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Could you appear on a pilot TV show offering advice to families? Volunteers needed

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AnnMumsnet · 21/06/2011 13:22

You may recall on this thread we asked your views on a new idea for a TV programme which would involve MNers passing on their infinite wisdom to other families in need of advice. The programme makers, Studio Lambert, have taken these comments on board are now ready to proceed to the next step, which is to find Mumsnetters willing to appear on the pilot programme.

Please note, at this stage any filming is just for a mini pilot, which will not be broadcast on TV or anywhere else.

Studio Lambert say: "We have been looking for families who have a problem with a child/teenager, and who would like to get advice from other parents on how to deal with it. We?re now hoping to find some MNetters who would be willing to offer advice to these parents. It might be an unusual tactic which you or one of your friends tried and which was successful. Or maybe it's just a funny anecdote about how you yourself have struggled with a similar issue.

At the moment we're looking at three different problems (see below). Once we have an idea of what advice is out there, we intend to pick one of these problems to focus on, and film a range of different pieces of advice from a range of parents. We will then show this different advice to the parent, and they will try out any options which they like the sound of and think might work for them.

Here's a very brief description of three case studies we're looking to get advice for. If you are interested in being involved, and think you can offer advice on one or all of these issues, please get in touch (see below) and we can explain things further.

Tantrums

A mum of two children (four and 18 months) is looking for advice on how to stop her four year old having tantrums, in particular when they go to the supermarket. She is particularly embarrassed at having to deal with the disapproving looks from other parents as she fails to control her son.

Bed Times/Getting up in the morning

A mum of four children (aged three to 14) is at her wits end about getting her children to go to bed at night and get up in the morning. Her three year old refuses to sleep in her own bed at night - she's tried patiently putting her back into bed every time she gets up, but inevitably the parents end up just giving in and letting her get in with them. This mum also really struggles with getting the 14 year old up in the mornings, and as a result he's often late for school. So she'd love to hear any tricks anyone has for either of these problems.

Unruly Teens

Parents of three children (aged eight to 15) are looking for advice on how to deal with their moody teenage son. He refuses to do his homework, constantly fights with his parents and siblings, and shuts himself away in his bedroom. The parents are specifically looking for advice on how to get him to do his homework, but more generally on any clever ideas on how to get him to be nicer to the rest of the family and not spend all his time holed up in his room.?"

Please do not post advice on this thread - we are looking for folks to volunteer to give advice off line

If you said you were willing to take part in the previous thread we will be making contact directly with you, but we're keen to give more people the chance to contribute. Not everyone who volunteers will end up being filmed as they want to ensure they get a good balance of folks offering advice but if you are selected to take part, it shouldn't be at any cost to you and they will film you in your home (or somewhere mutually agreeable if you'd rather not do this).

If you are interested please email [email protected] with your name, phone number (and best time to call), location, number of children, an outline of why you'd like to take part and which issue you can offer advice on and we will pass on your details to Studio Lambert. They will then make contact with you directly.

Any additional questions please post below and we will endeavour to get answers for you.

Thanks in advance
MNHQ

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FreyaStudioLambert · 27/06/2011 11:40

No, I promise you it won't be from Jeremy Kyle!

VeraGood · 27/06/2011 11:36

are you borowing him off jeremy kyle? Wink

FreyaStudioLambert · 27/06/2011 11:35

Hi JamieAgain. We have very strict protocols about filming with children, so it would be our intention to psychologically test any families we consider filming with. This involves a psychologist talking to the parents (and child if they?re old enough) to ensure there are no serious issues that would prevent us filming with them, and they?re all completely aware of the nature of the programme. We?d also have a psychologist on hand throughout the programme for support if needed.

JamieAgain · 27/06/2011 06:02

Wondering how you will determine whether there are serious underlying problems ? Hopefully in a "Little Angels" way and not a "Jeremy Kyle" way

kerrymumbles · 26/06/2011 15:37

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AnnMumsnet · 25/06/2011 22:48

if you are interested please do get in touch and you can have a chat to the program makers...they are very nice!!! email [email protected] (as per above)....Grin

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HerBeX · 25/06/2011 22:47

My advice would be don't bother to try and stop the tantrum - 4 year olds are supposed to have tantrums in supermarkets, so what? What's the big deal? Just put your earplugs in and carry on with your shopping. Sometimes it's actually quite useful kids having tantrums in shops, the shop assistants deal with you more quickly because they want to get you and your screaming kids out of there as quickly as possible.

If that's the sort of advice your looking for, I'm your woman. Grin

swallowedAfly · 25/06/2011 14:16

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fruitshootsandheaves · 25/06/2011 13:19

A mum of two children (four and 18 months) is looking for advice on how to stop her four year old having tantrums, in particular when they go to the supermarket.

Has she not heard of internet shopping? That's 2 seconds of advice, problem solved. Not going to make a very interesting programme is it?!

whomovedmychocolate · 24/06/2011 21:05

I have underlying problems, there is a suspicious smell in the corner of the living room - I suspect it may be related to the cat or the boy! Current chief suspect is the boy Grin

Gooseberrybushes · 24/06/2011 17:24

Haven't had time to read back and see if there was any reaction but just want to say sorry for earlier uncalled for and pretty horrible comment. It's a smashing idea and a natural progression for mn. I hope really nice women get picked and that it's a great success.

Reality · 24/06/2011 14:40

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Capiche · 23/06/2011 21:01

fabulous Rhubs!! I was just thinking - despite being experienced mum of 6 from 18 -2 years - I am probably too hard core for this but your views echo mine exactly so maybe not Wink

QuintessentialShadow · 23/06/2011 18:46
Hmm

.... says quint, dressed in paint stained trousers, a paint stained top, a turqouise paint stained cap (with Atlas Copco printed on the front) and a green Monsoon paintstained T shirt draped across her shoulders.

Now sitting on a paint stained office chair.

Angry

Oh well.
I am infinitely wise (if not paintstained)

BeerTricksPotter · 23/06/2011 18:45

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QuintessentialShadow · 23/06/2011 18:44

But I think underlying problems would be highly entertaining.

Then it would would be a cross of mumsnet, Big Brother and that Nanny (the one with the naughty step and not much else) Wink

Gooseberrybushes · 23/06/2011 18:29

Grin Ho ho at thoughts of all the know-it-all mumsnetters putting their hands up while innocently looking the other way. Who knows it might lead to a gig on This Morning if you're pretty or controversial enough.

FreyaStudioLambert · 23/06/2011 17:31

And thanks to all those who have been in touch so far. If anyone else wants more information about the programme, please drop Ann a line and we'll give you a call to chat further.

FreyaStudioLambert · 23/06/2011 17:29

Hi Merrylegs - For the pilot filming it will be a real family, who will listen to the different advice and then decide which one (or several) they?d like to try.

The five or six mums who we film offering advice will be given background information on the family and the nature of their problem, much in the same way as it works on MN Talk threads. And needless to say, we?ll be extremely careful in the families we pick, in order to make sure there are no serious issues underlying their problem.

In terms of tone, we want it to be serious and intelligent, but also to reflect the humour and irreverence of MN.

Hope this helps.

Merrylegs · 23/06/2011 14:08

(That was my question, btw. Not advice Grin)

Merrylegs · 23/06/2011 14:05

I would want to know the tone of the programme I think.

Is it pithy or deep? Because, actually there could be a whole host of ishoos surrounding, for eg the kicking off teenager.

So is the 'problem family' real. Or just hypothetical?

Because you would give advice in different ways, wouldn't you? If it were hypothetical you might give a cover all repsonse - 'disconnect the xbox'.

If it were real, you would have to look at the family dynamic to see what was actually going on and to be able to offer any meaningful and constructive advice.

purplepidjin · 23/06/2011 12:56

Oops, I appear to have had a funny five minutes and messaged Ann... Shock

TheRhubarb · 23/06/2011 12:52

If you need someone who takes the extreme view all the time (i.e. pc's are the work of the devil, mobile phones are an unnecessary luxury and kids should be seen and not heard) then I'm your woman! Grin