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Just MC and ready to try again? Pack your cake, wine and tightie whities and join us for more ranting, weeping and most of all laughing! All welcome! (Part 13)

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Chloe55 · 11/02/2011 16:41

This is the place to be for all those wanting to TTC after miscarriage, or have plans on TTC in the relatively near future. This thread is full of support from people who have been there and no how you are feeling so jump on board and share the Wine and chocolate (or water and celery for those of you off alcohol and caffeine Wink)

The thread moves fast so bob in and out as you please. Ask any questions that have been niggling you or that you are concerned about, perhaps someone here has experienced the same in the past.

If you want to join the stats, just add yourself to the list:

WTTC = waiting to TTC
UCL = usual cycle length

Good luck to all - here's hoping for lots of healthy, sticky BFPs by the end of the thread

This is the old thread ref:
www.mumsnet.com/Talk/conception/1135533-Just-MC-and-ready-to-try-again-Pack-your-cake-wine-and-tightie-whities-and-join-us-for-more-ranting-weeping-and-most-of-all-laughing-All-welcome-Part-12

Stats to follow.

OP posts:
cep · 02/03/2011 20:30

iggly only when i got out i forgot. Confused until it splashed over the side a little ooops.

mumtum chart sharing on ff

  1. go to my home page
  2. home page settings 3)go down page till it shows published charts, select the chart you want to show, and press add chart.
  3. should take you back up the page, where it shows the http: stuff highlight all that then copy paste on here with the on either side and should provide proper link......hopefully. i didn't get a bfp until cd 26.
    speaking of which cb digi scared the life out of me tonight, bloody thing, took 1 min to show pg but took the rest of the 3 mins to show how far along. i was thinking omg it's gonna change it's mind and apologise or something. eventually showed 2-3 so yay up to the next stage. ah i'll try and send a pm, i've never done it before.
MumTumWanted · 02/03/2011 20:18

Hey to all, yet again i cant keep up whilst covert mning..... but he indoors has a friend round to play he he so i can tap away andlurk without too much fuss.

collie glad you feel you are getting there after last week

blackkat this moving up the list thing i agree just realised im 5 from the top ... little wonder i keep peeing on a stick !

chloe the fish slapping is defo warranted ( should i at this point admit to having tested this morning too??? was a BFN though so not pleased...

cep im Envy ive not been pmd Grin

oils sore boobs Grin fx for you

as for me well.... i have creamy cm now is this a good thing??? boobs not sore ( except from where i keep poking them to check....) white pants still very much white (TMI??) my temps have been going up but for the life of mne i cant work out how to share my chart with you all on ff ... but id love some thoughts on it... oh and i did have rather a saucy dream last night which i got last time i was heavily pregnant....

think i need a Wine ( and hoping that internet cheapy pg dipsticks turn up in the post tomorrow as ive now run out, as a result of testing every other day since DPO 6 !!) Blush

Iggly · 02/03/2011 19:59

Have a nice bath cep! Grin hope you didn't flood the place.

cep · 02/03/2011 19:30

ooh blackkat never been pm'd before sounds rude. Grin i just got childishly excited about it as well. and that's just greedy you know you can't have your cake and eat it as well, only 1 list.

collie if i'd been thinking i'd probably have realised what you meant, i just get worried with suggesing to many changes to "the list" that i'll upset people, if you know what i mean. Thankyou but it's not just me, you lot do one hell of a lot as well. even now you listen to my being stupid when you guys have got so much on your plates as well. i meant what i said last week, you are like family to me, i'm on here more than facebook, infact i hardly ever post on fb anymore.

olis i'm keeping fx for you hon, how are you managing to stay strong till friday??

mel i liked the one about the broken door, she went and posted it on dadsnet as well was quite funny reading the blokes perspective.

chloe how's the ds? is his bump better?

hope everyone else is ok. sorry if i missed anyone. i left my bath running too long and no doubt i'll flood the bathroom when i get in now. (and it's probably cold. will talk when i get out.

olismum23 · 02/03/2011 19:15

My boobs are sensitive today............really fighting the urge to test after all could just be AF turning up although i hope not :)

Collie2 · 02/03/2011 18:49

cep I meant Grin at your fiddling comment (ff) not tinkering..... That's just like me to get the delivery of the joke wrong!!! But tinker away at the list..... Smile you do a super job of making everyone welcome and comfy Smile

Blackkat · 02/03/2011 18:42

cep tinker away I managed to leave myself on both lists DOH I just pm'd you too love x

cep · 02/03/2011 18:20

iggly apparently feeling horny is normal, it's natures way of helping with the ttc process. Have to admit i rarely feel horny anymore. since ds and putting a billion stone on i just don't have the energy. Grin

blackkat yay for being brave. we're all in it together

collie i can't help tinkering. Grin i just want the thread to be comfy for everyone. Smile tut sigh i like that; copying when i've already done it is just cheating. Grin

Iggly · 02/03/2011 18:19

Thanks black!

Blackkat · 02/03/2011 18:11

Ahem, just taken the plunge and moved up a list, [brave but scared emoticon] and did a little sorting for those on the phone Smile

WEDNESDAY'S LIST

wellieboots cycle 1, UCL 29 or 30, CD32
HidingInTheUndergrowth TTC#1, cycle 4 UCL 28 CD24
Collie TTC#1 MC#1 Cycle 1 UCL 40 CD23
LILI80 TTC #2 Cycle 1 CD23
MumTumWanted TTC#2, cycle 1, UCL28 CD22
Chloe55 TTC #2, cycle 6 post MC#2 UCLrandom CD21
BackOnceAgain TTC#3, Cycle 7 UCL28-32 CD20
lily06 TTC#1 EP Jan 10, MC May 10, UCL 25-? CD16
Banana87, TTC#2, MC#3, UCL35-37 CD16
Ninunina TTC#1 post MC1: Feb 11, WTF, UCL 28-35 cd16
Hadrian TTC#1, MC#1 Dec 2010, cd15
IfAtFirstUDontSucceed: TTC no1, MC no2, Jan 2011, UCL 28/29 cd15
IzzyWizzyletsgetbusy TTC#3 cycle 8 UCL 24-30 CD12
meliesmummy ttc#2 wtf cycle, ucl28 cd11
Loola2shu TTC#3 Cycle 6 UCL35-38,CD9
ZamMummyInGabs TTC#3 cycle 3 postMC#2 UCL26-32, CD8
Iggly TTC#2, UCL 29-31 CD 8
Youremindmeofthebabe TTC#2, Cycle 7 UCL33 CD 4
Blackkat TTC#1, MC#1 Jan 2011, CD 3, ucl random
oli TTC#2 M/C#1 FEB 2011 UCL 30-31 CD?

WTTC
Choccybick TTC#1 (post mc1) cycle 6 UCL 27
Mousebacon TTC#2 MC#2
Blackkat#1 MC#1 Jan 2011, UCL WTF
MaybeBaby TTC#1 MC#1
babypops
tokyotwist TTC#2 MC#1 Feb2011 WTF
WildSheepChase TTC#2 MC#6 Jan 2011, UCL 33-36
laylasmummy09 ttc#2 WTTC UCL 28/29 days
vegasmum ttc#1 wttc ucl? cd?

MIA
BrownB TTC#1 cycle 1 (post MC2) UCL 24-26
Getawiggleon TTC#2, Cycle7 UCL28-32 (Lurking)
Ochaye TTC#3 cycle 1 UCL 31

RECENT BFP's
Digitalgirl TTC#2, MC#3 Oct 2010
Emoo TTC#2, Cycle 1 (post MC1) UCL 26-30, 30/1/11
DachshundsRule TTC#1 cycle 5 UCL28 CD31 BFP 25 Jan 2011
Hairytriangle TTC#1 cycle 1 (post MC2) UCL ?28 BFP Jan 2011
Tigger15 TTC#2 cycle 22 UCL24-9 CD29 BFP 16 Jan 2011
Pinkfondantfancy TTC#1, cycle 5, UCL 28-35 CD29 BFP!!
Lemonsherbert BFP 18 Jan 2011
HongKongBaby#2, cycle 5 (post mc1), UCL 37, CD30 BFP 18 Jan 2011
MamaPower TTC#1, cycle 5 (post MC#2) UCL 25- 27 CD28
Wombat33 TTC#1 Cycle 3 (post MC) UCL 31
LadyBee TTC#2, cycle 5 (round 3) UCL27 CD27
PrettyQuichey TTC#1, (round 7) UCL 28-30
Lovebeingadaddysgirl TTC#? WTC cycle
GetDownYouWillFall TTC#2
KnitterNotTwitter TTC#2, MC#2, cycle 6 UCL 25-30 CD28 BFP 7/2/2011
AandRmum TTC3 cycle 4 UCL29 BFP 18/2/11
Velvetcu TTC #1 Cycle 6 UCL 30-33, 18/2/11
MummyAbroad TTC #2, cycle 2 (Post AS Op)) BFP 23/02/11
Cep TTC#2 Cycle 2 UCL24-28 BFP 24/2/11
Hils74 TTC#1 MC#1 Jan 2011 BFP 28/2/11

RECENT GRADUATES

VivClicquot BFP 25 August
Loopymumsy BFP 29 August
CaribouMoo BFP 7 September
StarflowerGirl BFP 24 Sep
Appleblossoms BFP 9 Oct
Littlemiss72
Urbanlolly BFP 1 Nov
Inbetweener BFP 10 Nov
Owlbooty BFP
Nickstermum BFP

Collie2 · 02/03/2011 18:01

WEDNESDAYS LIST

wellieboots cycle 1, UCL 29 or 30, CD32
HidingInTheUndergrowth TTC#1, cycle 4 UCL 28 CD24
Collie TTC#1 MC#1 Cycle 1 UCL 40 CD23
LILI80 TTC #2 Cycle 1 CD23
MumTumWanted TTC#2, cycle 1, UCL28 CD22
Chloe55 TTC #2, cycle 6 post MC#2 UCLrandom CD21
BackOnceAgain TTC#3, Cycle 7 UCL28-32 CD20
lily06 TTC#1 EP Jan 10, MC May 10, UCL 25-? CD16
Banana87, TTC#2, MC#3, UCL35-37 CD16
Ninunina TTC#1 post MC1: Feb 11, WTF, UCL 28-35 cd16
Hadrian TTC#1, MC#1 Dec 2010, cd15
IfAtFirstUDontSucceed: TTC no1, MC no2, Jan 2011, UCL 28/29 cd15
IzzyWizzyletsgetbusy TTC#3 cycle 8 UCL 24-30 CD12
Loola2shu TTC#3 Cycle 6 UCL35-38,CD9
ZamMummyInGabs TTC#3 cycle 3 postMC#2 UCL26-32, CD8
Youremindmeofthebabe TTC#2, Cycle 7 UCL33 CD4
meliesmummy ttc#2 wtf cycle, ucl28 cd11
oli TTC#2 M/C#1 FEB 2011 UCL 30-31 CD?
iggly ttc#2 ucl? cd?

WTTC
Choccybick TTC#1 (post mc1) cycle 6 UCL 27
Mousebacon TTC#2 MC#2
Blackkat#1 MC#1 Jan 2011, UCL WTF
MaybeBaby TTC#1 MC#1
babypops
tokyotwist TTC#2 MC#1 Feb2011 WTF
WildSheepChase TTC#2 MC#6 Jan 2011, UCL 33-36
laylasmummy09 ttc#2 WTTC UCL 28/29 days
vegasmum ttc#1 wttc ucl? cd?

MIA
BrownB TTC#1 cycle 1 (post MC2) UCL 24-26
Getawiggleon TTC#2, Cycle7 UCL28-32 (Lurking)
Ochaye TTC#3 cycle 1 UCL 31

RECENT BFP's
Digitalgirl TTC#2, MC#3 Oct 2010
Emoo TTC#2, Cycle 1 (post MC1) UCL 26-30, 30/1/11
DachshundsRule TTC#1 cycle 5 UCL28 CD31 BFP 25 Jan 2011
Hairytriangle TTC#1 cycle 1 (post MC2) UCL ?28 BFP Jan 2011
Tigger15 TTC#2 cycle 22 UCL24-9 CD29 BFP 16 Jan 2011
Pinkfondantfancy TTC#1, cycle 5, UCL 28-35 CD29 BFP!!
Lemonsherbert BFP 18 Jan 2011
HongKongBaby#2, cycle 5 (post mc1), UCL 37, CD30 BFP 18 Jan 2011
MamaPower TTC#1, cycle 5 (post MC#2) UCL 25- 27 CD28
Wombat33 TTC#1 Cycle 3 (post MC) UCL 31
LadyBee TTC#2, cycle 5 (round 3) UCL27 CD27
PrettyQuichey TTC#1, (round 7) UCL 28-30
Lovebeingadaddysgirl TTC#? WTC cycle
GetDownYouWillFall TTC#2
KnitterNotTwitter TTC#2, MC#2, cycle 6 UCL 25-30 CD28 BFP 7/2/2011
AandRmum TTC3 cycle 4 UCL29 BFP 18/2/11
Velvetcu TTC #1 Cycle 6 UCL 30-33, 18/2/11
MummyAbroad TTC #2, cycle 2 (Post AS Op)) BFP 23/02/11
Cep TTC#2 Cycle 2 UCL24-28 BFP 24/2/11
Hils74 TTC#1 MC#1 Jan 2011 BFP 28/2/11

RECENT GRADUATES

VivClicquot BFP 25 August
Loopymumsy BFP 29 August
CaribouMoo BFP 7 September
StarflowerGirl BFP 24 Sep
Appleblossoms BFP 9 Oct
Littlemiss72
Urbanlolly BFP 1 Nov
Inbetweener BFP 10 Nov
Owlbooty BFP
Nickstermum BFP

meliesmummy · 02/03/2011 17:58

I'm on my phone, next time someone updates the list could they put me on ucl 28 days, I'm thinking maybe cd 11? As i bled for one week longer than af, im thinking on sun i'd kind of be in the same place hormonally as at the end of af. I'm just totally guessing here but not sure how to work it out tbh!

Ta x

Collie2 · 02/03/2011 17:49

cep Grin at your 'tinkering'

Collie2 · 02/03/2011 17:48

cep you do such a great job of the stats (THANK YOU), but I promise to do better at being a little helper Smile

mels i missed your comment about the aibu thread, just gone back. I don't really lurk there much although did a while back and thought it was scary how angry and aggressive people got. I spend enough time on here, so i daren't lurk anywhere else. Smile

blackkat i think a glass of Wine is an excellent idea, but just a small one, i'm off to the big smoke at the weekend to celebrate an engagement so i am saving up my Wine allowance.....it does work like that, doesn't it? Confused Hmm

Blackkat · 02/03/2011 17:44

iggly sorry! Smile
Sad that there are so many of us here

Iggly · 02/03/2011 17:40

black I think you mean vegas - my mc was last November - just shows there are so many of us on the list Grin

meliesmummy · 02/03/2011 17:40

cep x post - ikwym about vicious posts, some of them really make me smile tho (eg. Aibu to expect my fil to shut the door when he has a shower?) altho I was really insulted by the lady criticising people who have c sections, so smug!

Iggly · 02/03/2011 17:38

Back on my phone so can't do the stats list. They are TTC#2, UCL 29-31 CD 8.
I'm feeling quite randy Blush so will have some fun this week. I've noticed the last two cycles as soon as AF stops, I'm like this [tmi] but it goes after a week or so. Very weird.

Blackkat · 02/03/2011 17:37

Hi vegas so sorry to hear about your loss, those links are brilliant, I re-read them most days to make sure I'm not mad.

cep keep the days on, and yes please be keeper!!

I'm just freaking out about moving up a list! nervous Smile

lily your journey this far sounds awful ((hugs)) I agree with you about the "it's either give up or carry on" I've been at the give up stage so many times Sad then don't know what happens but I carry on. Ladies it's not brave, just life! Smile

Collie have a Wine this eve if it's not o/v day and chill out!! You deserve it after that run Grin

Iggly if you've stopped bleeding and got a -ve then it's up to you, just make sure you're mentally ready! Smile

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meliesmummy · 02/03/2011 17:36

Hi Vegas, sorry you have to be here but welcome. I mc a few days before you, I had a follow up scan on mon and chatted to the nurse after, she said (without me even asking, I guess they get this all the time!) that we could start trying straight away. I stopped bleeding last week and had a neg test yesterday. I was going to wait till af before speaking to the nurse, but we got going again last night! I think we'll try every other night until af arrives (of course I'm hoping it won't!). I'm not using opks thus month, I'm not sure they would change the plan tbh.

cep we had a lovely walk in the park too, so nice to finally get out into some sunshine! No running for me!

cep · 02/03/2011 17:29

my memeory is as bad as always today.

mel i meant to say i used to be addicted to aibu, but i got fed up with some of the really vicious responses some of the used to get.

cep · 02/03/2011 17:26

speaking of which

WEDNESDAYS LIST

wellieboots cycle 1, UCL 29 or 30, CD32
HidingInTheUndergrowth TTC#1, cycle 4 UCL 28 CD24
Collie TTC#1 MC#1 Cycle 1 UCL 40 CD23
LILI80 TTC #2 Cycle 1 CD23
MumTumWanted TTC#2, cycle 1, UCL28 CD22
Chloe55 TTC #2, cycle 6 post MC#2 UCLrandom CD21
BackOnceAgain TTC#3, Cycle 7 UCL28-32 CD20
lily06 TTC#1 EP Jan 10, MC May 10, UCL 25-? CD16
Banana87, TTC#2, MC#3, UCL35-37 CD16
Ninunina TTC#1 post MC1: Feb 11, WTF, UCL 28-35 cd16
Hadrian TTC#1, MC#1 Dec 2010, cd15
IfAtFirstUDontSucceed: TTC no1, MC no2, Jan 2011, UCL 28/29 cd15
IzzyWizzyletsgetbusy TTC#3 cycle 8 UCL 24-30 CD12
Loola2shu TTC#3 Cycle 6 UCL35-38,CD9
ZamMummyInGabs TTC#3 cycle 3 postMC#2 UCL26-32, CD8
Youremindmeofthebabe TTC#2, Cycle 7 UCL33 CD4
meliesmummy ttc#2 wtf cycle, ucl? cd?
oli TTC#2 M/C#1 FEB 2011 UCL 30-31 CD?
iggly ttc#2 ucl? cd?

WTTC
Choccybick TTC#1 (post mc1) cycle 6 UCL 27
Mousebacon TTC#2 MC#2
Blackkat#1 MC#1 Jan 2011, UCL WTF
MaybeBaby TTC#1 MC#1
babypops
tokyotwist TTC#2 MC#1 Feb2011 WTF
WildSheepChase TTC#2 MC#6 Jan 2011, UCL 33-36
laylasmummy09 ttc#2 WTTC UCL 28/29 days
vegasmum ttc#1 wttc ucl? cd?

MIA
BrownB TTC#1 cycle 1 (post MC2) UCL 24-26
Getawiggleon TTC#2, Cycle7 UCL28-32 (Lurking)
Ochaye TTC#3 cycle 1 UCL 31

RECENT BFP's
Digitalgirl TTC#2, MC#3 Oct 2010
Emoo TTC#2, Cycle 1 (post MC1) UCL 26-30, 30/1/11
DachshundsRule TTC#1 cycle 5 UCL28 CD31 BFP 25 Jan 2011
Hairytriangle TTC#1 cycle 1 (post MC2) UCL ?28 BFP Jan 2011
Tigger15 TTC#2 cycle 22 UCL24-9 CD29 BFP 16 Jan 2011
Pinkfondantfancy TTC#1, cycle 5, UCL 28-35 CD29 BFP!!
Lemonsherbert BFP 18 Jan 2011
HongKongBaby#2, cycle 5 (post mc1), UCL 37, CD30 BFP 18 Jan 2011
MamaPower TTC#1, cycle 5 (post MC#2) UCL 25- 27 CD28
Wombat33 TTC#1 Cycle 3 (post MC) UCL 31
LadyBee TTC#2, cycle 5 (round 3) UCL27 CD27
PrettyQuichey TTC#1, (round 7) UCL 28-30
Lovebeingadaddysgirl TTC#? WTC cycle
GetDownYouWillFall TTC#2
KnitterNotTwitter TTC#2, MC#2, cycle 6 UCL 25-30 CD28 BFP 7/2/2011
AandRmum TTC3 cycle 4 UCL29 BFP 18/2/11
Velvetcu TTC #1 Cycle 6 UCL 30-33, 18/2/11
MummyAbroad TTC #2, cycle 2 (Post AS Op)) BFP 23/02/11
Cep TTC#2 Cycle 2 UCL24-28 BFP 24/2/11
Hils74 TTC#1 MC#1 Jan 2011 BFP 28/2/11

RECENT GRADUATES

VivClicquot BFP 25 August
Loopymumsy BFP 29 August
CaribouMoo BFP 7 September
StarflowerGirl BFP 24 Sep
Appleblossoms BFP 9 Oct
Littlemiss72
Urbanlolly BFP 1 Nov
Inbetweener BFP 10 Nov
Owlbooty BFP
Nickstermum BFP

have we seen hiding for a while?

cep · 02/03/2011 17:19

sorry iggly and collie just realised i xposted with you guys. shows me not to take laptop into kitchen to read whilst doing dinner. Grin

collie i used to fiddle with it all the time, so don't be embarrased about it. (ff that it) it's completely normal to wobble so again don't worry that's what we're all here for, to have the support and answers (when possible) when we do wobble. Smile remember when the pseed gets there try a little amount first. ooh i like that you want to keep the dates on but want me to do it. Shock Wink honestly i don't mind but if i do forget someone may have to step in occasionally. Grin

vegas i'm doing good at the moment. i don't know if you read before but i got my bfp last week, so panicking over every ache and pain at the moment. You will be all over the place hon, and don't expect more of yourself than you can do at the moment. Don't feel guilty for feeling jealous of other pg announcements or actively avoiding people who are, it is something that almost everyone on here has done/is doing at some point. how is your other half??

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