Do you use private messaging on Mumsnet? Tell us why or why not.

I have used it occasionally to say something identifying or more detailed that I don't necessarily want 'out there'.

Someone once put something really encouraging on a thread of mine and I felt a bit of a fraud as I had since gone back on all the great advice given by posters (LTB)!

I messaged her to fess up and she was really sweet about it, but I knew if I'd posted it on the thread I'd have been flamed.

I'm always chuffed when someone takes the time to send a PM, especially when they're in a similar position but maybe further down the road. They've seen the pitfalls of accepting every bit of MN wisdom as gospel and offer another view, without running the risk of being shouted down by the forceful majority.

Do you mean they're bitching about the OP, BIWI?

What I hate about PMs is when people use it to carry on the conversation 'behind the scenes' because they're too cowardly to post on the actual thread.

Yes.

1. Usually for things like exchanging email addresses, because I've offered to review a CV or proofread something, or to give more detailed information about something which I wouldn't do publicly, or to avoid derailing.

2. Haven't used it for months, but then I might PM a few different people in a short time.

3. D - a combination. Those MNers I am in regular contact with I mostly contact through Facebook, having first exchanged details via PM.

I don't use it often, but I'm glad it's availablewhen I do use it.

I use it quite a lot. I might send someone a message about a thread - not necessarily the OP. I write a lot to some of the women on a particular board, where we share an interest. My sister's on here and occasionally we'll use messages here instead of texts.

I really wish there was some way of seeing past conversations, beside scrolling through hundreds of messages.

I very rarely delete anything, which I need to get onto, too.

Yes of course IPaid.

Is it true that MNHQ have access to people's PMs?

No I don't.

Never had a reason to talk to anyone more personally really and obviously people feel the same about me!

Very, very rarely because I'm billy no mates these days.

Back in the day I used to get loads but then I got a RL life and logged off for a bit, name changed blah blah blah.

Yes, I use it.
Sometimes to show support, and maybe 'share' something I didn't want to on thread. Sometimes the thread has moved on, and commenting on it would be apparently out of context, and look odd. I have always used it in similar amounts. There are MNers I keep in touch with. Combo of PM and other social media, FB and such. Probably 'D' in your options. :)

I was just thinking today I haven't had any pms for ages . Had a look in my inbox and think I've only had about 20 this year. Probably sent half that number.

I kind of miss it, but I hardly know anyone on Mumsnet any more.

I used to use it for gossip, and once someone very kindly sent me some perfume.

Someone called Mattberryontoast accused me on a recent thread of sending a hateful pm. I really don't think I did but as Mattberry has not told me who he or she used to be, I'll never know.

Yes but only occasionally (once every couple of months) - usually to the Woolly Hugs team about blanket info.

I use it very rarely, it's awful not being able to read a 'conversation' on there.
I use it mainly to ask someone for more details on something they've said, but don't want to derail the thread.

Yes:

1. Normally when I want to recommend something that would give me away so I will send info via PM.
2. About once a month.
3. B

Do you use private messaging on Mumsnet?

If YES:

1. What type of things do you message for?

To ask someone I'm on a thread with about something specific, mostly on the Bootcamp threads where I might not have their direct contact details

To respond to questions I get - again, mainly from the Bootcamp threads

1. How often do you use messaging? Is this more or less than in the past?

Not very often - but has been consistent over the years

1. What sort of messaging contact do you have with other Mumsnetters - a) Regular; b) As needed; c) One off ; d) A combination of these

As needed

I message to ask questions or offer assistance. I use it infrequently and as needed.

It's a good syste!, I like it.

I've had messages from people on Mumsnet and I respond via the same system ... It's all very easy to use.
Happy with it !! thanks !