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Most dog owners do not consider others.

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Globules · 16/09/2026 19:33

An incident shocked me this morning (see DO1).

It led me to closely observe all the dog owners i subsequently saw this morning on my 6.30am run.

My evidence is conclusive proof that most dog owners are stupid, self absorbed, rude and/or many other negative verbs due to more ❌ than ✔️

YABU: Your evidence is just sampled from the early morning dog walkers on a seafront.

YANBU: I agree. Thank you for the evidence proving it.

NB: This is not a dog bashing thread, as i love dogs. It's a dog owner bashing thread.

DO1: Dog walking one side of the road. Owner walking the other. Extendable lead joining them. Road is a cut through for a busy A road, so it's frequently used at 6.30am. I waved at the car driver, who did an emergency stop. I didn't want the poor dog to die. DO1 at least had the grace to look embarrassed. ❌

DO2: Short lead. Dog tucked into the side of the pavement while pooing. Owner had a bag ready. ✔️

DO3: Extended lead. Owner pulled dog in when they saw me running towards them. ✔️

DO4&5: Pavement 3m wide. Owners walking in the middle. Dogs walking on long lead either side, blocking the path. I jumped over the lead of one of the dogs. ❌❌

DO6: 3 dogs taking up the whole pavement on short leads. The owner glared at me as i approached and huffed at me as I passed.❌

DO7: 2 dogs walking towards me across the whole path. Owner looking at his phone and saw me at the last minute. I stopped while he pulled his dogs in for me to pass. ❌

DO8: Stopped dog from running into the road on an extendable lead when a car was coming.✔️

DO9: Dog walking happily at the side of the 3m wide pavement with owner using their phone. ✔️

DO10: Dog nearly tripping up a pedestrian as they bolted on their extendable lead to chase a seagull ❌

DO11: Dog intermittently being "walked" in a pram.🤦

OP posts:
Tigercrane · 16/09/2026 19:34

So you don't like Dog owners very much do you?

nomas · 16/09/2026 19:34

YANBU to be frustrated by inconsiderate dog owners.

But I don't think it's most dog owners, most seem fine.

Apart from dogshit on streets, I don't see too much bad behaviour.

Dunnocantthinkofone · 16/09/2026 19:35

Oh good. A dog bashing thread. Disguised as a dog owner bashing thread obvs.
we haven’t had one of those for around 14 minutes 🙄

catdistributionsystem · 16/09/2026 19:36

Was with you until #11. My neighbour used to take her elderly, arthritic dog out in a pram so he could rest whenever he needed to. He still loved to be out on walks, but he couldn’t manage long stretches at a time.

TheGrandTourNew · 16/09/2026 19:40

I used to walk DDog in a doggie pram because he was 17 and I had a younger dog to walk at the same time. What’s wrong with that? He had nothing wrong with him, he was just old and couldn’t walk very far. He enjoyed getting out and getting sniffing around and it let me walk the other dog at the same time.

Why is that an issue for anyone else? Why do you care?

He was 17.5 when he died and he had a good long life.

Globules · 16/09/2026 19:43

catdistributionsystem · 16/09/2026 19:36

Was with you until #11. My neighbour used to take her elderly, arthritic dog out in a pram so he could rest whenever he needed to. He still loved to be out on walks, but he couldn’t manage long stretches at a time.

Ok. I understand that the dog may have been elderly/ill.

I have colleagues at work and acquaintances that use prams as a dog accessory.

OP posts:
Globules · 16/09/2026 19:45

Dunnocantthinkofone · 16/09/2026 19:35

Oh good. A dog bashing thread. Disguised as a dog owner bashing thread obvs.
we haven’t had one of those for around 14 minutes 🙄

Not at all.

The poor dog this morning would have been killed. That would not have been the dogs fault.

OP posts:
nomas · 16/09/2026 19:46

Globules · 16/09/2026 19:43

Ok. I understand that the dog may have been elderly/ill.

I have colleagues at work and acquaintances that use prams as a dog accessory.

I think some of the tiny dogs are better off in a pram in public.

I saw a tiny dog in a huge shopping centre quivering with fear whilst being walked by a young girl in a busy shop. All those long legs and big feet must have been terrifying for the dog.

FreddieFruitCake · 16/09/2026 19:47

Fuck off with your DO11 - someone "walking" their dog in a pram doesn't affect you or anyone else in any way, shape or form, and certainly isn't any kind of example of rude, selfish, inconsiderate dog ownership.

You nasty bastard.

FookFookFook · 16/09/2026 19:49

I could do a similar list on inconsiderate runners to be honest.

Unexpectedlhereagain · 16/09/2026 19:50

Dunnocantthinkofone · 16/09/2026 19:35

Oh good. A dog bashing thread. Disguised as a dog owner bashing thread obvs.
we haven’t had one of those for around 14 minutes 🙄

✅✅✅

Nameychangington · 16/09/2026 19:50

I don't think it's most, but I think it's a lot more since COVID. Whether that's because dogs bought in covid didn't get socialised/ were bought by people who have no clue about dogs/ got anthropomorphised by their owners who couldn't see humans/ people have got more selfish since COVID, I don't know.

TheGrandTourNew · 16/09/2026 19:53

FreddieFruitCake · 16/09/2026 19:47

Fuck off with your DO11 - someone "walking" their dog in a pram doesn't affect you or anyone else in any way, shape or form, and certainly isn't any kind of example of rude, selfish, inconsiderate dog ownership.

You nasty bastard.

Yeah this. I’m actually really angry and upset that you put no 11.

I was and am a good dog owner. I paid a fortune in his latter years for health checks and expensive food and medication for his dementia. He had a good and long life.

Just because he got tired on a long walk doesn’t mean I should have put him to sleep. He was just old.

He walked a bit, went in his pram a bit, walked a bit, sniffed a bit, back in the pram.

How the fuck did that affect anyone else?

He wasn’t in your way, he wasn’t out of control, he was just going in and out of his pram so he could still experience a walk and get enrichment.

YeOldeGreyhound · 16/09/2026 19:53

I have got my bingo card out ready.
Waiting for the posters obsessed with dog anuses to turn up. I give it 3 pages.
Plus the poster who plops on threads with one liners about how the government should have to do something about the amount of dogs.

GingerBeverage · 16/09/2026 19:53

I have to ask various dog owners to pick up their dog poo on about 1 in 5 runs.

Yesterday’s was two men walking ahead of their schnauzer.

SoVeryVeryBored · 16/09/2026 19:53

So slightly more than 50% of your tiny sample were negative, and that's conclusive evidence all dog owners are arseholes? You don't have a great grasp of statistics or the English langage tbh.
I
Dog owners are people, some some will be shit, or distracted, unwell etc. Not ideal, yes, but no more definitive evidence than statements about, for example, parents, cyclists, smokers, Audi drivers etc

Dunnocantthinkofone · 16/09/2026 19:54

Globules · 16/09/2026 19:45

Not at all.

The poor dog this morning would have been killed. That would not have been the dogs fault.

And?
some people are complete arseholes with no common sense. A percentage of those arse holes also own a dog

Whats your point?

Chexton · 16/09/2026 19:54

I don’t disagree there are some cuntish owners but a small pool of 11 owners where 5 were good and 6 could have done better is not conclusive proof that ‘most’ are terrible.

At our local park where I used to walk my very well behaved Labrador it was a rarity to see an inconsiderate owner who didn’t put their lead on the dog around kids, didn’t pick up poo, let their dog approach everyone etc etc. So I think it depends on the areas

Yes there are terrible owners, as there are terrible drivers, terrible parents, terrible citizens of society. But I like to think most people are considerate and go about their day without being total morons

singthing · 16/09/2026 19:56

Anecdata: I was on a park bench earlier this week. I was quietly reading and not interacting with anyone, apart from maybe a glance up and a "morning" as people passed by.

During that time, probably 10 or so dogs passed. 5 or 6 or them (off-lead) came up to me and either physically jumped up at me or at least snuffled round looking for fuss or treats. A good few didn't even have their owners in sight due to bushes/trees. Only a couple walked straight past without bothering me.

I like dogs and I am not scared of them at all, but even I found this unacceptable. All the owners said was versions of "oh he's friendly!". My clean-on jeans had to go straight back in the wash basket when I got home, the muck was that noticeable.

Theeternalrocksbeneath · 16/09/2026 19:59

I own more dogs than is sensible. I have owned many, many dogs over the last 40 years. I have been friends with/dated/married/socialised with dog owners over those 40 years.

I am not declaring myself an expert on dog owners however I would strongly declare that my 40 years experience carries more weight than your singular walk this morning.

Most dog owners are not stupid, self absorbed or rude. A minority are.

Most non dog owners are not stupid, self absorbed or rude. A minority are.

I do hope this helps answer your query.

BishBashBoshDumpling · 16/09/2026 19:59

You need to email this in to the Office of National Statistics OP.

They will be so grateful.

HappiestSleeping · 16/09/2026 19:59

I put it to you @Globules that what you actually mean is that people are stupid / self absorbed etc. I has nothing to do with dog ownership, and just to do with people.

Today, I have had a whole access road blocked by an inconsiderate car driver who could have parked two feet to the left and blocked nobody, by chose to park in the middle of said access road for reasons known only to them.

I had a group of cyclists stationary, having a chat, blocking 3/4 of the road.

In fact, I suspect dog owners who are useless actually have more of an excuse as they don't know what 'good' looks like. They think that Fido is trained, and that it is acceptable that he runs up to every other dog as he is 'friendly'. This isn't making excuses, just that I can forgive people for not knowing things they don't know, however obvious it seems to the rest of us. I can't forgive laziness, entitlement, and people being inconsiderate.

Globules · 16/09/2026 20:00

singthing · 16/09/2026 19:56

Anecdata: I was on a park bench earlier this week. I was quietly reading and not interacting with anyone, apart from maybe a glance up and a "morning" as people passed by.

During that time, probably 10 or so dogs passed. 5 or 6 or them (off-lead) came up to me and either physically jumped up at me or at least snuffled round looking for fuss or treats. A good few didn't even have their owners in sight due to bushes/trees. Only a couple walked straight past without bothering me.

I like dogs and I am not scared of them at all, but even I found this unacceptable. All the owners said was versions of "oh he's friendly!". My clean-on jeans had to go straight back in the wash basket when I got home, the muck was that noticeable.

I've often had off lead dogs jump up me too and heard "oh, he's friendly"

I don't care if your dog is friendly or not.

Be a good owner and be in charge of your dog.

OP posts:
TheGrandTourNew · 16/09/2026 20:01

Globules · 16/09/2026 20:00

I've often had off lead dogs jump up me too and heard "oh, he's friendly"

I don't care if your dog is friendly or not.

Be a good owner and be in charge of your dog.

I was. He was in a pram …

DinoLil · 16/09/2026 20:03

I always tuck my staffie away when walking on the pavement. She is always on the lead. And a harness! It would be nice if pedestrians acknowledged the courtesy. Just eye contact or a nod. Not just barging on through like I didn't exist or hadn't moved out of their way. Makes me want to charge on through. And dog owners get a bad name? I must sell the invisible potion i obviously wear online!

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