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can all my posts be deleted and my account?...

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violet79 · 13/11/2011 01:59

Ive tried posting nicely on this site 3 or 4 times now and ive just been called a liar or a troll and actual curses, ive been nothing but nice to ppl and never given anyone reason to think im lying or a beeeyatch...nothing i write is ever good enough...
there are a few ppl on here who are genuinly good and want to help out and i thank them ppl greatly.
i just posted my new thread edited so that noone could accuse my case of being "so outrageous" that i must be a lying cow but a quick scour of the net has confirmed my fears , that this is a bully-boy site.
I am appalled to say that the moderators here ...dont , i found personal attacks rife and even when i reported them i was told they would stay...and then on ONE occasion i say "OH COME ON"! when i was thrown abuse ...and I was warned...and THEN my whole thread was deleted when it had crucial advice i was relying on for tommorrow written on it my those few helpful members. all that effort and their effort i wanted to utilise just gone to pot because the moderators would rather delete my thread and the advice i recieved than remove bullies from thier site and thier threads...
so please remove me and all i have wrote...
i am better than this place.

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KickArseQueen · 13/11/2011 03:16

Wow KC!!! you have done well! lol!! I'm counting by almost 8 as preteen but she's a diva! Hmm

KatharineClifton · 13/11/2011 03:15

Thank you empirestateofmind! It's taken me years to work out most of those. Never knew that section was there

KickArseQueen · 13/11/2011 03:15

It doesn't explain Troll tho. I've seen lots of people do exactly what the op has done. They then get called a troll and think someone is being abusive, name calling / being rude.

I'm still waiting for a reply, I'm polite enough to have waited for one, but bed calls all the little kickarses and Mrkickarse will be up at 6.... oops is that the time???!!!!

KatharineClifton · 13/11/2011 03:13

I counting almost ten as preteen Wink

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violet79 · 13/11/2011 03:12

i twice posted in the unresonable section ... and one of those times i abandoned it cos i meant it to be an upbeat convo , just cos i was lonely while my husband was at work ...and possibly have a giggle and make some friends...how wrong was i!
the other time was my very first post and i was nothing but polite...all the pppl who were nasty were simply making out i was exxagerrating in some way or a troll.
i dripped infio when ppl pushed for more info than was nessacary to be able to offer the advice required...i mean i may as well of been asked for my NUS number!
you know what regardless of what side of the road ppl hypothetically drive on , there is never any excuse for bullying and i cant believe how much its allowed on this forum.
you cant be serious about wanting me to answer you question about what is a troll!!! ...i have to say you are taking me back 30 years...surely you must realise that even if i didnt know i could of goggled it by now...so just maybe it would be an idea to stop thinking so negativly...what on earths made you so judgemental!

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empirestateofmind · 13/11/2011 03:08

To find out what all the abbreviations mean you should click on

acronyms

in the talk headings

There you will find AIBU etc explained.

KickArseQueen · 13/11/2011 03:05

Katharineclifton, you think you will get that far???? trust me you may reach for the wine before they reach preteen Wink lol!

KatharineClifton · 13/11/2011 03:05
mjinprechristmasfrenzy · 13/11/2011 03:04

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KickArseQueen · 13/11/2011 03:03

Opinions changed against their will remain of their opinion still.

People who post in AIBU post there because they have an inkling they may be wrong in their opinion..... or are convinced that are 100 and 10 percent that they are right, but someone disagrees. or they think someone else is radically right or wrong and they want blunt, bulk answers there and then!

You went for answers in the wrong place, you weren't going to get the "right" answers for you. MN is divided into topics, look at them, even this post isn't in quite the right place - there is always flouncers corner you know!

KatharineClifton · 13/11/2011 03:03

'Mrswembley, one day you will get drunk'

Oh yes. When your kids are pre-teens, and then teens I imagine.

LoveBeingAFirework · 13/11/2011 03:03

MrsWembley ditto Grin

LoveBeingAFirework · 13/11/2011 03:01

KatharineClifton Sun 13-Nov-11 02:45:49
Am I Being Unreasonable.

AIBU is Am I Being Unreasonable.

It means this is what I thought/did/happened am I right or wrong? There are loads of topics to choose from am off to look at you posts to see what I think.

Btw the site is self moderated. You can report your own post for quicker attention. They might not delete all your posts but you have already been pointed in the direction of deactivating your ac.

mjinprechristmasfrenzy · 13/11/2011 02:57

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KickArseQueen · 13/11/2011 02:57

Mrswembley, one day you will get drunk Wink it will come eventually

KickArseQueen · 13/11/2011 02:56

AIBU = Am I Being Unreasonable?

Katharine stated above

I don't do can's of worms....

MrsWembley · 13/11/2011 02:54

Most people on here at this time of night are awake because of their DCs.

I'm bfing.Smile

I wish I was drunk.Envy

I read your thread in Primary Ed and I thought you were given some excellent advice. I've a feeling it's not the same as the advice you thought was excellent...

KickArseQueen · 13/11/2011 02:54

Nope sorry you are wrong! Particularly about MNHQ and if theres anyone there right now. You posted in a section asking people to tell you in the strongest terms possible if they think you are being the teenyist bit unreasonable. #Law of averages says some will, if you then argue with them that you are not being unreasonable they will argue with you. Its their opinion. If you drip feed information then it appears to a total stranger that you are trolling. You posted in AIBU when you didn't even know what it meant.

You have commited the MN version of jumping into a car and driving it whilst not knowing which side of the rd to use or what the signs mean!

also.. What did you say that caused people to call you names? I've rarely been called anything. Is this a problem you have in RL too? making friends / talking to people? because on here people can say what they think more freely in AIBU its considered expected! In RL people just avoid.

Most of your posts seem angry and I can understand because from your point of view you have been "terribly treated" but you don't realise / accept that you have caused some of this.

So tell me. What is a troll?

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violet79 · 13/11/2011 02:53

clicked on active in the top left and still nothing is clear or apparent in chat or AIBU i dont even know what it stands for...and not sure i care...
i didnt ask anyone to be antagonistic towards me...
i cant find a difference between where ive posted and this new place :S

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violet79 · 13/11/2011 02:50

kickarsequeen of course i know what a troll is...as you insisted i answer...why ould you thin ki i dont...no wait ..dont answer that. on here everything is a can of worms

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violet79 · 13/11/2011 02:46

kickarsequeen...it would seem that there is always a moderator ready to jump pn things from MY experience ..if i am wrong i am wrong i can only go by my experience.

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KatharineClifton · 13/11/2011 02:45

Am I Being Unreasonable.

I'm Drunk. It is rare and very enjoyable Grin

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violet79 · 13/11/2011 02:43

christmasfrenzy...ive actually had no problems posting in the feminism section...

noone has actually described what AIBU means yet !
(is it a secret) ...(like the rules)

just because i am free at irregular hours does not mean that i am spoilt, drunk or a child or expecting a moderator to jump on this thread...i am simply free to post right now...are you spoilt , drunk or a child...after all you are indeed free to post and for much much less of a reason than me...i was actually starting to write up my list for school on monday as advised by the better half of this site and felt infuriated my advice is actually now missing...again ...whats your excuse???

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KickArseQueen · 13/11/2011 02:40

I think you need to backtrack further.
A) do you know what a troll is?
B) A moderator is v unlikely to come along, you need to click on the helpful link above and sort it out for yourself.
C) Click on "active" above on the left and you will see chat is divided into sections, stay away from AIBU, you were asking people to be antagonistic towards you by posting there. The same post in chat would have received a v different response.

Please answer A.....

mjinprechristmasfrenzy · 13/11/2011 02:35

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