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Friend's dog bit a child, whose fault?

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karrabee · Yesterday 09:43

Dog was on a lead, probably 1.5 metres ahead. Family of 2 adults and 2 children walking past in opposite direction. Children probably 4 and 8? As they walked past the younger girl darted towards the dog and put her hand on his head (flat palm almost like she was hitting him but I think she was trying to pat him on the head) and he nipped her. We were passing each other on a path in a park so were quite close already. Had zero time to do anything as from her walking past to touching him happened in about 1.5 seconds. We had no interaction with the other family prior to this. Dog has never bitten before, we think he just got a fright from the girl, but the family went mad and started threatening to call the police saying we have a dangerous dog (he's am old staffy who has never bitten once and we were so shocked that he even nipped her as he is extremely gentle!). Family followed us round the park and kept shouting 'we know where you live, police are going to be well aware of you'. The girl wasn't injured, skin wasn't broken, but she was obviously scared. Surely this is the fault of the family for not teaching their children not to touch dogs? I don't have a dog so haven't really had to think about it before, but my son knows not to touch dogs without confirming with the owner that they're friendly. It is drilled into him!

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MyrtlethePurpleTurtle · Yesterday 23:15

ilovesushi · Yesterday 17:49

There's a nip and a bite and this was a nip. Girl needs to learn some sense around animals and her parents need to learn some manners.

And OP’s friend needs to learn how to walk her dog on a short lead

QuizNight · Yesterday 23:16

Both parties are at fault. Unfortunately, the dog now requires a muzzle on all walks. I know it’s upsetting, especially as it seems like it was partly the other party’s fault, but once a dog bites once it’s what must be done. They can now no longer truthfully say their dog has never bitten anyone, and once that’s the case, the dog needs to be acknowledged as a biter and precautions need to be put in place going forward.

Mischance · Yesterday 23:20

Our lives are ruled by dogs now. It is so depressing.

WorkingMum90 · Yesterday 23:30

This dog should be properly controlled and/or muzzled on walks. Dog owners are forever telling me & my kids that their dogs are friendly and please pet them. Whilst we don't, most kids do, and it's now the norm to see kids round here petting dogs they don't know. If a dog isn't happy with that the owner needs to put him on a shorter leash or have him wear a muzzle on public paths because other dog owners are encouraging this behaviour in kids and your dog can't react like that & bite them.

spaghettiandicecream · Yesterday 23:37

If a dog bites a human it should be put to sleep. It’s not acceptable for a trained animal to bite a human, especially a child. I agree child shouldn’t have touched dog but, dog owner should be in control of dog in all situations, as a responsible owner. The owner was not paying attention this time.
Child and its parents - not great behaviour but it’s a child/human being
Dog owner- not paying attention - not acceptable when around small children
Dog (on lead) - bit small child - completely unacceptable
Too many dog owners think their dogs are humans when they’re not. Dogs are not trained and are spoiled. I have always had dogs, but it’s getting out of hand with lazy dog owners.

AutumnClouds · Today 00:03

beaglescurleduplikebagels · Yesterday 15:21

Maybe so, but either way it's the dog owner (and the dog) who will potentially pay the price. A dog control order at best, euthanasia at worst.

In the case where a child has serious injuries from a dog bite you think that ultimately it’s the dog and owner ‘paying the price’?

maxslice · Today 03:22

The child’s parents should teach them to ALWAYS ask if it’s okay to pet a dog. If the answer is yes, the child should offer their open palm for the dog sniff before petting the dog. My children knew this by the time they were 4 even though we didn’t own a dog. I understand that the child and parents were shocked, but as OP said, it was a warning nip, not full on chomping on her hand drawing blood and crushing bones.

Noodles1234 · Today 06:41

I would say dog owner at fault, 1.5M too long for a path with oncoming people, also peoples estimations are generally in their favour so I’d guess it was longer than this. A dog with no muzzle should be able to accept people, children and adults sometimes will pat a dog and if a dog bit my dc I would be upset. Best for your friend to muzzle dog now, sometimes as dogs get old they get cranky.

I do tell my dc to ask before stroking a strange dog, but either way a pet in public should always be safe so question.

Granville82 · Today 06:57

It's not a bite if it didn't break the skin

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