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Please can someone help, panicking so much about mortgage

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Pancis125 · 17/09/2026 12:17

I am completely alone and have one small dc. My mortgage is 280k. I am due to renew next August 2027.

At the moment I have a good rate of 2.7%. This means repayments are 1k a month.

I have been looking at rates and they are up to close to 6%. If I re mortgage with 270k on this rate then the repayments will go up to close to 1,600 a month. I just can’t afford this.

I feel physically sick. I don’t know what to do. I potentially have access to 50k but that would be all the inheritance I am likely to get and even that I don’t think would reduce it enough. I am sitting here crying my eyes out. I know there are bigger problems in the world but this is all on my shoulders and I am struggling to stay calm.

OP posts:
Underconstruction · 17/09/2026 14:07

Speak to a mortgage advisor. They usually charge a fee but they should always get you rates that are as least as good as the rates the bank offers directly and you can speak to them six months out from renewal. If rates improve in that six months, a good advisor will get you the better rate, but if rates get worse, you get to keep the one originally offered. They can speak to you about, eg, changing the payback period. Don't panic.

Tortephant · 17/09/2026 14:09

Speak to an independent broker rather than high street bank. They will be able to find rates and providers you won’t.

avoid interest only. That’s really not in your best interests

3within3 · 17/09/2026 14:13

Hi OP I am in the same position as you. Instead of using my savings to reduce the mortage at renewal I am looking at taking out an offset mortgage instead. This would mean that you keep the £50k in a savings account, and there is no interest charged on £50k of your mortgage. This would mean you’d only be paying interest on £220k of your mortgage. So the benefit is the same as if you were to use the savings to take out a smaller mortgage, but it means the savings are there if you ever really needed them for an emergency. Plus, every month top up the offset account with your £350 and you’ll have even more to offset the interest against.

PoliteGreyDreamer · 17/09/2026 14:13

OP, put the £50k into a Vanguard FTSE Global All Cap Index Accumulation (GBP) fund will make approx 10% return (probably higher, we are in a bull market) which will give you approx £400 a month in interest you can take out, then you just have to find an extra £200 a month. Plus you will have £50k at the end of this all going well...

It might be a little lean, but you can probably tighten your belt a bit.

(It might be worth running some of these scenarios people have suggested with regards to reducing mortgage to reduce payments vs £50k as cash to make up payments etc through ChatGPT to understand what works for you, and what level of liquidity and risk works best for you).

Some of the Reddit finance boards may be able to help.

Can I suggest the Rebel Donegan's Rebel Finance School (all on YouTube, all free, they aren't selling you anything. I have checked!) to help you improve your financial literacy so you can navigate this in a way that aligns to your needs and values. It might help with the panic you feel over making financial decisions.

MrsJeanLuc · 17/09/2026 14:18

LiuBei · 17/09/2026 13:59

Okay, so if you manage to save 350 a month now on top of paying a 1000/month mortgage, this means that you could, at a stretch handle a 1350 a month mortgage. You'd need an extra 250 a month to get to the 1600 a month you suspect it will be.

If you have an inheritance of 50k combined by the 350 a month you're saving between now and august, and you took 250 from it each month - that would last you 215 months ((50,000 + 11*350)/250)

215 months is around 18 years.

In 18 years will you be able to earn more? Probably!

I understand that this probably isn't what you'd dreamed of doing with the inheritance. I'm not trying to minimize your challenges, but I just want to point out that by your own numbers, I think you'll be okay.

Good advice here.

@Pancis125 , while I think it's a good idea to use your £350 a month excess to overpay your mortgage (if you can without penalty) , I would definitely advise AGAINST sinking your £50k inheritance into the house - it leaves you without a cushion if anything goes wrong.
Better to do as @LiuBei suggests and use it to make up your shortfall each month.

Also, you should definitely make an appointment with a mortgage broker who will be able to help you get a good deal.

I'm sorry you find yourself in this position. Please try to stop panicking (easy to say, I know), it's really not as bad as you think. 🫂

Conundrummum123 · 17/09/2026 14:18

Tortephant · 17/09/2026 14:09

Speak to an independent broker rather than high street bank. They will be able to find rates and providers you won’t.

avoid interest only. That’s really not in your best interests

Just go to a fee free one ;)

why pay when you don’t have to, they get paid by the lender anyway.

Sidebeforeself · 17/09/2026 14:21

Ooohaaahjustalittlebit · 17/09/2026 12:31

This is a good point.
You have an extra £350 a month to play with. That plus popping some of your inheritance in to pay it down should get you where you need to be?

It assumes all other costs stay fixed though which they definitely wont. In a years time we are bound to see increases in utilities for example.

CeciliaMars · 17/09/2026 14:22

If you earn £74k and you can’t afford where you live, you have overstretched yourself surely. Could you downsize? Taking a lodger is another good option if you have a spare room. When I was younger and my husband wasn’t working, we had two lodgers for ages.

YorksMa · 17/09/2026 14:22

Don't panic. You've got nearly a year left on your current rate. Well in advance, contact a reputable mortgage advisor. They can find rates that might not be accessible to Joe Public and they can certainly help you find the best one for you. You will be far, far from alone in having these kinds of thoughts and professional advisors will be used to looking for good deals. If, however, there really is nothing suitable (a big if), then you can look at downsizing or term extension (I know you say you're at max, but there may be flex in that). Please try not to panic. Lots of luck to you. x

MyOtherProfile · 17/09/2026 14:23

Is there any chance you could take a lodger even for a short while?

Teffe · 17/09/2026 14:24

We switched a portion to interest only and paid down a portion with savings and will be paying the same monthly amount when our interest rate doubles in January

napody · 17/09/2026 14:24

Calliopespa · 17/09/2026 13:59

It is very natural to feel like this op. Being a single parent isn't easy, and you have done well to get into the position you are in.

There WILL be a solution, though maybe not your first choice, and you are giving yourself time to plan.

Give yourself a big hug and a pat on the back for all of the above.

Agree with this. You'll be absolutely fine- the problem with posting on here is people will start throwing out suggestions including downsizing, getting a lodger etc that you almost certainly won't even need to think about. 3 steps: Have a good cry today, keep on plodding on, talk to a mortgage broker in the new year. You've got this.

OnePearlPanda · 17/09/2026 14:28

Sorry if someone has asked this already - I haven't read everything.

You mentioned you have a small child - are you currently paying nursery fees that won't need to be paid any more after next Sept if they start school next year? There would be before/after school club but it's much cheaper!

If you are currently paying for childcare, are you using tax free childcare already to do this to save yourself some money?

Bufftailed · 17/09/2026 14:28

OP given you have 50k you could supplement your income with those, 500 a month or so…

Is your 50k in a high interest account? 4% would get you an extra 2k

tokennamechange · 17/09/2026 14:31

AmethystDeceiver · 17/09/2026 13:16

£75K is a high wage for a single earner, but not as a household right?

I have no advice better than what's already been said, but just wanted to comment as a few people know have asked where 'all' of OP's money is going.

My husband and I earn similar between us, that is very much in the average/ low average range for a household no? But as a single parent @Pancis125 is probably more reliant on childcare, and possibly cleaners etc than we are. And possibly more limited in her capacity to take on more - whether that be more work, a second job or more hours. And also paying more in tax than an individual mid earner, and losing child benefit. It sounds like a lot but I'm sure it doesn't always feel that way!

No, its nearly twenty grand over the average household income!
https://www.ons.gov.uk/peoplepopulationandcommunity/personalandhouseholdfinances/incomeandwealth/bulletins/householddisposableincomeandinequality/financialyearending2024
According to the IFS her income and personal circumstances place her in the richest 8% of the population.
https://ifs.org.uk/tools_and_resources/where_do_you_fit_in

So people querying where her money goes or if she can downsize have a fair point, IMHO.

Namechangewegovyjune26 · 17/09/2026 14:32

CeciliaMars · 17/09/2026 14:22

If you earn £74k and you can’t afford where you live, you have overstretched yourself surely. Could you downsize? Taking a lodger is another good option if you have a spare room. When I was younger and my husband wasn’t working, we had two lodgers for ages.

The “overstretched” comment is really not helpful. Most people could never have predicted the interest rate rises when they first got their mortgages and the rates were still around 1.5%. Our mortgage went up by £600 overnight and we had to just suck it up. So much of our disposable income gone just like that.

Ooohaaahjustalittlebit · 17/09/2026 14:34

Namechangewegovyjune26 · 17/09/2026 14:32

The “overstretched” comment is really not helpful. Most people could never have predicted the interest rate rises when they first got their mortgages and the rates were still around 1.5%. Our mortgage went up by £600 overnight and we had to just suck it up. So much of our disposable income gone just like that.

I thought the advice always was to make sure you could afford repayments at 5%? Noone thought rates would stay low.

ThatHeartyHelper · 17/09/2026 14:35

Pay the 50k off the mortgage when your present fixed rate is up then see what is the best rate you can get at that time. You could run a few figures through the mortgage calculators at the new amount and various rates to give you an idea of what that could change the repayment to or ask the bank to work it out.

dreamingofgoodhair · 17/09/2026 14:35

Would it be possible to downsize ? Or at sounds like an expensive house if you’re at a good ltv and still owe £270 ?

Ooohaaahjustalittlebit · 17/09/2026 14:36

Pancis125 · 17/09/2026 13:56

@AmethystDeceiver thank you for this post. This is exactly it. Im not on the breadline but my income isn’t as it seems to most people when you’re on your own with a child

That's all very well, but if you need to figure out how to pay your mortgage then an obvious solution is to look at every line of expenditure.

OnlyUsername · 17/09/2026 14:41

It's really bad advice to drain savings to pay it off unless savings interest is much lower than the mortgage interest! If mortgage rates are high savings rates are likely to be higher. I have the money to pay off my student loan but I'm getting 5% in an ISA for that money and the SL rate is nowhere near that.

Annoyedbyhusband · 17/09/2026 14:42

I know people that have sold up and moved to cheaper rented due to not being able to afford mortgages anymore.
you have 50k, you could pay down a huge chunk, see if the repayments will be reduced a lot by doing this. You could shop around for rates, keep your credit rating as good as it can be to enable this.
you could move.
you could rent out the property and rent somewhere you can afford if the numbers stack up with tax etc.
you could use the 50k each month and hope rates go down,
you can get a second job or lodger to supplement income.
you could activate mortgage charter and go no payments for 6 months then save the money to use to top up once payments restart.
theres loads of options but its good you are thinking about it now.
start to model all the options and have plan a, b, c, d, e ready and costed out.

Phonicshaskilledmeoff · 17/09/2026 14:43

Where has 6% come from? My renewal is 4.7

PoliteGreyDreamer · 17/09/2026 14:44

Namechangewegovyjune26 · 17/09/2026 14:32

The “overstretched” comment is really not helpful. Most people could never have predicted the interest rate rises when they first got their mortgages and the rates were still around 1.5%. Our mortgage went up by £600 overnight and we had to just suck it up. So much of our disposable income gone just like that.

Yep, the generally accepted 'advice' on this topic has been dreadful for a few years. We fixed about 18m ago, and loads of people were asking why we didn't get a tracker mortgage, or only fix for two years rather than five, because, obviously the rates were going to go down...

We would have been screwed if we had listened to them.

Namechangewegovyjune26 · 17/09/2026 14:46

Ooohaaahjustalittlebit · 17/09/2026 14:34

I thought the advice always was to make sure you could afford repayments at 5%? Noone thought rates would stay low.

Oh how lovely hindsight is - of course you knew! How clever you are 👏

if my data is correct, in Nov 2021 the Bank of England forecast actually predicted about 1% by 2024. and we all know what then happened* *by August 2023…. If the Bank of England couldn’t predict it happening so suddenly, how could we have possibly known better? I’m not sure when OP took out the mortgage but entirely possible she is affected by a fixed rate from pre 2023 running out.

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