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HELP! I need your support!

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DottyDooRidesAgain · 05/07/2014 01:09

I have copied and pasted my original post along with the reply from Amy.

A guest speaker/poster/professional?

I am part of a thread discussing historical/personal accounts of sexual abuse and rape.
A few posters have posted about their negative experiences with the police. Obviously this is distressing and should never have happened to them but it does concern me that somebody reading the thread may be put off reporting a sex crime to the police.
Most of the posters on that thread have cited reasons for not reporting and not being believed/badly treated by the police was one of them.

I wonder if it would be possible for MNHQ to have a sexual abuse/rape officer do a blog or Q & A session where the process of reporting a sex crime can be discussed along with how the victim can expect to be treated. I just feel this maybe be a positive step towards people feeling they can report a sex crime and that they will be treated with dignity and respect no matter if it was a stranger/lover/husband or family member.

If MNHQ have already covered this then I apologise, I'm relatively new to the site.

Many thanks

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amyMumsnet France (MNHQ) Fri 04-Jul-14 17:24:27

Hi Dotty,

Starting a thread in site stuff is the best way to make a request. If it looks like there's a lot of interest in a certain guest then we'll do our best to get them to come along.

If you agree that this would be helpful and supportive can you please add your comments.

Many thanks Smile

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SignYourName · 08/07/2014 07:14

Excellent idea Dotty

I know you had Keir Starmer here when he was still DPP, but every CPS area has a specialist sexual offences lawyer and a specialist DV lawyer; perhaps a grassroots prosecutor who could explain what to expect if a perpetrator is arrested and/or charged (timescales, what the prosecutor has to consider, giving evidence etc) would also be a useful addition?

sunev · 08/07/2014 07:05

Good idea.

DottyDooRidesAgain · 08/07/2014 06:55

Bumps are always welcome Grin

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TheRealAmandaClarke · 08/07/2014 06:44

O. That's the other thread. Sorry.

TheRealAmandaClarke · 08/07/2014 06:43

I can't think of anything helpful to say but wondered if a bump was still useful.

YeGodsAndLittleFishes · 07/07/2014 22:10

It's still there! Grin

DottyDooRidesAgain · 07/07/2014 21:22

The les I know the better I think Wink

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EllenMumsnet · 07/07/2014 21:21

Trying to lay off it whilst on duty. Leads to all sorts of situations Grin

DottyDooRidesAgain · 07/07/2014 21:20

Ohhh thank you muchly.

Oi did you take the Gin a well! Grin

Flowers
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EllenMumsnet · 07/07/2014 21:15

Evening DottyDoo and all who've posted on this thread. We have received your report at MNHQ - and will forward a link to this groundswell of support for the idea to our Campaigns & Content people for their consideration. Flowers back at you Dotty Grin

DottyDooRidesAgain · 07/07/2014 20:29

Helloooo MNHQ

Is this enough support for you to consider it?

Would somebody please report this post so MNHQ see it as it feels a bit odd reporting myself Grin

Thank you all for your support. I really hope this happens and I think the addition of DV is fantastic and very worth while. Flowers Flowers

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ReadyisKnitting · 07/07/2014 20:22

This is a fantastic idea. Knowing what to expect would make reporting a more known process.

I agree with a pp, that demystifying domestic abuse/ leaving for a refuge.

ReallyFuckingFedUp · 07/07/2014 20:15

great idea

glenthebattleostrich · 06/07/2014 19:48

Great idea

OutsSelf · 06/07/2014 19:42

Yes, this would be brilliant, and also that thread seems like such an important social document, I wonder if there is a way of it being preserved in some form, I realise that posters may have posted on the 30day rule but it has so much to communicate to those working in this area

DottyDooRidesAgain · 05/07/2014 19:23

Thank you for everyone's support Grin

I'm not sure how much support I need before MNHQ will look in to it but I defiantly think it would be of great benefit for the site and those that use it.

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BitterAndOnlySlightlyTwisted · 05/07/2014 19:16

Yep, this is a fantastic idea. I fully support it.

OnIlkelyMoorBahtat · 05/07/2014 17:54

Great idea Dotty, you have my support as well!

CwtchesAndCuddles · 05/07/2014 17:47

Great idea!

snakeandpygmy · 05/07/2014 17:19

Good idea

LadyIsabellaWrotham · 05/07/2014 17:07

We had Keir Starmer, the previous DPP on recently but I agree that it would be great to have people to talk from the coal face about what victims have a right to expect from the process.

WorraLiberty · 05/07/2014 17:06

Brilliant idea Dotty

DottyDooRidesAgain · 05/07/2014 17:01

I would like to hope so.

It would also be great if we could use it to direct posters in need of that kind of information to. MNetters offer fantastic support to those in need but being able to direct them somewhere on the site would be a massive chunk of extra support.

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RustyParker · 05/07/2014 16:54

Adding my support, thank you op.

Would it be possible if it goes ahead to have a permanent place where we could refer to it?

FabULouse · 05/07/2014 16:54

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