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"We'll forget her soon enough"

75 replies

BakeOut · 19/09/2026 07:43

What a cruel King we have.

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HoraceCope · 19/09/2026 07:44

i doubt he said that

Grumpyoldcat · 19/09/2026 07:44

You cant believe everything you read.

PollyBell · 19/09/2026 07:44

So you know for a fact it was said?

lljkk · 19/09/2026 07:44

I guess Spencer needs the money?

ToKittyornottoKitty · 19/09/2026 07:45

There’s a royals board for this type of crap

Duchoftheterrace · 19/09/2026 07:46

It's completely unbelievable though isn't it?

NotAnotherScarf · 19/09/2026 07:46

If you believe thats true, I've got some magic beans for sale

Look at the fact

Why wait 29 years.
Harry's come back to the uk

THisbackwithavengeance · 19/09/2026 07:47

He’s unlikely to have said something like that in front of his ex wife’s brother even though he probably fucking hated Diana.

Hasn't Earl Spencer been through soon expensive divorces recently?

Traceyatnumber32isaloudgobshite · 19/09/2026 07:47

Ffs

Muffsies · 19/09/2026 07:50

If someone had said that about my sister i wouldn't have waited all these years to use it to sell books. I would have immediately rejected my earldom and thrown it back at the palace.

They're all a bunch of self-interested, overrated, irrelevant fools.

FruAashild · 19/09/2026 07:53

Assuming he did say that it sounds more like a comment on the hysteria that overtook large numbers of the British public in the days after her death. His public behaviour at the time (which is all we can judge him on) does not align with what Earl Spencer claims.

MsWicked · 19/09/2026 07:56

I’m not a fan of the royals by any stretch, but one angry man’s word is hardly credible. Even if KC said it, it was 30 years ago in the throws of emotion, shock, provocation? Who the hell knows. A nasty move from Spencer but probably needs a few nuggets to sell his book. All very tabloid.
When my ex husband dies, hopefully before me, who knows what I might say in a private conversation. I hope I wouldn’t be held to account 30 years later.

LuckyHazelFox · 19/09/2026 07:56

Hope you've never been or never will be on a jury.

HeNeedsRehab · 19/09/2026 07:58

I’m no royalist but I think what ES is doing is unbelievably crass.

We have to think KC is the bad guy when he’s cashing in on his sisters death?!

bingobangs · 19/09/2026 08:00

PollyBell · 19/09/2026 07:44

So you know for a fact it was said?

We don’t know for a fact it wasn’t but the palace response whilst quick didn’t deny it.

bingobangs · 19/09/2026 08:01

FruAashild · 19/09/2026 07:53

Assuming he did say that it sounds more like a comment on the hysteria that overtook large numbers of the British public in the days after her death. His public behaviour at the time (which is all we can judge him on) does not align with what Earl Spencer claims.

I did originally think it was related to the public

WhatTheHellsGoingOn · 19/09/2026 08:02

Believe everything you see on The Crown as well? 🙄

Divebar2021 · 19/09/2026 08:03

There’s already a thread running on this.

WhatTheHellsGoingOn · 19/09/2026 08:04

bingobangs · 19/09/2026 08:00

We don’t know for a fact it wasn’t but the palace response whilst quick didn’t deny it.

What had Spencer been saying that preceded this alleged comment? He would have been highly emotional himself and could have been throwing all sorts at Charles who had reached the end of his limit and just wanted to shut him up. It’s one man’s word against another. None of us heard it or watched their body language as they spoke.

bingobangs · 19/09/2026 08:08

@WhatTheHellsGoingOnIm not sure anything one said would warrant that response!

BEAchDays2 · 19/09/2026 08:09

Recollections may vary.

Fluffyholeysocks · 19/09/2026 08:10

I feel for Diana's sisters. They must be horrified by what CS has done.

beencaughttrollin · 19/09/2026 08:10

I dunno, it kind of pales in comparison with “Let justice be done, though the world perish” or “L’État, c’est moi” or "Off wiv their 'eads!" 😛👑

SecretDressAgent · 19/09/2026 08:12

That Spencer family have been as weird 'as fuck', to quote my exH who comes from Northamptonshire. They have never been known for generosity even to themselves.

EasternStandard · 19/09/2026 08:14

HeNeedsRehab · 19/09/2026 07:58

I’m no royalist but I think what ES is doing is unbelievably crass.

We have to think KC is the bad guy when he’s cashing in on his sisters death?!

Yep