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how to de reg?

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devientenigma · 03/02/2013 14:33

can someone tell me how to do it, cheers.

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devientenigma · 06/02/2013 08:05

How to start.......again.........all this because I was just stating how it wouldn't work for my youngest, then a few hurtful comments towards me, so I retaliated. Then bring on all joining in.

It doesn't matter what I say now people will make of it what they will, true or not. Not everyone saw me in the way some on the thread have and what you state now.

This thread is just as unfair as the bitching thats still going on without me there. Curious to know which disabilities you think, I think are not worthy, we are an extended family with many disabilities/needs.

I have been told I don't downplay people, do not try to make mine worse etc in fact from the inboxes FWIW people have been telling them how supportive Iv'e been to them, it's not being unfair etc but no worry now as certain posters have made it clear it would never work me on SN anymore, although your 1st paragraph seems all nice it's whats said afterwards which mean I can't. Yet here I am still trying to justify myself.

Maybe if I had of said what was being proposed would work for my other 3 with special needs/disabilities you would all think it's great. Or maybe not.

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ProtegeMoi · 06/02/2013 00:39

Dev not one person has said you and your son were not wanted, they were your words. Many posters sympathised with you.

You do need to realise your not the only one who has it tough however, you seem to downplay the needs of other posters children and try and 'outdo' them which is very strange. No one is saying you don't have a lot to deal with but believe me you are not the only one.

You seem to think that certain disabilities are not as 'worthy' as help is available which if course is not always the case and there are sadly many many children who cannot be helped.

I have stopped checking the campaign now and have no clue as to the FB references but that is my understanding of it.

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devientenigma · 06/02/2013 00:05

I know where some of this is from, it came from an inbox I gave to someone trying to explain what happened, how I felt and why I retaliated. It obviously didn't help to make things better. Never mind, I now know where I stand with many.

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sickofincompetenceandbullshit2 · 05/02/2013 23:39

Dev, I have never hounded you or treated you with contempt. Even on that thread, I still can't see where anyone did. But this isn't on, going around and starting multiple threads accusing everyone of stuff that just isn't real.

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devientenigma · 05/02/2013 23:26

MNHQ this thread asking how to de reg has now been used against 2 people not knowing where to go for support after what happened. It's them who are wrecking their campaign, not us. I think you should take a good hard look at the way the thread went included the deleted posts. I think you will find our genuine answers/questions were met with contempt.

This is the last I want from any of it, they hound us off MN SN, the campaign and now go searching for anything on us, I have been ill since the horrible bitching started on Friday. I am stuck in the house 24/7 with my disabled son who is nearly 12, he can't access respite or school due to his needs and basically comes with a risk assessment telling you specific stuff about him, hence why I kept defending him on the campaign as he wouldn't fit what was being said. This was my respite till they got hold.

As for multiple threads on here and FB I would like to know where so I can put that right as well, think my status all day today was RIP bro x

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sickofincompetenceandbullshit2 · 05/02/2013 22:32

Yours were not the only posts deleted. Nobody has said anything remotely similar to not wanting your child in the campaign. Please look at how the 'mean girls' have been upfront and not gone and started multiple threads bitching about you both, on here or on FB.

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devientenigma · 04/02/2013 19:22

I did not personally attack, I merely defended myself and my son.

(whom they don't want in the special needs campaign)

Thanks to the personal attacks to me, some of which aren't deleted I have now lost MN SN as a lifeline.

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HelenMumsnet · 04/02/2013 17:04

No, your posts don't automatically delete if you dereg.

We'll take a look at things for your, dev, and we'll reply to your mail to us (thanks for that) in due course.

I shouldn't imagine that we've deleted your posts for any other reason than that they broke our site rules by containing personal attacks. We will take another look, though.

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devientenigma · 04/02/2013 14:32

if I de reg do all my posts go with me?

Helen you just need to take a look at your campaign to realize why I have to go.

Plus you've deleted all my posts in my defense.

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MNHQ
HelenMumsnet · 04/02/2013 14:21

Dev, we really hope you don't actually want to know how to de-reg?

We're sorry if things have happened to make you unhappy.

Please do drop us a mail at contactus at mumsnet.com and we'd be happy to see if there's something we can do to help.

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devientenigma · 04/02/2013 13:59

I have been breathing and it's not fine. It's great how someone can drive a wedge, get others to join in and make someone lose a lifeline.

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Dothraki · 04/02/2013 00:24

Devie just breathe - and you will be fine Smile

nannynick · 03/02/2013 23:28

If you are really asking... then here is how to do it:

MyMumsnet - Registration - it will prompt you for login details (even if you are auto logged in, a security measure I guess). Then a little way down the page you will find a link to cancel Mumsnet membership completely.

However you may just want to take a break... just don't log in. Mumsnet will still send you newsletters (you can edit subscription to those, again in the MyMumsnet section I think).

If you feel you are being bullied... send an email to MNHQ via [email protected] as they want to know about that.

BillericayDickie · 03/02/2013 23:27

sorry it is other subjects

BillericayDickie · 03/02/2013 23:25

there is a topic on mn called "other"

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devientenigma · 03/02/2013 23:24

how do we add others? Is there others?

Maybe you need to ask MN for a new topic Grin

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BillericayDickie · 03/02/2013 23:22

but they can't as they are the queen bee's
might work, no harm in trying

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devientenigma · 03/02/2013 23:21

till they gatecrash, until then doable.....

If your talking about the de reg Mike, I hadn't a clue where to put it, then got desperate.

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MikeLitoris · 03/02/2013 23:19

3rd thread asking?

BillericayDickie · 03/02/2013 23:18

devientenigma like you I have the same problem....so why don't we start a thread in chat or other..... for the rejects that don't fit,
that way we can all still chat without the people who run the other topic.

BillericayDickie · 03/02/2013 23:16

I have an answer for people like us the people who do not fit.........

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devientenigma · 03/02/2013 23:14

lol, I kind of did go nasty back, mine was deleted but the bullying by the others towards me remained.

Blue I know how to do it now lol, gonna NC tho. Grin

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Dothraki · 03/02/2013 22:09

you could just be really nasty and MNHQ will drown you in a vat of gin sort it for you

usualsuspect · 03/02/2013 21:57

If someone's being mean to you report them.

BluelightsAndSirens · 03/02/2013 21:56

Spill then I might tell you how Grin