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Troll-hunting and subsequent Thread-ruining

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oneofsuesylvesterscheerios · 07/04/2012 16:42

Yes, in some ways this is a thread about a thread, although its actually an interesting general point too. Plus, I don't want to carry on the discussion on the actual thread as it would be too damaging and would take it off in a completely different direction.

So... If a poster broke the rules and shouted troll, and then they were chastised (rightly) and the post removed, unless the offending surrounding comments reacting to the troll-hunt are removed too, the damage has been done surely?

We assume when someone posts regarding a personal trauma that they are telling the truth (well I hope we do) and if we suspect anything, we surely just ignore these days: we know the MN guidelines, etc.

And we know that certain situations in life happen to a lot of people (bereavement, loss, break-ups, etc). So when someone goes through a horrible time, the beauty of MN is that we don't just get sympathy and unmumsnetty hugs; we get empathy from folk who have been there themselves. We also often get bloody good advice, practical and emotional.

A thread that contains an accusation of troll-hunting is blindingly obvious even when the offending poster's comments have been removed. And thus, the damage is done.

When my dad died last I had some fantastic support from mnetters who'd suffered the loss of a parent and knew how 'rootless' it can make you. I'd have been confused and beyond upset if anyone had questioned my grief online. It doesn't matter how many positive posters there are on thread; just one snarky comment and the wave of a pitchfork is enough to send the OP packing, at a time when they might need the 'anonymous' support of MN most.

So, what I'm asking MN Towers is: if troll-hunting is banned, and it's fully acknowledged how damaging this could be on a thread that offers support to lots of people, often not just the OP, shouldn't all references and posts regarding an accusation be completely removed so the thread can remain intact and totally focused on the thread subject? Otherwise, it seems pointless.

OP posts:
OracleOnACrossacle · 08/04/2012 23:11

I stick mine on the radiator. on top of my cardies.

currently looking for a clear backed, strapless bra. seems that they dont exist.

nenevomito · 08/04/2012 23:10

I like giant M&S cotton pants [bublush]

I used to wear thongs. Never again.

PinotCantDoEasterNamesSoGaveUp · 08/04/2012 23:09

I don't like those slippery non-VPL pants. they're all a bit of nothing and I worry they'll fry in the tumble dryer.

BIWI you minx. Lucky MrBIWI

I am ne'er ageist Beer you old bag Wink

OracleOnACrossacle · 08/04/2012 23:08

I do have chunky thighs and knobbly ribs though

OracleOnACrossacle · 08/04/2012 23:07

M&S no VPL pants are ACE!

BeerChicksPotter · 08/04/2012 23:07

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PaquesJeLeVauxBien · 08/04/2012 23:07

I like big pants, with no VPL.

Even though my arse is deflating, along with my boobs, I still like good coverage.

(But when I reach my goal weight I am going to buy myself some really sexy stuff.)

BeerChicksPotter · 08/04/2012 23:06

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OracleOnACrossacle · 08/04/2012 23:04

no, Im quite fortunate. I tend t wear those half knickers half shorts from primark. no cutting in lacky bands!

LadyBeagleEyes · 08/04/2012 23:03

Hi legs for me too. Not just any Hi legs M&S Hi legs.

PinotCantDoEasterNamesSoGaveUp · 08/04/2012 23:03

Hi-legs? Floozy.

I decided at 36 years and 11 months I should probably not talk about my gusset at 11pm on Easter Sunday Hmm :o

BeerChicksPotter · 08/04/2012 23:02

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OracleOnACrossacle · 08/04/2012 23:01

Bread, why are you so keen to find out what gets the trolldar pinging?

I like big pants.

BeerChicksPotter · 08/04/2012 23:00

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PinotCantDoEasterNamesSoGaveUp · 08/04/2012 22:59

I decided when I turned 30 that never again would I wear uncomfortable knickers. I like a mini brief from Marksies with a cotton gusset. So there.

nenevomito · 08/04/2012 22:54

Beerchicks - thats what I meant.

Where there's not enough proof, threads get the benefit of the doubt.

nenevomito · 08/04/2012 22:52

Indeed stratters.

This nn is a pair of pure cotton bottom huggers in comparison.

BeerChicksPotter · 08/04/2012 22:49

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LadyBeagleEyes · 08/04/2012 22:48

I reported a thread this morning that is still there.
I know I wasn't the only one to report, but sometimes there is nothing MN can do particularly if the poster looks 'vulnerable'.

SarahStrattonsEasterName · 08/04/2012 22:46

Bedtime for me. Us Incomparable Beauties need to take care of ourselves.

SarahStrattonsEasterName · 08/04/2012 22:46

PMSL @ baby, bit constrictive was it? [bugrin]

nenevomito · 08/04/2012 22:45

Some threads left standing are left due to lack of proof rather than veracity.

(p.s. Just to be clear I posted earlier on the thread using what has to be my shortest lived new nn ever. It was like wearing knickers a size too small, I tell you. It did the job, but it punished me in unexpected ways so am back to being me IYSWIM.... As you were Grin)

SarahStrattonsEasterName · 08/04/2012 22:44

I think Matthew probably has enough for his next show by now. [bugrin]

LadyBeagleEyes · 08/04/2012 22:43

I think it's time you backed out of this thread slowly Stratters.Confused

SarahStrattonsEasterName · 08/04/2012 22:42

No bread not at all. It just means, as I explained above, that as it's their only post, they have nothing to refer to. Not if the IP address doesn't match up to previous trolls.

And hounded off is a bit strong. One post, with 2 or 3 follow ups stating why I said it is not hounding off. I agree that in hindsight I shouldn't have posted, but that doesn't mean that I change my mind.