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Request for sticky on Pregnancy board

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goodnightdarthvader1 · 13/01/2016 10:28

There have been a few threads popping up for the last few weeks mentioning this issue, so thought I'd ask MNHQ about it.

On the Pregnancy board there has been a higher-than-average influx of "Am I Pregnant?" threads. We can't tell posters if they're pregnant or not - only a test can do that - and symptom-spotting is a sketchy science at best.

Even if it is politely pointed out to posters that we can't tell them, only a test can, they get stroppy and threaten to flounce off to The Site That Cannot Be Named as they are more supportive over there. (I will admit, the politeness level is diminishing as the board is getting inundated with these threads of late.)

A lot of posters (myself included) feel the board is mostly for posters who are confirmed pregnant to discuss symptoms, emotions, baby planning, etc. A redirection suggestion to the Conception board also usually results in an angry comeback. All in all it's putting a bit of a sour taste on the board.

My suggestion is a sticky at the top of the Pregnancy board, eg "If you think you're pregnant, read this" or something along those lines, directing them to Conception. It's my hope that this may reduce some of the posts we get along this line.

And if other posters would like to chip in and tell me I can't control where other people post, I need to get over it, I have no life, why am I worrying about this, yadda yadda, please save your breath. I'm on mat leave, I have a lot of time on my hands, but rest assured all my chores are done in between posting on MN, so don't you worry yourselves Smile

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DinoSnores · 13/01/2016 12:20

It is all rather tedious. Sounds like a good idea.

Could I be pregnant?

Mibbes aye, mibbes naw. Do a test!

goodnightdarthvader1 · 13/01/2016 12:14

Oops, did I*. Being on mat leave also affects my ability to proofread.

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goodnightdarthvader1 · 13/01/2016 12:14

Being on mat leave has jack to do with your 'right' to tell others where to post.

What I just say? Smile

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Epilepsyhelp · 13/01/2016 12:13

It's not exactly distracting, just ignore the ones entitled 'am I pregnant?!'

Being on mat leave has jack to do with your 'right' to tell others where to post. Posting. 'Am I pregnant' in pregnancy isn't exactly irrelevant and if they have done tests/don't know what's going on with their cycle why shouldn't they ask? Lots of posters do want to help and the others can easily ignore.

JessieMcJessie · 13/01/2016 12:01

And why would you post on a board for people who are not yet pregnant when you want to hear the experiences of pregnant women?

JessieMcJessie · 13/01/2016 12:00

Disagree. It's not remotely distracting- they are easy to ignore.

maybebabybee · 13/01/2016 10:50

Agree. It's really distracting to have these kinds of posts on the pregnancy board, when there are people who are actually pregnant who need support and advice.

Conception is a more suitable topic for them.

AuntieStella · 13/01/2016 10:34

At the top of 'elderly parents' there's a click link to the 'dementia' board.

Could something similar be done in Pregnancy, directing posters who think they might be pregnant to 'Conception' and those who want to chat to 'Antenatal Clubs'?

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