists don't think it's possible to discuss feminist topics without reference to gender ideology, and possibly see any discussion which avoids this as some kind of 'feminism lite'. But there are posters out there (I think) who would like to have those discussions and I would see a LibFem board as a place for them.

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PersonFrom2045 · 28/01/2020 07:11

Yes, I'd also understand if it's rejected for the reasons you say, 2B. I thought it was worth asking, though, if only because there seemed to be some (rare) consensus between posters on both sides of the GC issue that it might be a good idea.

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2BthatUnnoticed · 28/01/2020 04:08

mods may well be* over it, that is

2BthatUnnoticed · 28/01/2020 04:02

I think a LF board could work though.

It’s not a split between academics / and us hoi polloi which is being solved for.

Many academics publicly despise MN feminism. Many hoi polette like it.

There is a genuine ideological split, which would be catered for. Having said that, moderators are over it and I can understand if it is rejected.

DisinterestedParty · 28/01/2020 03:15

@Divebar

Feminist chat was started for exactly the reason you state.

The people who were worried about not being educated or academic enough and who asked for the subtopic because the academic posters were too scary never posted.

A new subtopic will go exactly the same way, no doubt.

Why doesn't this happen on other topics?

At some point, it really does look like just trying to shut women up.

BullshitVivienne · 28/01/2020 03:02

I've hidden the main feminism board from Active and think others may have too. I'd like an alternative place.

2BthatUnnoticed · 28/01/2020 02:50

I interact with plenty of “non-academic” types on FWR. And women in various circumstances wherein female-only spaces really matter.

Including women who grew up poor (me), women who are poor, survivors of abuse, women living with disabilities, women whose children face challenges, one poster who is living in her car currently and posting when she can.

What is there to be intimidated about. Just set up a burner email so an intern can’t dox you. Done.

That said - I fully support a Liberal Feminism board. I may not agree with libfems on much but I respect their right to discuss whatever, in a space they like. If FWR doesn’t work for them, maybe LF would?

7Days · 27/01/2020 21:11

Still think it's a sledge hammer to crack a nut.
Start a thread, specify you are coming at this from a non GC non academic perspective.
It would work as well as any other method, I think.
I do get the intimidation thing, I'm not too articulate myself, but fuck it.

NotTerfNorCis · 27/01/2020 20:51

Debate is a whole other issue and I'm not convinced that FWR is the right place for that at the moment given that it has become a gathering point for a specific approach

That's a reasonable point, since the vast majority of people on FWR are basically in agreement. But is there anywhere at all where gender ideology is being freely debated, with people representing both sides? I don't think there is. There's only #nodebate and those resisting #nodebate.

PersonFrom2045 · 27/01/2020 20:16

I just feel it’s very “ academic” and my views are just my views

I might be wrong but from lurking I get the impression FWR has a higher proportion of academics than other areas of MN (excluding the Common Room) and I think trans issues are far more prominent in academia than they are in, say, the corporate world. People with an academic background are used to a robust style of debate, and that can be intimidating for people (like me) who aren't accustomed to that.

I hope that doesn't sound as though I'm criticising FWR on the grounds of its demographic or suggesting the academics should 'dumb down'. I don't mean that at all - I'm simply advocating a space for people whose feminist views aren't centred on trans issues so they don't feel they have to defend themselves at every turn.

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theflushedzebra · 27/01/2020 20:01

There was Human Rights too, for all the egalitarians who didn't like the focus on women in the feminist topics, full stop.

You're absolutely right! I'd forgotten that! And that one's a tumbleweed now?

Unfortunately, threads like the AIBU linked to above will be joined by some posters who just want feminists to stop talking about certain issues/all issues. There have always been people who would like to see the FWR board shut down completely.

PersonFrom2045 · 27/01/2020 19:59

Human Rights is a very broad-focus topic!

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Divebar · 27/01/2020 19:59

I think some people are intimidated to start posts there.... I would be anyway and I’m reasonably robust. I just feel it’s very “ academic” and my views are just my views ( I haven’t got a piece of research or statistic to support every view I have). Another reason I don’t venture in there much is the “ transphobic” reputation it has. Whether it is or isn’t transphobic it’s certainly preoccupied with that subject beyond what I consider to be proportionate levels and I don’t want to be lumped in with that.

7Days · 27/01/2020 19:54

There was Human Rights too, for all the egalitarians who didn't like the focus on women in the feminist topics, full stop.
That didn't get too busy either, despite all the nastiness at the time

PersonFrom2045 · 27/01/2020 19:45

You may be right, AyeRobot but I think the present focus does put people off starting threads because there's a fair chance they will come round to discussing trans issues.

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AyeRobot · 27/01/2020 19:29

No-one will post on it. If there aren't threads about feminism on the existing board that people want to discuss, then start some. I'd love to see a mix too, but not because of what's already there, but because it's so dull to see this raised again and again without anyone actually trying to do the simplest thing of posting more. It's not a magazine, it's user generated content.

Problem is, people will never be happy because there will always be challenge when women as a class aren't centred and 3rd wave feminism is pretty challengable on that score. And then we go round again about nasty feminists.

Blistory · 27/01/2020 19:28

The issue, doesn't to my mind, seem to be about GC feminists against other types of feminist but more that some GC feminists and some who believe TWAW believe a less fraught debate can be had or that these is scope for a different approach. Others don't.

I'm not so sure that the trans discussions on FWR are a debate and seem to be more of a fact finding, tactical approach to oppose transactivisim/provide safeguarding/protect women's rights. Debate is a whole other issue and I'm not convinced that FWR is the right place for that at the moment given that it has become a gathering point for a specific approach IYSWIM.

I don't particularly enjoy that FWR isn't the place for debate on trans issues but I can also see that there aren't many places online for women to gather to discuss activism and I'd rather leave them be and have a more moderate debate elsewhere on MN. I do think that that requires a less 'robust' and accusatory debate outwith FWR and I would hope that could be respected.

PersonFrom2045 · 27/01/2020 19:24

Ah, thanks for clarifying. Activism and Book Club seem relatively busy, which makes sense if they were the established topics.

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LangClegsInSpace · 27/01/2020 19:22

I think the new ones were feminist theory and feminist support and FWR was renamed feminist chat. Activism and book club were already there IIRC.

PersonFrom2045 · 27/01/2020 19:20

Yes, I agree LangClegsInSpace. Perhaps it could be trialled for a couple of months to see if it was used.

I apologise if, by mentioning Feminist Theory, it sounded as though I meant the threads there were unimportant and could go. I was thinking that they could be added to one of the more well-used topics, as you suggested.

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PersonFrom2045 · 27/01/2020 19:14

What were the new topics, 7Days? I've only been on MN for four years, so I don't have the benefit of hindsight that many older posters have.

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LangClegsInSpace · 27/01/2020 19:13

There would need to be support from the posters who would actually use that topic.

Feminist theory was invented in the horrific aftermath of that time they tried to make a radical feminism subtopic to put dittany in. That went well.

There wasn't that much discussion of pro-gender ideology at the time. There was a lot of outrage when feminists critiqued things like the removal of body hair because they were a feminist and they removed all their body hair and it was their choice and feminism was apparently all about choice and bla bla. It was felt that a forum called feminist theory would allow discussion around certain issues without people taking it so personally.

Feminist theory could be replaced but there are a few good threads on there that it would be a shame to lose. Maybe it would be possible to merge them with FWR chat.

It would only work if the people asking for it are the people who would use it. Making a topic to send other posters to is a recipe for disaster.

7Days · 27/01/2020 19:05

I dunno.
There have been plenty hoo has over the years with people not liking the direction the FWR was taking. Not one of the new topics that were provided ever took off.
Let anyone who wants to start a thread, start one. I am sure the regulars at FWR would respect a thread that specified in the OP that it was coming from a liberal perspective, or non GC or however the individual wants to define it.
It works elsewhere on the site - people respect support threads for example. It would work here too, imo.