i had a god awful pregnancy thanks to my caring midwife.
i was 37 when i found out i was pregnant, and after 9 pregnancies of doing everything right and miscarrying from 9 weeks through to 7 months, i kind of let my guard drop a bit with this pregnancy.
with regards to testing, i was asked to take the HIV test, all screening tests and the smoking tests...i refused them all apart from the basic screening for iron levels and that type of thing.
well if i did, the 1.5hours at my booking in appointment was basically the MW telling me that i was 37 and a geriatric mother, and the risk of me having a down syndrome was extremely high given my age. honestly i sat there feeling like i was doing the worse thing ever....in the end i said look i am 37, i am not old, i am not dying, i'm having a baby which apparently is very wrong as far as you are concerned, if the worse that happens is my baby has down syndrome then i will still consider myself very blessed!!! didn't shut her up mind up....
every appointment after that my age and down syndrome were brought in to it!
9 months later, after smoking approximately 6 cigarettes throughout my entire pregnancy -not something i am proud of let me tell you - but from smoking 20+ a day i considered this to be a major acheivement, after telling the midwife this, she kind of brushed it aside and said "don't worry about that you'll be fine"..." now are you sure because of your age you don't want the amnio or blood tests done"...i mean seriously WTF is 37 really that old these days.
anyway i am pleased to say, my daughter was born 11 days over her due date, extremely healthy weight (9lb 12ozs) and is a happy well adjusted littled toddler 