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To think it’s crazy that National Minimum wage is £27k

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Butterflyfluff · 09/10/2026 20:08

Yet it’s not really enough to live on 😢

My first job paid £7.5k per year and I thought I was loaded! And I’m not ancient.

Now 2 people on NMW earn over £50k between them yet it’s really not enough these days.

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BIossomtoes · 12/10/2026 07:49

Boreded · 12/10/2026 03:19

No, yours is situational bias.

Seriously, just look it up, all of the information is there…I can’t do that for you

I said that you’re making sweeping generalisations. It’s very obvious that a significant number of millennials are doing very well for themselves. Your categorisation of all boomers being rich as Croesus and all millennials struggling is risible. It has no credibility.

Chewbecca · 12/10/2026 08:46

Public sector workers will continue to be fine on retirement, their pensions will adequately top up the SP to a comfortable level.

The rest will very much be have / have nots. No savings or spunked it all in early retirement (coz there is nothing to stop you doing that) = living on SP & almost in poverty. The ones who saved diligently and made their contributions over a long period will be fine. And hopefully not penalised for doing so.

Constantrunner · 12/10/2026 08:49

Lots of people have cashed pensions in early. Often to help the younger generation with house deposits

Boreded · 12/10/2026 08:54

BIossomtoes · 12/10/2026 07:49

I said that you’re making sweeping generalisations. It’s very obvious that a significant number of millennials are doing very well for themselves. Your categorisation of all boomers being rich as Croesus and all millennials struggling is risible. It has no credibility.

Because you have to talk in generalisations to discuss something impacting 10s of millions of people. Do I think some millenials are going to have great retirements…duh! But is the OVERALL level of wealth going to be comfortably lower than current pensioners, absolutely.

🙄

IzzyGone · 12/10/2026 08:57

DecoratingDiva · 11/10/2026 22:02

I know I’m nit picking but it's not actually quite that much.

if you work a 40hr week it’s £26.4k.

That gives you a take home of just over £22k or around £1800 per month, less if you have a shorter working week of course.

The average rent for a one bed flat in my region is £850 with average utilities £250 so you can manage but you will not be able to save much and with the average price to buy the same flat at £90k you will struggle to buy.

This is why house shares are advertised on right move for letting. A house share ranges from £500-£800 in my area with bills included. So leaves the £1800 net pay with £900/1000 disposable income.

It was the way people lived in lodgings in the 1960s and 70s - thus the sitcom rising damp

Boreded · 12/10/2026 08:57

Constantrunner · 12/10/2026 08:49

Lots of people have cashed pensions in early. Often to help the younger generation with house deposits

Millennials won’t have the ability to do that. Fortunately they may have parents with inheritances that can be used to support the children of millennials , but they didn’t have that luxury

Chewbecca · 12/10/2026 09:01

Boreded · 12/10/2026 08:57

Millennials won’t have the ability to do that. Fortunately they may have parents with inheritances that can be used to support the children of millennials , but they didn’t have that luxury

They will if they have saved into them. And will put themselves in poverty if they cash them in. And if there is ever means testing of the SP, it will encourage even less saving and even more cashing in.

EvieBB · 12/10/2026 10:55

Differentforgirls · 12/10/2026 05:05

Mine are the same. Also their friendship circle.

Lucky you!!

Constantrunner · 12/10/2026 11:19

Chewbecca · 12/10/2026 09:01

They will if they have saved into them. And will put themselves in poverty if they cash them in. And if there is ever means testing of the SP, it will encourage even less saving and even more cashing in.

Anyone who pays into a pension can cash it in when they get to 57. Anyone.
Yes means testing pensions would just lead to widespread early cashing in off pensions and early retirement. Most people's private pensions are not large.

Differentforgirls · 12/10/2026 11:33

EvieBB · 12/10/2026 10:55

Lucky you!!

Why lucky?

FirmSnake · 12/10/2026 12:23

Boreded · 12/10/2026 08:54

Because you have to talk in generalisations to discuss something impacting 10s of millions of people. Do I think some millenials are going to have great retirements…duh! But is the OVERALL level of wealth going to be comfortably lower than current pensioners, absolutely.

🙄

Exactly. As though entrenched inequality will benefit everyone...

rainingsnoring · 12/10/2026 12:52

Stressedoutmummyof3 · 11/10/2026 17:07

My kids pay £100 a month to us so yes we're generally still supporting them. They still use gas and electric, use the internet, eat food when not at work. I have no issue at all with doing this but don't make out we don't support them when that's absolute rubbish. We are not subsidised by MIL at all. Her friend just charges us what it costs to cover the mortgage plus a little extra. Not our fault we don't have a cowboy landlord.
We still get by on £30 k regardless. Whatever the reason that is the exact money that comes in to the house and that is what we live on. You seem rather angry about something that doesn't affect you.

If you actually read what I wrote I said '3 full people'. Presumably your working children pay their personal expenses so you/your husband do not fully support 5 people.
I see that it's MIL's friend who subsidises your rent, not your MIL. You only pay 60% of the market rent.
You also claim carer's allowance, presumably DLA, probably UC, free school meals and child benefit too. Therefore your income is much increased and subsidised by the tax payer, as I said. All these benefits and the rental savings add up to a great deal, probably doubling your income in real terms.

I am not angry that you receive subsidies but it does annoy me when people post that they get by on a small salary when they do no such thing. It's simply dishonest to pretend that you do and are some kind of budgeting genius. It make others feel inadequate (not me personally because we are both earning very good salaries but plenty of others).

rainingsnoring · 12/10/2026 12:55

Boreded · 12/10/2026 08:54

Because you have to talk in generalisations to discuss something impacting 10s of millions of people. Do I think some millenials are going to have great retirements…duh! But is the OVERALL level of wealth going to be comfortably lower than current pensioners, absolutely.

🙄

You are correct, of course.
I don't know why so many people keep talking about huge inheritances. Who knows what will happen in the 30 years or so between now and when millennials (those who are particularly fortunate, rather than the majority)? It could all go on care costs or get lost in a stock market or property market crash. It's very unwise to make assumptions that everything will be marvellous going forwards.

Differentforgirls · 12/10/2026 13:05

rainingsnoring · 12/10/2026 12:55

You are correct, of course.
I don't know why so many people keep talking about huge inheritances. Who knows what will happen in the 30 years or so between now and when millennials (those who are particularly fortunate, rather than the majority)? It could all go on care costs or get lost in a stock market or property market crash. It's very unwise to make assumptions that everything will be marvellous going forwards.

It's always been the same though.

Constantrunner · 12/10/2026 13:08

Not many people go into care for long. Most never go in, those that do usually die quickly. It's healthy bodies with dementia that eat up care costs.

What is far more common is carers at home. The majority of people do end up with visiting carers and the house is then the inheritance

lilkitten · 12/10/2026 13:17

HardFuckingBird · 09/10/2026 20:15

DH and I live off around £50k gross between us and we have a very comfortable lifestyle (we have two children in primary school). It's a perfectly reasonable household income in inexpensive areas (I realise it wouldn't go far in London or much of the south). In my area the problem is lifestyle creep. People's expectations are crazy compared to when we were children. When I was at school most families didn't have one foreign holiday a year, but now a lot of the families I know expect to be able to go away 3-4 times a year. Families often shared one old car - now most people I know have a luxury car per adult, often on PCP. Meals out used to be a rare treat - whereas now a lot of my colleagues feel entitled to coffees, lunches, takeaways and meals out every week.

Agree, last year's gross between us was £44k, with two kids. We have a holiday once a year, have everything we need, no debts. Car bought this year for £8k but I'd been saving for a few years to replace the last one. We don't have to pay the mortgage anymore, however when I finished repaying it 3 years ago the monthly payments were only £320. But I have previously coped on very little money, so I don't know if I'm just good at budgeting and not going overboard on spending. I'm just grateful to have everything that I can afford, but usually there's around £1,500-£2k a month of disposable income so I can save some of it too.

FirmSnake · 12/10/2026 13:22

lilkitten · 12/10/2026 13:17

Agree, last year's gross between us was £44k, with two kids. We have a holiday once a year, have everything we need, no debts. Car bought this year for £8k but I'd been saving for a few years to replace the last one. We don't have to pay the mortgage anymore, however when I finished repaying it 3 years ago the monthly payments were only £320. But I have previously coped on very little money, so I don't know if I'm just good at budgeting and not going overboard on spending. I'm just grateful to have everything that I can afford, but usually there's around £1,500-£2k a month of disposable income so I can save some of it too.

So you manage it by having cheap and then no housing costs. Not so much budgeting as good timing.

lilkitten · 12/10/2026 13:26

FirmSnake · 12/10/2026 13:22

So you manage it by having cheap and then no housing costs. Not so much budgeting as good timing.

Even if I still had the housing costs I'd still have over £1k in disposable income between us though

FirmSnake · 12/10/2026 13:29

lilkitten · 12/10/2026 13:26

Even if I still had the housing costs I'd still have over £1k in disposable income between us though

Perhaps, if you live in a very cheap area. You're £320 mortgage isn't going to have been replicable in most areas in the last decade though.

EvieBB · 12/10/2026 14:16

Differentforgirls · 12/10/2026 11:33

Why lucky?

That kids are blessed with wealth due to inheritance and are financially secure

Differentforgirls · 12/10/2026 14:19

EvieBB · 12/10/2026 14:16

That kids are blessed with wealth due to inheritance and are financially secure

My boys aren't recipients of inheritance.

EvieBB · 12/10/2026 14:56

Differentforgirls · 12/10/2026 14:19

My boys aren't recipients of inheritance.

you said "same" when someone said their kids were well off de to inheritance

Differentforgirls · 12/10/2026 15:20

EvieBB · 12/10/2026 14:56

you said "same" when someone said their kids were well off de to inheritance

I meant my two are wealthier than my husband and I were at their age, due to their own income. Plus they don't have children yet and we did at their ages - them! 😀

They will get inheritance - maybe. But only from us and not millions!

Their Gran is one of the pensioners who apparently don't exist, the ones living on pension credit and her husband passed away young. My husband's Dad.

My parents have also gone. I got some money from my parents after they died but not the millions people on this thread think every "boomer" had. They were boomers.

Sorry that I mixed you up.

Boreded · 12/10/2026 15:43

rainingsnoring · 12/10/2026 12:55

You are correct, of course.
I don't know why so many people keep talking about huge inheritances. Who knows what will happen in the 30 years or so between now and when millennials (those who are particularly fortunate, rather than the majority)? It could all go on care costs or get lost in a stock market or property market crash. It's very unwise to make assumptions that everything will be marvellous going forwards.

I hope my mum spends all of hers…I don’t want her dying with money left, I want her to live her life and spend to the fullest while she is fit and healthy. Definitely don’t want her propping up my retirement, and I definitely don’t want her to think she has to save to leave me some, only for it to be wiped out in care fees.

Finta · 12/10/2026 15:44

£27k is not horrible. You can make do outside of London in a flat or house share

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