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To miss refined air travel?

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BABaby88 · 17/09/2026 10:05

It's great everyone can travel. I'm sure. But I grew up travelling in airport lounges and flight decks where people dressed for the occasion.

I was in the Gatwick BA first class lounge this morning for a long weekend with DP and DC and goodness it was horrendous. Tracksuits, flipflops, everyone's guts hanging out, people stuffing packets of crisps into their bags as if famine was incoming.

Am I awful to miss the days when non-economy air travel felt a bit like a luxury not an endurance?

OP posts:
GasPanic · 17/09/2026 15:10

PyschodelicSoup · 17/09/2026 14:34

@nomas

There's nothing wrong with wearing some smart jogging bottoms and a soft top.

The desription smart didn't fit the picture the OP presented though.

Is there any such thing as smart joggers though ?

I live in the things but would not describe them in any way as "smart".

GarlicSomething · 17/09/2026 15:10

ERthree · 17/09/2026 14:31

I read somewhere only a few weeks ago that only 80% of the world's population has ever flown. I recently travelled on a train with a gentleman in his 40s that had never been out of London. He was shocked that there were "fields so close to London" In the 23 minutes it took to get to Reading he was beside himself with joy that he had seen real countryside. I encouraged him to head to the coast next as he has never seen the sea.

Erm, it's 80% that have never flown.

I approve of your suggestion that the untravelled Londoner visit the seaside!

GarlicSomething · 17/09/2026 15:13

GasPanic · 17/09/2026 15:10

Is there any such thing as smart joggers though ?

I live in the things but would not describe them in any way as "smart".

Cashmere, darling.

I mean, they aren't 'smart' either. But they're expensive, which seems to mean the same to some people.

Howmanycatsistoomany · 17/09/2026 15:19

BABaby88 · 17/09/2026 10:36

What makes you think my children were sad?!

They had the best time and will over the next few weeks while abroad as a family.

They are well mannered, happy children going on holiday. I keep my opinions to myself when around them (although one did say "mummy
why is that man in a football shirt when we are not allowed to wear them to school?") Fair point I would say.

Could you get any further up your own arse OP?
It really irks you that oiks who happily wear footie shirts on holiday can afford to breathe the same air as you in business/first class, doesn't it? 😂

PyschodelicSoup · 17/09/2026 15:24

nomas · 17/09/2026 14:43

OP objects to tracksuits so I doubt she would be happy with jogging bottoms.

You used the word 'smart' jogging bottoms. There is nothing 'smart' about the picture she is describing.

PyschodelicSoup · 17/09/2026 15:31

GasPanic · 17/09/2026 15:10

Is there any such thing as smart joggers though ?

I live in the things but would not describe them in any way as "smart".

Yes I think there are and clearly @nomas thinks there are too.

nomas · 17/09/2026 15:34

PyschodelicSoup · 17/09/2026 15:24

You used the word 'smart' jogging bottoms. There is nothing 'smart' about the picture she is describing.

I'm imagining that OP thinks travellers should be dressed like this

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StolenCookie · 17/09/2026 15:35

You hate poor fat people. That’s all your snooty ramblings amount to.

Your post is dripping with classist, fat phobic nonsense.

Maybe travel exclusively by horse drawn carriage next time so that people eating crisps in their football t shirts don’t have to blight your experience of being an extremely elegant and well bred person.

nomas · 17/09/2026 15:35

PyschodelicSoup · 17/09/2026 15:31

Yes I think there are and clearly @nomas thinks there are too.

Edited

Yes, I think they do exist. Even Prada and Dior do jogging bottoms.

Drawstring Fleece Tracksuit Bottoms for Women | Ralph Lauren® UK

ERthree · 17/09/2026 15:38

GarlicSomething · 17/09/2026 15:10

Erm, it's 80% that have never flown.

I approve of your suggestion that the untravelled Londoner visit the seaside!

Sorry, i missed out the "never". I was taken aback when i read the article as like many people flying is normal to me.

ilovesooty · 17/09/2026 15:41

MadisonMarieParksValetta · 17/09/2026 12:58

I'd never dress anything other than comfortably for a flight.

I certainly wouldn't be wearing a smart, good quality jacket.

ERthree · 17/09/2026 15:42

StolenCookie · 17/09/2026 15:35

You hate poor fat people. That’s all your snooty ramblings amount to.

Your post is dripping with classist, fat phobic nonsense.

Maybe travel exclusively by horse drawn carriage next time so that people eating crisps in their football t shirts don’t have to blight your experience of being an extremely elegant and well bred person.

I am from what is now one of the most deprived estates in Scotland and even i judge those that travel in clothes that should be used for a night on the sofa. Any man going anywhere other than to play football in football shirt looks bloody awful and any fat bloke in a football shirt looks ridiculous.

myjamisbetterthanyours · 17/09/2026 15:44

nomas · 17/09/2026 10:08

YABU. Travelling shouldn't just be for the rich.

I would be sympathetic about concerns about the environment but not withholding travel from the ordinary folk.

Decent clothing and good manners are surely not limited to rich people.

You are looking down your nose at the ‘poor’ here.

Pedallleur · 17/09/2026 16:11

nomas · 17/09/2026 15:35

Yes, I think they do exist. Even Prada and Dior do jogging bottoms.

Drawstring Fleece Tracksuit Bottoms for Women | Ralph Lauren® UK

Suitable for the nouveau riche like those dreadful wag women no doubt. Anyway those who know send their luggage on ahead or keep a suitcase at a preferred hotel (Jack Nicholson did this as he regularly stayed at The Connaught in London)

Pedallleur · 17/09/2026 16:13

canklesmctacotits · 17/09/2026 12:47

lol. You’re flying BA, and from Gatwick at that. Your expectations are misplaced!

I had similar thoughts.We all still have to go through security tho. Football shirt or Fendi bag, there is no distinction if you get pulled over

nomas · 17/09/2026 16:14

myjamisbetterthanyours · 17/09/2026 15:44

Decent clothing and good manners are surely not limited to rich people.

You are looking down your nose at the ‘poor’ here.

Which part of 'travelling shouldn't just be for the rich' is looking down my nose at poor people? How do you know I'm not poor?!

LeedsLoiner · 17/09/2026 16:18

BABaby88 · 17/09/2026 10:36

What makes you think my children were sad?!

They had the best time and will over the next few weeks while abroad as a family.

They are well mannered, happy children going on holiday. I keep my opinions to myself when around them (although one did say "mummy
why is that man in a football shirt when we are not allowed to wear them to school?") Fair point I would say.

I presume they are allowed to wear rugby shirts though? I'd guess Harlequins or Park ?

Nolongera · 17/09/2026 16:28

Not everyone can afford to fly, even cattle class. Like us, not been on a plane since 2016.
Mind, by the sound of it we are not missing much, when I do return to flying it will be with the airport Wetherspoons crowd, clearly better than the first class going by the OP.

AlwaysExtraHot · 17/09/2026 16:37

BABaby88 · 17/09/2026 10:36

What makes you think my children were sad?!

They had the best time and will over the next few weeks while abroad as a family.

They are well mannered, happy children going on holiday. I keep my opinions to myself when around them (although one did say "mummy
why is that man in a football shirt when we are not allowed to wear them to school?") Fair point I would say.

mummy why is that man in a football shirt when we are not allowed to wear them to school?"
Surely the answer is 'Because he's a grown-up, not a child going to school.'?

And get a grip, you snob.
Although I think this is a wind-up anyway.

myjamisbetterthanyours · 17/09/2026 16:39

nomas · 17/09/2026 16:14

Which part of 'travelling shouldn't just be for the rich' is looking down my nose at poor people? How do you know I'm not poor?!

You are missing my point.

I’ll explain.

OP thinks, rightly or wrongly, that most people she sees at the airport are badly dressed and badly behaved.

You say, quite rightly, that travel shouldn’t be just for the rich.

So, you assume that all badly dressed and badly behaved people she sees are poor, which is a really offensive view.

GasPanic · 17/09/2026 16:45

LeedsLoiner · 17/09/2026 16:18

I presume they are allowed to wear rugby shirts though? I'd guess Harlequins or Park ?

A lot of time it's "sports shirts" that are forbidden rather than specifically football shirts.

nomas · 17/09/2026 16:49

myjamisbetterthanyours · 17/09/2026 16:39

You are missing my point.

I’ll explain.

OP thinks, rightly or wrongly, that most people she sees at the airport are badly dressed and badly behaved.

You say, quite rightly, that travel shouldn’t be just for the rich.

So, you assume that all badly dressed and badly behaved people she sees are poor, which is a really offensive view.

Oh give over, OP's posts are dripping with judgement. 'Refined' people vs people who go to their 'local Wetherspoons', 'football matches' and 'Benidorm'.

TheBabyFatmoss · 17/09/2026 16:52

I always assume people who dress up for business or first class have never upgraded before, regular first or business passengers don’t treat it like a special occasion surely?

Mammyloveswine · 17/09/2026 16:59

Hahaha your poor children seeing someone in a football shirt because it’s too “uncouth” 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 get a life op

Wadsworthy · 17/09/2026 17:01

regular first or business passengers don’t treat it like a special occasion surely?

Or maybe a proportion of regular first or business passengers are generally well-dressed? For me, joggers and sweatshirts are for the gym, and nowhere else, although I change into comfortable clothes once I'm settled on board. And I travel business or first long haul, and have done for the last 30 years.

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