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Please can someone help, panicking so much about mortgage

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Pancis125 · 17/09/2026 12:17

I am completely alone and have one small dc. My mortgage is 280k. I am due to renew next August 2027.

At the moment I have a good rate of 2.7%. This means repayments are 1k a month.

I have been looking at rates and they are up to close to 6%. If I re mortgage with 270k on this rate then the repayments will go up to close to 1,600 a month. I just can’t afford this.

I feel physically sick. I don’t know what to do. I potentially have access to 50k but that would be all the inheritance I am likely to get and even that I don’t think would reduce it enough. I am sitting here crying my eyes out. I know there are bigger problems in the world but this is all on my shoulders and I am struggling to stay calm.

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ThePeppyOpalScroller · 17/09/2026 20:09

Pancis125 · 17/09/2026 12:20

Do you think the rates might go down? My current mortgage is with NatWest

A year is a long time. I dont think the war in Iran will go on much longer than the mid-terms. Look at how much the situation has escalated in just seven months. In another seven weeks we will either be in the midst of WW3, or it will all be over. One thing's for sure, it can't continue the way it is for much longer.

Forgotmyoriginalusername · 17/09/2026 20:27

It is always worrying doing this stuff on your own, but based on a very rough “back of an envelope” calculation, I genuinely think you should be fine — even if rates are quite a bit higher next year.

First, this is almost a year away, so you’re thinking about it with loads of notice. Secondly, I think you’re actually in a much stronger position than you realise: you’ve got a very good salary, you’re already saving each month, and you’re in the fortunate position of having the £50k available if you need/want to use it against the mortgage.

Very roughly, from what you’ve told us:

  1. Mortgage now = £280k at 2.7%, fixed until August 2027.
  2. That’s about £630/month in interest. As you’re paying £1,000/month, roughly £370 is currently going towards the capital.
  3. By next August you should therefore have knocked another c.£4,070 off the mortgage.
  4. You’re also saving £350/month, so another c.£3,850 by then.
  5. You think you’ll have another £100/month available next year, which gets you to about £1,450/month. And on a salary of nearly £75k, there may well be another £50 or so you could find if you really needed to.

So, worst-case-ish calculation: take the £280k mortgage, deduct c.£4,070 capital repayments, £50k inheritance and £3,850 savings = mortgage of roughly £222k.
Even if we assume your new mortgage rate is 6% (which is quite a pessimistic assumption), then interest is about 1110/month.
So, if you can afford £1,500/month, you can comfortably cover all the interest AND still repay nearly £390/month of the capital, which I think is actually slightly more capital than you’re paying off now.

Obviously this is only rough maths and we don’t know what mortgage rates/products will look like next August. And you also don’t necessarily have to throw every penny of the £50k at your mortgage, especially if it has emotional attachment to it; you could also keep a bit of an emergency fund for example.
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But, I guess that Im saying is that I really don’t think the numbers suggest you’re heading towards a situation where you suddenly can’t afford your mortgage. Even if you have to switch to a 6% rate, the sums still work.

Youve also got nearly a year to save, plan and adjust things if necessary. Maybe you can use this time to work on your expenses and see if there’s any possibility of further savings? You may surprise yourself. Even cutting £50 spending a month would make a big difference.

Best of luck - I really do think you will be fine.

OnlyUsername · 17/09/2026 20:37

Conundrummum123 · 17/09/2026 19:25

Unless I’ve missed it in the document that’s not the internal stress they’ve applied to it though, those scenarios are just fluctuations shown because it’s a variable rate mortgage and there’s 3 parts of that mortgage (can’t work out if it’s additional borrowing or a funky loan made up of different parts)

No it isn't the internal stress test, but people point the finger that they weren't told what it could go up to if rates increase, and they are. They legally have to be. I worked in mortgages until a year ago.

Also that isn't variable, it's a 3 part fixed rate mortgage (the parts aren't relevant for this topic). Near the bottom it tells you what you'd pay if the available rate at the end of your fix was 9%.

Bananacrepewithnuts · 17/09/2026 20:52

Pancis125 · 17/09/2026 12:23

@Bez72 im not falling behind just don’t know how I will cope when it comes to renew

You're not falling behind now but you might do when rates increase.
Speak to Natwest now. The earlier you can plan the better.

Also get in touch with a recommended mortgage broker with whole of market access. They will discuss your options.

I do feel for you and the worst feeling is feeling scared about money worries.

A 280 mortgage is a lot on your own. What are your thoughts about downsizing? Or maybe moving to a cheaper area (not too far away so the impact on your child is minimal).

Good luck x

Conundrummum123 · 17/09/2026 20:55

OnlyUsername · 17/09/2026 20:37

No it isn't the internal stress test, but people point the finger that they weren't told what it could go up to if rates increase, and they are. They legally have to be. I worked in mortgages until a year ago.

Also that isn't variable, it's a 3 part fixed rate mortgage (the parts aren't relevant for this topic). Near the bottom it tells you what you'd pay if the available rate at the end of your fix was 9%.

Edited

You’re right I skimmed that part is as you say talking about the rate on reversion and how they can move, as you say has to legally be there (I still work in mortgages) and yup can confirm it’s on all ours too.

FusionChefGeoff · 17/09/2026 21:39

I would seriously look at downsizing - scraping £100 here and there to help plus losing all of your savings sounds very very stressful and not a long term solution at all

butternut123 · 17/09/2026 21:41

Hi, we’ve just remortgaged and got a rate of 4.7% I believe. Please use an independent advisor for the best rate available to you.

I’d also use the £50k 59 pay the difference in mortgage each month but again an advisor could tell you what difference it would make if you were to use it to pay off a lump sum off the mortgage and whether that would be worth doing.

Might also be worth putting your dilemma in ChatGPT and asking it for advice.

Peggyplunkett · 17/09/2026 22:28

With all due respect OP there are people (namely other lone parents - I am one) in much tighter situations than you.
Your £75k salary is high band and you have your child maintenance coming in from your ex no doubt too, and a nice fat £50k sum to fall back on.
I think you are being over dramatic about something which in the grand scheme, is just a first world problem.
You will manage. Be smart, and do your research.

Overwhelmedandtired · 17/09/2026 22:29

Pancis125 · 17/09/2026 17:44

Should I try and get out now and get a fixed rate of 4.75? This is showing as available for 5 year fix. Is this less risky than waiting?

Go to a broker. You will be able to sign up to a rate now, and it won't go up if the rate increases, but if it goes down between now and your renewal date they will be able to reduce it to the new offer.

It is impossible to know what the rate will be in a couple of years. If you can find a rate that will be affordable (even if tight) for you probably worth fixing at that for a longer period as if it goes up further you would be really stuck.

But if the new rate is really difficult for you to afford, a shorter period means you aren't tied in as long, but it is a bit of a gamble that you would get a lower rate at that renewal time. There is still over 2 more years of Trump so a lot of volatility still to come

BarbaraE · 18/09/2026 07:13

I would look to downsize you could extend the term but that's adding more debt your 50 k I would try save some in case you need it in the future

Isanyonereallyanonymous · 18/09/2026 07:36

Hi OP.
I don't have any advice but I'm in a very similar position, 5 year fixed term mortgage coming to and end next September.
Also on my own, already working 3 jobs and not a penny to spare each month.
I'm dreading it, I don't know where I'm supposed to magic this money from.
So no advice but absolutely you're not alone

Bez72 · 18/09/2026 08:52

Peggyplunkett · 17/09/2026 22:28

With all due respect OP there are people (namely other lone parents - I am one) in much tighter situations than you.
Your £75k salary is high band and you have your child maintenance coming in from your ex no doubt too, and a nice fat £50k sum to fall back on.
I think you are being over dramatic about something which in the grand scheme, is just a first world problem.
You will manage. Be smart, and do your research.

I agree with this, I was a lone parent on a third of OP's salary with no child maintenance (don't get me started!) and struggle to see the hardship here.

I DO understand the panic though, it can get very overwhelming when you have to do it all on your own and it's easy to catastrophise.

Which is why OP needs to talk to a mortgage broker, not get financial advice from MN randoms...

ZombieZebra · 18/09/2026 08:58

Go with a broker. Ours costs us £250 every 5 years and it’s a real investment in our finances. He’s found us some fantastic deals and we’ve saved way more than the £750 we’ve spent so far (3 x 5 year fixed mortgage deals)

dreamingofgoodhair · 18/09/2026 09:04

@Pancis125a few people have suggested looking at offset mortgages and what your childcare commitments are.

AutumnLoverButNotYet · 18/09/2026 19:04

I want to read this through again in the morning after a couple of cups of coffee. Trying to decide what to do with my own Mortgage.🙇🏻‍♀️🙇🏻‍♀️

AutumnLoverButNotYet · 18/09/2026 19:06

Peggyplunkett · 17/09/2026 22:28

With all due respect OP there are people (namely other lone parents - I am one) in much tighter situations than you.
Your £75k salary is high band and you have your child maintenance coming in from your ex no doubt too, and a nice fat £50k sum to fall back on.
I think you are being over dramatic about something which in the grand scheme, is just a first world problem.
You will manage. Be smart, and do your research.

There really is no need for that.

Just because other peoples positions are different doesn't mean the OP isn't allowed to stress out about her own position.

Daughtersandbristolian · 18/09/2026 19:11

I do empathise and understand! I’m sure there are lots of others in the same boat or similar situations.

I first bought a house in 2017 then the economy crashed. I then sold that eventually and rented for years and years. Managed to buy 3 years ago but that’s to Liz Tryss rates were sky high but I had no choice as landlord gave me 3 mths notice! Now we are due to have our 2 yesr fixed expire August 2027 too. It’s too early for a mortgage broker to search / lock in rates as can only do 6 mths. I’m really looking forward to the gas and electric going up 24% in Jan too as my fixed contact ends December!

newnamefor2026 · 18/09/2026 19:26

What is your LTV-overpay now to try and tip you into the next bracket for more favourable loan rates?

SonionRing · 20/09/2026 12:54

Is there any way you could rent out a spare room? Im very lucky that the town i live in has a hospital, a large student population and language schools who are always looking for host families. Ive taken on short term lodgers for 2-3 weeks (language students), hospital staff who needed to live in my city for 6 months, and occasionally a uni student lodger.

Im in the SE (where rents are generally higher), but i think the going rate is around £800pcm including bills for a lodger. You could try this (start off with a short term lodger, to see if its something that can work for you).

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