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can all my posts be deleted and my account?...

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violet79 · 13/11/2011 01:59

Ive tried posting nicely on this site 3 or 4 times now and ive just been called a liar or a troll and actual curses, ive been nothing but nice to ppl and never given anyone reason to think im lying or a beeeyatch...nothing i write is ever good enough...
there are a few ppl on here who are genuinly good and want to help out and i thank them ppl greatly.
i just posted my new thread edited so that noone could accuse my case of being "so outrageous" that i must be a lying cow but a quick scour of the net has confirmed my fears , that this is a bully-boy site.
I am appalled to say that the moderators here ...dont , i found personal attacks rife and even when i reported them i was told they would stay...and then on ONE occasion i say "OH COME ON"! when i was thrown abuse ...and I was warned...and THEN my whole thread was deleted when it had crucial advice i was relying on for tommorrow written on it my those few helpful members. all that effort and their effort i wanted to utilise just gone to pot because the moderators would rather delete my thread and the advice i recieved than remove bullies from thier site and thier threads...
so please remove me and all i have wrote...
i am better than this place.

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KatharineClifton · 13/11/2011 02:34

Have you seen the index of sections on here? www.mumsnet.com/Talk

violet79 · 13/11/2011 02:32

kickarsequeen...
how on earth is defending yourself against nasty name calling antagonistic?
If this forum dosent like new members it shouldnt accept them! i haven said anything rude, or nasty. i have been polite. I read the rules and stuck by them where older members havent...
and yuo havent even seen the worst cos its been deleted ...along with all my genuine advice i was actually relying on! and even an offer from a member to email her direct for info and now i have no idea who that member was as i only said i would do so this weekend and intended to find out her post today! ...this is appalling! ...is like ganglands...
how can these ppl possibly support motherhood, parenthood, or feminism...I AM A WOMAN AND A MOTHER AND A PARENT! , so bully me gwan! ...but like a TRUE feminist and mother i will say its crass and yet again ask that EVERYTHING is deleted and hope that a moderator comes along soonish and addresses this
katherineclifton...how do i find anything that isnt AIBU? is it stuff that isnt posted in unreasonable behaviour? cos i have already used thatr ...and thats where i got so much abuse it was deleted !

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mjinprechristmasfrenzy · 13/11/2011 02:24

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KickArseQueen · 13/11/2011 02:23

Violet79, If you want to leave then you can at any time. If you want all your posts deleted then you need to contact MNHQ the easiest way for you to do this is probably report yourself and ask to be wiped from history / all threads to be removed.

I don't know how long you have been here, I can tell you are still getting to know the ropes. My suggestion to anyone going onto any chat site is to lurk for a while. People who don't, have a tendency to put their foot in it, offend people unintentionally and then start shouting that its a nest of vipers when people respond badly.

I've looked through some of your recent threads and from what I can see of what is left of them you are antagonistic even if you don't realise it. It takes 2 to have a bunfight even if only a few cakes are thrown! If you stick around you could learn an awful lot about this site and about yourself. If not, good luck with the headteacher.

For your last line I'm giving you my 1st ever Thanks excellent flounce!!!!

KatharineClifton · 13/11/2011 02:18

AIBU is the section of Mumsnet where you have mainly posted.

violet79 · 13/11/2011 02:17

what is AIBU? i emailed the site and asked if this was standard etticate first time round when i posted in unreasonable behaviour 9simply cos it was the top of the list and covered all bases) the email i got back said to try other topics...i tried primary schools and it was even worse :(
ive tried deactivating the abuse ive recieved but mumsnet says that they dont mind ive been 'spoken too' like that and it will remain :S

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KatharineClifton · 13/11/2011 02:09

Looks like you have mostly posted in AIBU. That section is for flaming. I have that section blocked as it's so vile so haven't seen any of your posts.

Why not post on 'Chat' or other sections of MN?

Your posts won't disappear when you deactivate your account. You would have to go into each and every one of them and press 'report' and ask for them to be deleted.

LeBOF · 13/11/2011 02:05

Sorry love, I know you've had a hard time. Good luck with everything- just go to this page and follow the instructions if you want to de-register.

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