To MNHQ: For the past couple of months all PMs that I have sent to another MN member have been deleted automatically from their inbox every time I have deleted them from my Sent items box. And now, this is also happening when I delete PMs that they send me - i.e. they are also being deleted automatically from their Sent items box. I haven't a clue why this is happening (I've checked my settings and for possible glitches etc) but naturally the other party feels very aggrieved that decisions which they should be taking - about what to delete and what to keep - have now been removed from them.

Please can you investigate and resolve if possible?

(Will also be interested to know if others have experienced this)

Many thanks.