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Living next to asylum seeker HMO, ask me anything

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JapanesePotWeed · 24/09/2026 20:28

As the title says. I live in a Victorian mid-terrace, wall-to-wall, garden-to-garden with an asylum seeker dispersal HMO. They were moved in nearly two years ago, replacing a multi-generation family that were living there before.
There is another HMO directly opposite my house, where asylum seekers get rooms once they are approved to remain but don't have an income to support themselves.

Not AIBU but more like AMA. I'm wondering what people would ask me if they really could ask anything. Does anyone actually want to know what it is like? I hear a lot of political point scoring in the media regarding this topic but no one actually talks to people like me!

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GetBernie · 25/09/2026 12:34

DownToTheGround · 25/09/2026 11:46

If you believe the OP of course…

I do actually. I don't believe half the threads on here are genuine these days, but I do believe this one. Most engagement farmers don't stick around and engage as much as the OP and their replies tend to be a bit vague and non-specific. She is very detailed in answer to questions and it does seem to add up.

GetBernie · 25/09/2026 12:36

Pumpkindice · 25/09/2026 11:37

I think there are some things you could make up, and conveniently finding a home office letter in your front guardian explaining your neighbours situation in detail so you have the information to share on Mumsnet is probably one of them.

I'm sure there is someone on MN who works for the home office who is able to verify whether this sort of letter is very likely or not?

poetryandwine · 25/09/2026 12:38

Maomee · 25/09/2026 12:04

I'm not involved in deciding who gets benefits but we ask as part of the information we take and the number one answer is universal credit, no matter who comes to us, it doesn't matter what term is on their visa or residency permit.

Many MumsNetters as well as press and Members of Parliament would like to know where in the UK staff in your office are approving Universal Credit for both asylum seekers - you seem insistent that these are people with claims in process, not refugees - and people on visas with No Recourse to Public Funds.

I think the law is too harsh, but it is the law. If you are sure of your facts why not provide some evidence? Otherwise the claim does not sound credible, as the people doing this are risking prison.

GetBernie · 25/09/2026 12:46

I've just asked Chat GPT if they think the OP's anecdotal account of the letter she says she found is plausible and likely to be genuine based on her (non-verbatim) recollection of what the letter said. It has responded with a strong yes, very likely to be genuine and plausible. Anyone is free to do the same thing if they don't believe me. Apparently the Home Office do send letters like this in advance of potential deportation orders.

DownToTheGround · 25/09/2026 12:46

GetBernie · 25/09/2026 12:34

I do actually. I don't believe half the threads on here are genuine these days, but I do believe this one. Most engagement farmers don't stick around and engage as much as the OP and their replies tend to be a bit vague and non-specific. She is very detailed in answer to questions and it does seem to add up.

But so much information from the asylum seekers themselves…the same men that she is scared of, that are causing issues …and not all of the information true or accurate. ….

She hasn’t returned today.

DownToTheGround · 25/09/2026 12:47

GetBernie · 25/09/2026 12:46

I've just asked Chat GPT if they think the OP's anecdotal account of the letter she says she found is plausible and likely to be genuine based on her (non-verbatim) recollection of what the letter said. It has responded with a strong yes, very likely to be genuine and plausible. Anyone is free to do the same thing if they don't believe me. Apparently the Home Office do send letters like this in advance of potential deportation orders.

So ask Chat GPT to give an example letter…and BINGO…

Fast800goingforit · 25/09/2026 12:47

OccasionalHope · 25/09/2026 12:32

OP! Do you report illegal activity?

Delieveroo etc should be thoroughly investigated, Employing people without the legal right to work is punishable by fines of I think £10k per person, and everyone knows they are doing it so why is not cracked down on?

I believe they acknowledged it was an issue and were working to eliminate it. The Deliveroo licence holder will be legitimate; someone with the right to work and ID. They then sublet the equipment, etc to the people who do the work and take a proportion of what they make from them (they control the finances). It's a form of modern slavery and the people who do the work may be getting some money from it, but it's not actually helping them establish themselves here and it feeds into the black economy.

Boomer55 · 25/09/2026 12:49

These are the facts about what asylum seekers can get, until they have been given right to remain (if they have).

https://www.gov.uk/asylum-support/what-youll-get

Asylum support

How to apply for asylum support if you're waiting to find out if you'll be given asylum in the UK

https://www.gov.uk/asylum-support/what-youll-get

DownToTheGround · 25/09/2026 12:51

Maomee · 25/09/2026 12:04

I'm not involved in deciding who gets benefits but we ask as part of the information we take and the number one answer is universal credit, no matter who comes to us, it doesn't matter what term is on their visa or residency permit.

What is your policy on reporting fraudulent claims?

Do you use it?

You seem to have so much great evidence of the legal system being applied incorrectly …

DownToTheGround · 25/09/2026 12:53

Metalmotha · 25/09/2026 12:22

Oh for heavens sake! Immigration is destroying many communities here. One Syrian family does not make up the whole of the asylum system.

ONE?

The word FAMILIES (which I used) is plural and means multiple or more than one.

GetBernie · 25/09/2026 13:18

DownToTheGround · 25/09/2026 12:47

So ask Chat GPT to give an example letter…and BINGO…

I am not naive enough to think it's that simple. Chat GPT almost never gives a definitive answer to anything. It tells you on the balance of probability, based on what it DOES know, whether something is likely or plausible, that's all.

You seem determined to prove that this letter is not likely or plausible though. What makes you better qualified than Chat GPT on this matter? Do you work for the Home Office in the specific areas of either asylum or illegal immigration?

If so then I'm sure we are all happy to defer to your in-depth knowledge of the system.

GetBernie · 25/09/2026 13:24

Fast800goingforit · 25/09/2026 12:27

My partner worked for DWP and always debunks this. Illegal immigrants cannot claim benefits and they cannot legitimately work here either as they do not have the right to work. Illegal immigrants on benefits is a myth. But like Trump "truths", if it's repeated enough times it becomes fact.

So if a family is here with children and are in limbo waiting for an asylum case to be heard and processed, or waiting for an appeal or whatever, what do they live on and where do they live?

GetBernie · 25/09/2026 13:29

DownToTheGround · 25/09/2026 12:46

But so much information from the asylum seekers themselves…the same men that she is scared of, that are causing issues …and not all of the information true or accurate. ….

She hasn’t returned today.

But she started the thread last night and responded over 30 times with in depth answers. That's not the typical behaviour of an engagement farming poster. Perhaps she hasn't been back today because she works for a living? In a job where she can't sit at home spending all day refreshing her Mumsnet feed? I know that's a strange and outdated concept for some, but it's quite likely to be the case, even in 2026.

Maomee · 25/09/2026 13:35

@DownToTheGround @Jonesmaximus @nomas
Just to answer everyone I work in adult education so it's part of the enrolments that we take this information for e.g. an English class. I see these people daily. I am also aware that as per the policy it shouldn't happen but it does. I suppose it's either fraudulent claiming or maybe something like they think what they receive is UC when it's not? We all know that JobCentres can also be badly run and not always follow policies or perhaps claimants get away with more esp if most of their accounts are offshore. This is all checked when they first enrol though. As I've said we don't actually distribute the benefits we just take information including information about benefits received.

Dragonscaledaisy · 25/09/2026 13:40

Maomee · 25/09/2026 12:08

Perhaps their claims are fraudulent then? I see people 5 days a week who are both asylum seekers and in receipt of universal credit. The only way this might not be true is if they are lying to us (although their info does get checked upon referral) or a miscommunication? Unlikely to be happening multiple times every day, though.

The simplest way to avoid all of this suspicion is for the government to provide a breakdown of the data on how funds are allocated. Complete transparency would alleviate the endless speculation and arguing. I will start lobbying my MP on this and would encourage others to do the same.

Maomee · 25/09/2026 13:44

Dragonscaledaisy · 25/09/2026 13:40

The simplest way to avoid all of this suspicion is for the government to provide a breakdown of the data on how funds are allocated. Complete transparency would alleviate the endless speculation and arguing. I will start lobbying my MP on this and would encourage others to do the same.

I don't really get why the suspicion is so rampant when whether asylum seekers initially receive UC or not they almost always go on to receive it anyway, when their claims are granted or they become a long term resident one way or another. Virtually none of them are ever removed so most eventually claim UC, whether or not they manage to do it initially is kind of neither here nor there frankly.

DeflectionAndWhataboutery · 25/09/2026 13:53

Maomee · 25/09/2026 13:35

@DownToTheGround @Jonesmaximus @nomas
Just to answer everyone I work in adult education so it's part of the enrolments that we take this information for e.g. an English class. I see these people daily. I am also aware that as per the policy it shouldn't happen but it does. I suppose it's either fraudulent claiming or maybe something like they think what they receive is UC when it's not? We all know that JobCentres can also be badly run and not always follow policies or perhaps claimants get away with more esp if most of their accounts are offshore. This is all checked when they first enrol though. As I've said we don't actually distribute the benefits we just take information including information about benefits received.

None of these things work the way you describe. Your evidence is 'because I say so'.

It feels you are deliberately conflating 'asylum seekers' with refugees whose claim has been accepted, allowing them access to UC.

Or it's straight up misinformation, hoping your posts get screenshot and posted on X to back up the bullshit from others.

GetBernie · 25/09/2026 14:02

Maomee · 25/09/2026 13:44

I don't really get why the suspicion is so rampant when whether asylum seekers initially receive UC or not they almost always go on to receive it anyway, when their claims are granted or they become a long term resident one way or another. Virtually none of them are ever removed so most eventually claim UC, whether or not they manage to do it initially is kind of neither here nor there frankly.

Well quite. People love to tangle others up in semantics and procedural timelines as a way of obfuscating and distracting from the argument, when they understand very well what overall point it is that those other people are making.

Fast800goingforit · 25/09/2026 14:04

FedUpCelery · 25/09/2026 10:02

Really? Our next door neighbour used to be an elderly woman. We would hear her stairlift so I really wouldn't have worked about her pottering into our attic.

The current family next door have one child and a dog. I know where they work and where their daughter goes to school. What should I be worrying about it my attic was open?
To be honest, it may well be. It is boarded out and we have cupboard doors into the eaves. I've never investigated to see if there is a crawl space between.

Something of a disingenous response. You wouldn't have liked her peering through the loft hatch into your bedroom or bathroom! The reason it's an issue is because anyone who gets into one house can access all those where the loft space isn't adequately separated. And they cannot be seen from outside. It doesn't matter how harmless you perceive the neighbours to be. Plus a fire could rip through the whole terrace roof space much more easily if it's all open.

When I bought my first house nearly thirty years ago the wall in the loft between the house I buying and next door on one side had to built up before the mortgage company would lend me the money to buy it.

poetryandwine · 25/09/2026 14:50

Maomee · 25/09/2026 13:44

I don't really get why the suspicion is so rampant when whether asylum seekers initially receive UC or not they almost always go on to receive it anyway, when their claims are granted or they become a long term resident one way or another. Virtually none of them are ever removed so most eventually claim UC, whether or not they manage to do it initially is kind of neither here nor there frankly.

If their claim is not granted they exist in a kind of half acknowledged existence. They rely on the kindness of charities, except when they have an active appeal ( and are classified as asylum seekers)

Refused asylum seekers have No Recourse to Public Funds, no right to employment, no access to housing ( except through the kindness of others) no access to the banking system, etc. They can access only primary NHS care (ie register with a GP, receive vaccinations, etc).

There is some access to education, which is a human right. Families with young children may receive further assistance.

Where on earth did you get the idea that ‘most’ refused asylum seekers are eligible for UC?

Pumpkindice · 25/09/2026 14:53

GetBernie · 25/09/2026 12:46

I've just asked Chat GPT if they think the OP's anecdotal account of the letter she says she found is plausible and likely to be genuine based on her (non-verbatim) recollection of what the letter said. It has responded with a strong yes, very likely to be genuine and plausible. Anyone is free to do the same thing if they don't believe me. Apparently the Home Office do send letters like this in advance of potential deportation orders.

I didn't say that type of letter wouldn't exist, I said it seemed rather unlikely that the OP would conveniently find such a letter in her garden, to add to the significant amount of information that she has also been privy to in relation to her neighbours current and historic personal circumstances.

FedUpCelery · 25/09/2026 15:12

Fast800goingforit · 25/09/2026 14:04

Something of a disingenous response. You wouldn't have liked her peering through the loft hatch into your bedroom or bathroom! The reason it's an issue is because anyone who gets into one house can access all those where the loft space isn't adequately separated. And they cannot be seen from outside. It doesn't matter how harmless you perceive the neighbours to be. Plus a fire could rip through the whole terrace roof space much more easily if it's all open.

When I bought my first house nearly thirty years ago the wall in the loft between the house I buying and next door on one side had to built up before the mortgage company would lend me the money to buy it.

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Not at all. If a houseful of single men had moved in, you can be sure I'd be up there checking.

The point is there's a difference - none of my current and past neighbours were going to be pottering in my attic or wandering down the stairs (there isn't a hatch).

Jonesmaximus · 25/09/2026 15:15

GetBernie · 25/09/2026 13:24

So if a family is here with children and are in limbo waiting for an asylum case to be heard and processed, or waiting for an appeal or whatever, what do they live on and where do they live?

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They will get their asylum seeker support allowance (approx £50 per week per adult if not in a hotel, in which case it's under £10 per week) until they are refused. Then they will get nothing. About 30 years ago there was a school mum in this situation, her husband worked about 80 hours a week cash in hand as a glass washer in a restaurant, paid cash to a landlord and lived extremely frugally. The dc were born here so there was some sort of rule that they couldn't kick the dc out and by default the parents either. I think after 6 years they got ILTR on that merit. It was a very difficult period of time, they were a lovely family too.
ETA: if you have been refused and stay on then you don't have a status so in theory no recourse to NHS or schools for children. They will treat you in an emergency situation but you will be billed for it. I don't think you can even register with a GP in this situation either.

Jonesmaximus · 25/09/2026 15:21

poetryandwine · 25/09/2026 12:28

Brava. I would add that in my area charities also fund English classes for asylum seekers and refugees.

Yes same here, most classes for asylum seekers are run by churches, community groups and other orgs such as U3A. There is actually very little provision for ASs now, contrary to what the Daily Mail says.

JapanesePotWeed · 25/09/2026 15:32

@Pastillefruit If I could go anywhere, I'd only ask for a reasonably quiet and safe community.
It is the most awful feeling knowing that I could scream or have an alarm going but no one would care or make a call. In a street with more permanent residents, the self-policing just happens by default, like an unspoken rule.

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