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Permanent posting bans

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NoSquirrels · 21/01/2020 17:28

Presume a TAAT is OK in Site Stuff?

www.mumsnet.com/Talk/womens_rights/3801630-LangCleg

What are the criteria you use when permanently banning posters?

Thank you in advance. I am really shocked by this particular poster being banned.

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user764329056 · 21/01/2020 21:41

This is a terrible decision, am fast losing faith in this site

PencilsInSpace · 21/01/2020 21:38

We're not able to discuss individual bans but please be assured we don't make these decisions lightly, and we discuss them at length before taking any action.

No I am not assured. I am less assured every time something like this happens. I am less assured every time a comment is deleted for incomprehensible reasons. I am less assured every time a brilliant woman is told to 'go well' when she has never been abusive or even particularly impolite. I feel like I'm walking on eggshells. If Lang fell foul of the rules to the extent she needs permanently banning then I don't understand the rules. I feel like we're all on borrowed time, waiting to be picked off, one by one, by the twitter monitors.

You are being massively played by people who wish only harm to this site.

We've all said this lots of times before though and it's just got worse.

A couple of years ago you were absolute trailblazers on allowing any sort of debate to be had here on gender and sex when no other platform would. Times change. #NoDebate is dead. You're not special any more.

JacquesHammer · 21/01/2020 21:38

I think this is one in a long string of inconsistent and frankly worrying moderating decisions by HQ.

WichBitchHarpyTerfThatsMe · 21/01/2020 21:31

Wow. I rarely post on MN anymore because trying to understand the moderation rules and the reasoning behind the decisions on FWR is like trying to knit with fog with one hand tied behind your back.

VivaLeBeaver · 21/01/2020 20:51

Agree it looks like the TRAs squeal loudly enough until they get MN to do their bidding. Can MNHQ really not see the agenda of them wanting to silence outspoken women? And instead they’re being complicit. Shame on them.

Witchlight · 21/01/2020 20:40

When LangCleg thread it trending as high up as it is, you need to admit you’ve been heavy handed. I’ve been reading and rather admiring her posts for some time, alongside a few other key posters, there is nothing phobic or unkind with the posts, they just disagree with the Tra’s position.
Also, it is possibly the kindest interpretation to say that “We mail with regards to deletions and within these mails” is disingenuous,as there is much evidence that this is not always the case. You are not even handed on the Feminist board, you do not even have the appearance of evenhandedness. The fact that you have to have a separate list of rules (some hidden, or vague) testament to this.

This is the first time I have written in this manner. My positions are generally about as beige as you can get, but in an unfair world, your position stands out as unfair - and just wrong!

NotTheLangCleg · 21/01/2020 20:31

We try very hard to remind users of the talk guidelines and when these are broken regularly or disregarded on the boards, we have no choice but to consider banning.

The talk guidelines keep changing, and indeed the feminism topic has different moderation to the rest of the site. It makes it really difficult not to ever break TG’s, and LangCleg demonstrably had misogynists on Twitter who hate her child safeguarding expertise who were leaping on to vexatiously report every transgression. They’re now boasting about it.
I thought this site was meant to be by parents, for parents? Safeguarding matters to parents.

Figureof80 · 21/01/2020 20:10

Mumsnet you are in the wrong here. FWR is the main reason I come to this site and Lang's opinion was one I valued more than most. Her comments have never struck me as aggressive or hateful, she is forthright, informed and accurate. Why are you letting this site and its users be bullied by people who wish to control women's voices and thoughts?

GenderfreeJoe · 21/01/2020 20:06

Speak for yourself Joss. The only person I can see well placed as part of a wall is you.

Doyoumind · 21/01/2020 20:03

Well done, MN Hmm

Permanent posting bans
chilling19 · 21/01/2020 20:00

Really disappointed @MNHQ - Langcleg is a loss to FWR.

ThighThighofthigh · 21/01/2020 19:54

I've been suspended before and had to ask for a reason which was given 2 days later.

Twenty2 · 21/01/2020 19:48

It looks like MN is in a controlling relationship.

LastTrainEast · 21/01/2020 19:48

@LilyMumsnet "we would have had lots of chats with you prior to issuing to a permanent ban, we can assure you." you might want to double check that as it is not always the case. Sometimes it's one click

In this case we have people boasting how easy it is to get you to ban someone from their list. That can't be a desirable outcome surely.

HumphreyCobblers · 21/01/2020 19:46

That gloating tweet FFS

Who is running this show?

FlaviaAlbia · 21/01/2020 19:41

You know specific posters are being targeted MNHQ^, this was such a disappointing decision.

Twenty2 · 21/01/2020 19:39

Absolutely despicable MNHQ Angry

BoreOfWhabylon · 21/01/2020 19:23

@LilyMumsnet @MNHQ @MichaelMumsnet

Please look at WHO has been reporting LangCleg. I suspect a pattern will emerge.

OldCrone · 21/01/2020 19:19

We mail with regards to deletions and within these mails, we do say that continuing to break talk guidelines may lead to suspension/banning, so we'd hope that it would never come to that stage (in that we've given plenty of warning).

I had a post deleted on the webchat. The post disappeared quite quickly, but I didn't receive the message from mumsnet warning about suspension until nearly 3 hours later. If I had made more posts which broke talk guidelines during that time, would I have been suspended, even though they were made before I received the warning email?

Doyoumind · 21/01/2020 19:18

Is it still the case you have to have been here a while before you can post a thread in Sex? I think we need something like that where you can't just turn up and start posting or reporting on the feminism boards without some kind of history. It's just so open to abuse. That would be bad for people new to MN topic but they could still lurk.

WireBrushAndDettolMaam · 21/01/2020 19:14

and we would have had lots of chats with you prior to issuing to a permanent ban, we can assure you.

Is this new policy going forward? It hasn’t been to date. Or at least certainly hasn’t always been applied. There are cases where posters have been banned without any warning. Or is the above alluding to what happened with Langcleg? You had lots of chats with her?

NoSquirrels · 21/01/2020 19:06

But what is the thinking behind going straight to banning?

Was this poster suspended repeatedly? I cannot recall an instance of that.

Straight to ban is what is worrying, frankly.

I know you owe us nothing at all.
I know this "debate" is problematic for the site.

But this does not feel like a fair decision.

I have largely never commented on moderation, except in support of MNHQ.

I am rethinking based on a ban of this particular poster.

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LilyMumsnet · 21/01/2020 18:55

@NoSquirrels

A reminder: Mumsnet is its own entity and can do whatever the fuck it likes in its own forums, within the constricts of its EULA and privacy agreement with you.

Yes, of course. But if I want to be part of this community, lending my eyeballs and fingers to the content generation, I'd like to know what rules I'm expected to operate under, and if - even if I phrase things reasonably and politely - I am likely to get banned for having an opinion that MNHQ disagrees with.

Hi OP

We try and be as fair and as even-handed as we possibly can, and we would have had lots of chats with you prior to issuing to a permanent ban, we can assure you.

We mail with regards to deletions and within these mails, we do say that continuing to break talk guidelines may lead to suspension/banning, so we'd hope that it would never come to that stage (in that we've given plenty of warning).

WireBrushAndDettolMaam · 21/01/2020 18:44

I have no idea about the poster in question or the chat they were in, and make no comment of judgment on that.

A reminder: Mumsnet is its own entity and can do whatever the fuck it likes in its own forums, within the constricts of its EULA and privacy agreement with you.

Membership and posting is not a right. Unmoderated environments are almost invariably toxic hellholes. Mumsnet is a commercial entity that looks out first and foremost to its own bottom line.

Posters - all of us - are merely content generators to get eyeballs onto the site for advertising revenue. Anything else that happens as a side effect (and there's lots of positive stuff) is just that - a side effect.

Now carry on.

Confused

Not sure how any of that is relevant to a poster asking for clarification on MNHQs banning policy but at least you got it off your chest.

NoSquirrels · 21/01/2020 18:41

A reminder: Mumsnet is its own entity and can do whatever the fuck it likes in its own forums, within the constricts of its EULA and privacy agreement with you.

Yes, of course. But if I want to be part of this community, lending my eyeballs and fingers to the content generation, I'd like to know what rules I'm expected to operate under, and if - even if I phrase things reasonably and politely - I am likely to get banned for having an opinion that MNHQ disagrees with.

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