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The deletion of the Upfield thread on AIBU

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PencilsInSpace · 11/10/2019 22:05

Deletion message: Hi all, as there is already an active thread about this subject on the Feminism boards we're going to close this one.

I don't understand or agree with this decision.

  1. people often start threads on the same subject on different boards - is it a new rule that there can only be one?

  2. Lots of posters hide FWR so might not know what has happened

  3. Upfield made their insinuations against all of MN, not just FWR

Can you say a bit more about your decision please?

OP posts:
eurochick · 12/10/2019 06:44

I don't understand this decision. It seems completely out of line with usual MN practice, where multiple threads on a topic are allowed to stand.

WeBuiltCisCityOnSexistRoles · 12/10/2019 06:38

It is eyes like a puppy? It's too early for me.

WeBuiltCisCityOnSexistRoles · 12/10/2019 06:35

Am I being naively Pollyanna-ish by thinking MNHQ's intentions are good here - in that they are recommending people visit the FWR boards and see the light so they actually understand the proper issues behind this?

I for one am sick of people saying "I never go there it's a pit of women vipers" and being stupidly unaware of the erosion of our hard won rights. Perhaps MNHQ are trying to raise awareness for the people currently burying their heads in the sand.

ThinkWittyThoughts · 12/10/2019 05:52

WTH are you thinking @MNHQ?

I've seen multiple threads in AIBU covering the same topic and they've been left to stand.

I've seen OPs saying "posting here & AIBU for traffic" that's identical posts.

Are you supportive of users creating their own content or not?! You really need to explain this. Or better yet reinstate the AIBU thread and apologise for being a twat.

Somerville · 11/10/2019 23:53

One thread per topic would cut the number of threads (and therefore clicks) massively. We’ll be back to the days of Justine starting topics off, and all having to pay for a messaging function. It really doesn’t seem like a go-er.

So I presume that an error was made in the deletion message, and the reason wasn’t specifically because of two threads at the same time. An accurate deletion message would be much fairer, EG “Two threads at same time on contentious subject on a busy Friday night and we’re struggling to keep up”. But also better would then be to lock one thread to new posts, rather than deleting it entirely, and adding a link to the ongoing chat so it can be easily found. (I just had to help out a newer MNer via twitter who couldn’t find the other discussion.)

SquirrelsInJune · 11/10/2019 23:36

It's a really odd decision.

If there's a new one-thread-per-topic rule, I should point out that MNers have had the audacity to start two separate threads about Graham Norton. They're both in Active Conversations right now and they're in separate topics! Shock

Go get 'em!

LangCleg · 11/10/2019 23:23

I hope you don't mean MOI, Rufus? I can swear like usual if you like? Here you go:

SHITFUCKPISSWANKCUNTANDBOLLOCKSWHATASHITGIBBONDECISION

Better?!

RufusthebewiIderedreindeer · 11/10/2019 23:05

God everyone is being very polite and apologetic

It’s unnerving

SarahTancredi · 11/10/2019 23:04

FWR is the pest house now then, is it? The leper colony?

Ignorance Is bliss I guess.

No one minds reaping the benefits from everything feminists fight for though do they.

Shame on you HQ.

WorraLiberty · 11/10/2019 23:04

Ahh I see, sorry.

Now I've read it again, it did actually make sense Blush

RufusthebewiIderedreindeer · 11/10/2019 23:03

I agree samcro

Only one brexit thread at a time

LangCleg · 11/10/2019 23:03

Are you fairly new to MN LangCleg?

I didn't mean MNers hiding FWR. I meant MNHQ trying to quarantine it off.

Sorry - multitasking, wasn't clear. Not digging at any MNer who wants to hide it.

Site should be user led. So if FWR and AIBU regulars both want to discuss a topic in their own ways, with their own sub-communities, they should be allowed.

Samcro · 11/10/2019 23:02

it would be nice though......imagine it (((dreams)))
only one thread allowed about bad MIL's. only one allowed about Cf'ers and so on.........

Cohle · 11/10/2019 23:00

This seems pretty inconsistent with your normal practice MNHQ.

Lots of us avoid FWR these days.

WorraLiberty · 11/10/2019 22:57

Are you fairly new to MN LangCleg?

It's always been a fairly widely hidden/avoided topic for many MNetters.

LangCleg · 11/10/2019 22:52

FWR is the pest house now then, is it? The leper colony?

tilder · 11/10/2019 22:34

I agree. Really odd decision.

GooseFeather · 11/10/2019 22:32

Why the one in AIBU (the most frequently visited topic) rather than FWR (the most frequently hidden topic)?

When was a rule introduced to say no more than one thread per subject?

Samcro · 11/10/2019 22:29

(new not knew)

Samcro · 11/10/2019 22:29

how odd. I Don't go in to FWR so would not have seen a different thread there. is this a knew thing as there are numerous threads on the same subject..... an instance is the diplomatic immunity. there were at least 2 threads running on that. as PP said numerous MM threads and lets not forget brexit. odd that this is the one zapped.

cometothinkofit · 11/10/2019 22:28

I avoid the feminism boards like the plague (and I'm sure I'm not the only one by a long shot), so I sure as hell won't be going on there to read it.

Disappointing decision MNHQ.

starlingsintheslipstream · 11/10/2019 22:20

Yeah, pretty disappointing MNHQ.

BarbaraStrozzi · 11/10/2019 22:19

Alternative for a moment I read Megan M and thought "what, there are loads of threads about Megan Murphy on here? Brilliant..." Then I realised my mistake.

HumberElla · 11/10/2019 22:18

Agree. Odd decision. Is the ‘current topics appearing in more than one thread’ thing a new rule now?

TheAlternativeTentacle · 11/10/2019 22:16

Does this mean, only one Megan M thread now?

Phew.