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Would you rather your kids played indoors than out?

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HelenMumsnet · 05/08/2013 16:52

Hello.

We've been asked if MNers would rather their children played indoors than outside - and, if so, why?

Is it because it's just less faff? Or because it's safer?

And, if you do prefer your children to play outside, can you tell us why? What do they gain from outdoor play that they can't get indoors? And do you feel you're unusual in preferring to get them outside?

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TheOneWithTheHair · 05/08/2013 20:49

Thanks Helen. Not much of a mystery! Grin

HelenMumsnet · 05/08/2013 20:40

@TheOneWithTheHair

Either.

I also think it's extremely odd that MNHQ don't know who is asking the question.

Sorry, folks. Been away from my screen.

We've been asked by Sky News, I believe. They're thinking of running a story tomorrow.

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JambalayaCodfishPie · 05/08/2013 20:35

I must admit, I read 'We've been asked' and immediately thought by who.

Why can't we know - because it may affect our answers?

TheOneWithTheHair · 05/08/2013 20:35

Actually I prefer them to be outside when they can. We usually have so much rain that I like to take advantage of any dry weather at all.

TheOneWithTheHair · 05/08/2013 20:28

Either.

I also think it's extremely odd that MNHQ don't know who is asking the question.

Nagoo · 05/08/2013 20:24

Outside. They tire themselves out and my house stays clean.

PollyPlummer · 05/08/2013 20:22

Outside. We try to get out every day. If they play inside they fight over toys. If they play outside they run around pretending to hunt for dinosaurs. No fighting and they wear themselves out. It's a win win situation.

CMOTDibbler · 05/08/2013 20:16

Outside. ds needs to burn off energy, and the garden or the green opposite is the best place to be running round.
At the weekends we are out all the time.

RedundantExpat · 05/08/2013 20:12

Outside. Healthier and limited because of weather conditions, so seems more precious.

MNHQ, I also want to know who wants to know.

MrsGeologist · 05/08/2013 20:10

I prefer outdoors, but our garden isn't terribly safe at the moment and I can't spend all day every day at the park, so they spend more time indoors than I would like.

If my garden were safe, they'd spend most of the holiday outside.

Breezy1985 · 05/08/2013 20:03

Mine prefer to be out, they are 7 & 9, at the moment they just come in to be fed.

They enjoy the freedom of being out, lots of friends to play with and just seem happier in general to be outside Smile

Theincidental · 05/08/2013 20:03

Sorry, pressed send to early!

What a funny question! Who thinks kids belong indoors?

Not me. Outside getting muddy/wet/covered in sand from the beach etc

Fresh air exhausts children like nothing else, as well as being active and healthy it's fun and easy to stimulate them.

Tigerbomb · 05/08/2013 20:02

I've brought two children up (now in their 20's) in a three bedroom 2nd floor flat. Fortunately the flat was huge but there was a communal garden. The Dc's rarely went out there so they mainly played inside. The area we lived in at the time had a rather dodgy reputation and I didn't want them to play outside anyway.

So I suppose it depends on awful lot on what is available and where . For us at the time inside was definitely better than outside

Theincidental · 05/08/2013 20:01

What a funny question! Who thinks kids belong indoors?

Not me. Outside getting muddy/wet/c

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jackandjilly · 05/08/2013 19:36

Happy to go with the floSmile

CharlotteCollins · 05/08/2013 19:33

The question is oddly worded. A bit leading? But not in the expected direction, as others have noted.

KnittedWaffle · 05/08/2013 19:32

Outside, definitely. Far easier to hose the mud off the DC than spend all day tidying and cleaning up after them.

CharlotteCollins · 05/08/2013 19:31

Outdoors, in theory.

In practice, they often don't want to do anything active unless I'm outside running around with them. Which tires me out before them, and then I'm worn out and they're grumpy that I've stopped playing so soon!

Maybe less tidying up to do when they play in the garden (it's overgrown and not much cared for)... although I often discover things they've abandoned outside only after it's rained (toys, shoes, that kind of thing).

tittytittyhanghang · 05/08/2013 19:28

Outside. For my benefit as in the house stays tidy, i get peace and the fresh air tires them out. Win win for me.

motherinferior · 05/08/2013 19:17

Obviously everyone is going to say 'outside'. See my first post. We know it is the Right Answer.

Equally obviously Whoeveritis who has posed the question needs people to say they do feel it is unusual. Probably for a study/feature on Cooped Up Kids.

FoxPass · 05/08/2013 19:01

outdoor, every time! fresh air, more choice and imagination, easier to tidy up and tires them out more Smile

LEMisdisappointed · 05/08/2013 18:56

But helen, you must know WHO asked?

LEMisdisappointed · 05/08/2013 18:53

I prefer to get her out and about, i dont let her play out on her own as it is not a suitable road and she doesn't have friends on this road either. She is 8.

Why?

MooseBeTimeForSpring · 05/08/2013 18:49

Outside, although I live in Northern Canada where it can be -30 from October to April. It's a very dry cold though, so you can have fun outside for a little while if you're suitably dressed.