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Deleted posts / Suspension warnings - FWR

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GirlDownUnder · 25/08/2019 15:18

FWR - don’t groan, I can hear you from here!

There are special mod’ing rules and very keen outside moderators for the FWR forum. Infraction warnings and deletions feel arbitrary, and unfriendly from a user base.

To help us, your user base, it would be useful if there was a ‘deleted post count’ and ‘rolling total’ on our profiles so we’d know where we are. Specially as there is a rolling count over 6? weeks, and we are not generally advised on post deletion.

If this is something you’d consider, what would you need from us to facilitate this?

Thanks as always for your time and attention.

Brew
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TheProdigalKittensReturn · 27/09/2019 20:02

That's just it, Bernard, isn't it? When pretty much nobody other than the people who think women need to shut up perceive your process as fair then there is a problem.

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GirlDownUnder · 27/09/2019 17:23

Hey MN Gin

I’ve been away, but now I’m back haha yes, I realise I’m only important to myself!

I’m sure you’re aware of conversations all over the FWR board re deletion and messages and such.

Do you have any more than was posted here about how users track themselves?

Any more feedback would be useful at this point.

Cheers and hope you appreciate the life defying Gin I procured Grin

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BernardBlacksWineIceLolly · 31/08/2019 09:16

Banning someone comes at the end of a long (and hopefully fair) process. We have clear guidelines and we've fairly recently updated them (see previous email)

My personal experience says that this isn't true I'm afraid, as does some of the other posts on this thread.

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EmpressLesbianInChair · 30/08/2019 16:57
Flowers

But now back to seriousness... what's HQ's take on posters who openly admit on social media that they're trolling MN?

Rufusthebewilderedreindeer · 30/08/2019 16:40

Thank you very much

Flowers
EmpressLesbianInChair · 30/08/2019 16:37

GrinGrinGrin (((((((((((((Rufus)))))))))))))

Rufusthebewilderedreindeer · 30/08/2019 16:34

Ok specialy for empress

Hug me I’m funny Grin

EmpressLesbianInChair · 30/08/2019 16:28

Fuck me im funny

I don't go beyond hugs, sorry Rufus. Halo

Rufusthebewilderedreindeer · 30/08/2019 14:47

Oooh strange

But probably apt Grin the break free bit at least

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GirlDownUnder · 30/08/2019 14:18

Rufus.....

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GirlDownUnder · 30/08/2019 14:14

Fuck me im funny

Oh god you are - between you and Empress I'm almost saved from the 'blessing' I received earlier. Ahhh I'm safe.

I'll buy more sage on the way home.

And a chicken.

By the by Ruffus this is the add I get under your name - you've some explaining.... [hmmmm]

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Rufusthebewilderedreindeer · 30/08/2019 14:00

My machine attempted to autocorrect

I’m funny

To

I’m confused

I must type that A LOT

Rufusthebewilderedreindeer · 30/08/2019 14:00

Do you see what i did there!!!!!

Fuck me im funny

Rufusthebewilderedreindeer · 30/08/2019 13:59

Sage empress

EmpressLesbianInChair · 30/08/2019 13:58

Joss 'blessed' me t'other day. Should I report?!

Have you considered an exorcism?

Rufusthebewilderedreindeer · 30/08/2019 13:41

girl

I do try and be polite...but sometimes its an epic fail

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RosesAndRaindrops · 30/08/2019 13:34

I'd say that a legit name change is one thing but Joss, being banned under one account, has a bunch of others ready to switch to in order to wind MNers up. Do you think that's reasonable behaviour, RosesAndRaindrops?

Of course I don't! Sounds GFery and playground. Shouldn't be tolerated, you're right.Just when you said sock I wondered if there was also another meaning as I always thought it was when you switched and pretended to be someone else.

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GirlDownUnder · 30/08/2019 13:34

As an aside Rufusthebewilderedreindeer wow you don't do swears so this must've really got your reindeer.

But for what's its worth - yep MN totes ok to allow toady goady fuckery but don't you dare yawn!

PPS Joss 'blessed' me t'other day. Should I report?! Hmm

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GirlDownUnder · 30/08/2019 13:28

And to add - yes, name change all good.

But Joss is a PBP so shouldn't be on here under any name.

Name change is irrelevant.

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EmpressLesbianInChair · 30/08/2019 12:27

Not when you change usernames? As it's always been that you can name-change, that's a big function of MN, that's not socking, is it?

I'd say that a legit name change is one thing but Joss, being banned under one account, has a bunch of others ready to switch to in order to wind MNers up.

Do you think that's reasonable behaviour, RosesAndRaindrops?

RosesAndRaindrops · 30/08/2019 12:09

OK, I'm a bit confused now, isn't a sock when you pretend to be yourself and answer yourself on a thread as another person?
Not when you change usernames? As it's always been that you can name-change, that's a big function of MN, that's not socking, is it?

Disclaimer, I'm absolutely nothing to do with Joss or Bespin before anyone says anything, just wondering if sock also has another meaning Confused

Cascade220 · 30/08/2019 11:46

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BatShite · 30/08/2019 11:36

Might be remembering wrong, but doesn't bespin claim to have no knowledge of how TRAs behave? That might be another one, but sure I have seen bespin talking about how they dont do twitter, have never seen TRA tactics before..etc.

Rufusthebewilderedreindeer · 30/08/2019 10:10

Really really interested in MNHQ response to empress post

I mean we all knew it was happening

Posters are actually targeted

Its fucking obvious

And while I’m here...if being a complete cunt, goading and picking on one poster so they snap ISNT against the guidelines, then with all due respect, change the guidelines!

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GirlDownUnder · 30/08/2019 06:42

And Bespin a member of MN, is aka Bespinuk 👆, so not really ‘in the spirt’ now, and the only reason they’re still a member is because FWR users don’t victiciously or otherwise report or dog whistle other users.

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