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ihowlforyou · 16/09/2026 22:01

I fell and fractured my ankle a week ago. I was told it’s a stable fracture to be treated like a sprain. I also really tore up my knee, which has been very slow to heal.

A week on and I’m still incredibly swollen, bruised and my ankle is becoming more and more painful. My knee is still very sore, the actual skin is numb but I have pain at the base and top of my kneecap. It also feels a little unstable and I am getting sharp stabbing pains to one side of my kneecap.

My GP isn’t interested. They say that I have to go to physio if I need, as it’s a muscular injury.

Physio has an eight week minimum wait for a video consultation.

This obviously isn’t an A&e situation (shamefully I did go to A&E for the initial injury because it had a very short wait time, it seemed to be a quiet time of day!), and they wouldn’t take a look at my knee anyway as it’s a “superficial injury”.

Minor injuries is now by appointment only in my area and appointments are gone within a minute of opening.

I’ve tried the pharmacy for the graze that isn’t healing but they just say to dress it and keep it clean and it’ll heal “eventually”.

I feel like I’m being turned away at every turn but I’m in so much pain, I’m left feeling sick by lunchtime because my ankle is that sore, and by the end of the day I can’t stand walking around. I have basic physio exercises from my last sprain years ago but I can’t do them, but I can’t be seen by anyone.

Please don’t suggest a private physio assessment, it’s not within my budget at all. AIBU to just feel despondent and like I can’t get help anywhere?

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BurnoutGP · 17/09/2026 22:20

Gosh this is painful to read. OP you are very yes but.
You have been diagnosed and given appropriate advice.
You dont like that advice.
You want it to be healed instantly. You want someone else to magically fix it.It cant be.
It's an avulsion fracture. It just needs time and rest. There is no instant fix here.
It will take weeks to improve.
What do you and other posters actually expect to be done?
Sometimes life is shit and inconvenient.
If youve approached health services with this manner and attitude i cant say you im surprised you feel dismissed. Its painful. Your expectations cant be met.

Peakyblinder18 · 18/09/2026 01:02

Don't know what you want to hear @ihowlforyou but you certainly aren't listening to anything.
If it's sympathy you want just say it.

Chanberry · 18/09/2026 07:47

Would you consider amputation and a prosthetic leg? I haven't seen anyone suggest that yet and it might solve your problem.

LIZS · 18/09/2026 08:09

ihowlforyou · 16/09/2026 22:14

Because I don’t have any other option, I can’t call in sick to work!

Of course you can. Self certify for a week and rest / ice it as advised. Expecting it to recover when walking 5000 steps is unrealistic.

beaglescurleduplikebagels · 18/09/2026 09:41

Chanberry · 18/09/2026 07:47

Would you consider amputation and a prosthetic leg? I haven't seen anyone suggest that yet and it might solve your problem.

😂😂

3luckystars · 18/09/2026 13:53

Chanberry · 18/09/2026 07:47

Would you consider amputation and a prosthetic leg? I haven't seen anyone suggest that yet and it might solve your problem.

How long would that take?

Chanberry · 18/09/2026 15:24

3luckystars · 18/09/2026 13:53

How long would that take?

Not long if you buy the prosthetic leg off Amazon next day delivery.

3luckystars · 18/09/2026 18:25

If she got it delivered to work, maybe.

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