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Most dog owners do not consider others.

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Globules · 16/09/2026 19:33

An incident shocked me this morning (see DO1).

It led me to closely observe all the dog owners i subsequently saw this morning on my 6.30am run.

My evidence is conclusive proof that most dog owners are stupid, self absorbed, rude and/or many other negative verbs due to more ❌ than ✔️

YABU: Your evidence is just sampled from the early morning dog walkers on a seafront.

YANBU: I agree. Thank you for the evidence proving it.

NB: This is not a dog bashing thread, as i love dogs. It's a dog owner bashing thread.

DO1: Dog walking one side of the road. Owner walking the other. Extendable lead joining them. Road is a cut through for a busy A road, so it's frequently used at 6.30am. I waved at the car driver, who did an emergency stop. I didn't want the poor dog to die. DO1 at least had the grace to look embarrassed. ❌

DO2: Short lead. Dog tucked into the side of the pavement while pooing. Owner had a bag ready. ✔️

DO3: Extended lead. Owner pulled dog in when they saw me running towards them. ✔️

DO4&5: Pavement 3m wide. Owners walking in the middle. Dogs walking on long lead either side, blocking the path. I jumped over the lead of one of the dogs. ❌❌

DO6: 3 dogs taking up the whole pavement on short leads. The owner glared at me as i approached and huffed at me as I passed.❌

DO7: 2 dogs walking towards me across the whole path. Owner looking at his phone and saw me at the last minute. I stopped while he pulled his dogs in for me to pass. ❌

DO8: Stopped dog from running into the road on an extendable lead when a car was coming.✔️

DO9: Dog walking happily at the side of the 3m wide pavement with owner using their phone. ✔️

DO10: Dog nearly tripping up a pedestrian as they bolted on their extendable lead to chase a seagull ❌

DO11: Dog intermittently being "walked" in a pram.🤦

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jeaux90 · 17/09/2026 07:50

JFC another dog owner bashing thread.

Owning a dog is irrelevant, some people are just assholes, ones that drive badly, people who are rude, people who own cats and let them shit in others gardens and yes dog owners to don’t pick up or recall their dogs. Also asshole runners and cyclists! HTH

LivingTheDreamish · 17/09/2026 05:34

Well you are not wrong about extendable leads, they're lethal trip wires. A dog on a lead is supposed to be at heel.

ThePlatypusAlwaysTriumphs · 17/09/2026 03:26

Look, there are a lot of fuckwits that own dogs.
But not all people that own dogs are fuckwits.
Same as so many people drive like fuckwits,
But not all drivers (although im going to say most) are fuckwits

PollyBell · 17/09/2026 01:18

Most dog owners dont seem to be able to read signs

Daisychain700 · 17/09/2026 00:33

Number 6 I don’t get. You were on a shared pavement not a running track, you had to slow down to go round an owner and 3 dogs taking up the pavement - that’s what everyone does for each other when there is not enough space on the pavement, whether it is wheelchair, wobbly toddler on a scooter, two people holding hands, or a person walking their dogs.
You said they huffed at you, bearing in mind your list of complaints I’m sure you huffed as well.
is there an athletics track near you where you can run without encountering any members of the public also using the space?

PPAPPINE · 17/09/2026 00:29

YANBU. Most dog owners also like to inflict their dogs on others. I genuinely think some dog breeds need to be banned from most places and more rules in place / stricter regulations and actual punishments when dogs escape gardens/ aren’t on leads/ shit everywhere 🤢. Too many people cannot control their dogs and cba to look after them properly. I realise I have gone completely off track with this rant 😆

ihadamarvelloustimeruiningeverything · 17/09/2026 00:27

As a dog walker and horse rider , I find runners are the annoying ones tbh

Samysungy · 17/09/2026 00:07

Dogs on short leads get run over.

JemimaPuddleduck53 · 17/09/2026 00:05

I don't mind dogs but I am more of a cat person. where I live there is a LOT of lazy dog owners that don't pick up after there dog. I often wonder how one of these owners that don't pick up their dogs poo react if they stepped in another dogs poo?

Globules · 16/09/2026 22:40

Dunnocantthinkofone · 16/09/2026 22:30

No, because you decided the best use of your evening was to dissect the behaviour of every last damn dog you came across, write it all out here (well get AI to do it at any rate) and to draw a conclusion that all dog owners are selfish bastards based on asample size of 11.several of whom you could find no fault with and one whose only crime was to sit their dog in a buggy!

Edited

I've seen more badly behaved dog owners since my half hour run this morning if it makes you feel better?

And you're full of the accusations tonight, aren't you? Telling me I'm lying isn't enough, you're now suggesting i used AI. (it's quicker for me to type things that are this niche sweetheart than to try to get AI to say what i want)

Or are you coming across as mardy because you've wasted your evening trying to defend the indefensible?

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Hellohelga · 16/09/2026 22:32

I thought running released endorphins to make you feel good. Not in your case.

Globules · 16/09/2026 22:32

Buildingthefuture · 16/09/2026 21:38

No one said you were lying. I merely pointed out that as someone with an awful lot of experience of dogs and dog walking, what you describe is not the “norm” and my experience does not suggest that most dog walkers don’t consider others.
The vast, vast majority of dog walkers that I come across are polite, with well trained dogs. We walk past, exchange a polite good morning, all dogs off lead, with no issues. That is my “norm”. An occasional asshole yes, but not every week or even every month.

At least one person accused me of lying.

My post is the norm where i live...a beautiful seaside town with many feckless dog owners giving the minority decent dog owners a bad name.

"All dogs off lead with no issues" definitely does not happen here. A walk along the beach of an evening results in at least 1 off lead dog jumping up me. You're welcome to visit and see for yourself.

Most dog owners do not consider others.
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Dunnocantthinkofone · 16/09/2026 22:30

Globules · 16/09/2026 22:23

Intolerant because i stopped a dog getting killed this morning?

Ok then...

No, because you decided the best use of your evening was to dissect the behaviour of every last damn dog you came across, write it all out here (well get AI to do it at any rate) and to draw a conclusion that all dog owners are selfish bastards based on asample size of 11.several of whom you could find no fault with and one whose only crime was to sit their dog in a buggy!

FuglyBitch · 16/09/2026 22:29

i think it’s humans who are the problem

Globules · 16/09/2026 22:23

Hellohelga · 16/09/2026 21:45

You sound really intolerant. I find I can get along with dogs, runners, cyclists, toddlers on scooters, mums with buggies , slow elderly folks, and all sorts of people, trying to get from A to B without having a rant on social media.

Intolerant because i stopped a dog getting killed this morning?

Ok then...

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MaryBeardsShoes · 16/09/2026 22:15

Oh get over yourself.

SnowFrogJelly · 16/09/2026 22:08

And how rude is your post OP

AllIwantForChrismasIsAKitchenAidStandMixer · 16/09/2026 22:02

abracadabra1980 · 16/09/2026 21:50

YABU because 'dog debating' will go on forever and a day, and nobody wins.

It literally cannot be resolved because neither side is prepared to give an inch

  • the dog people need to accept that other people don’t want their dog in their home, their personal space or on shared furniture. It’s not a person and it doesn’t need to be treated like one.
  • the non dog people need to accept that there are sometimes going to be dogs on the basis of the criteria above
noctilucentcloud · 16/09/2026 22:01

BishBashBoshDumpling · 16/09/2026 21:07

To balance the dog MN doghate -

Cruddy day in the hsopital with my unwell mum yesterday. So many appointments and tests and we seem to be getting nowhere while she gets worse. I was feeling really low and just wanted to cry but didnt want to in front of mum; I want to be strong for her.

Next thing who walks in but a man and a hospital therapy dog! I've never been so happy to stroke a soppy lab and look into those soulful eyes. Exactly what I needed, just when I needed it. Thanks, Clover 🐾

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I'm sorry about your mum BishBash, I hope things ease soon. I'm glad you found solace in the therapy dog, a relative of mine with dementia used to love the therapy dog that came to her nursing home. One day if I get the right dog I'd love to train it up and pass all the assessments required to bring that happiness or peace to others.

Papyrophile · 16/09/2026 21:52

But the odd horrible child needs to be held as responsible as the bad dog, and the irresponsible owner. The parents of such kids are equally culpable.

abracadabra1980 · 16/09/2026 21:50

YABU because 'dog debating' will go on forever and a day, and nobody wins.

Papyrophile · 16/09/2026 21:49

Buildingthefuture · 16/09/2026 21:38

No one said you were lying. I merely pointed out that as someone with an awful lot of experience of dogs and dog walking, what you describe is not the “norm” and my experience does not suggest that most dog walkers don’t consider others.
The vast, vast majority of dog walkers that I come across are polite, with well trained dogs. We walk past, exchange a polite good morning, all dogs off lead, with no issues. That is my “norm”. An occasional asshole yes, but not every week or even every month.

Agree, but I live in a rural area where people have livestock and dogs and children, and they are all expected to rub along, for the most part. There will be the occasional bad dog, and the occasional horrible child.

Hellohelga · 16/09/2026 21:45

You sound really intolerant. I find I can get along with dogs, runners, cyclists, toddlers on scooters, mums with buggies , slow elderly folks, and all sorts of people, trying to get from A to B without having a rant on social media.

Buildingthefuture · 16/09/2026 21:38

Globules · 16/09/2026 21:24

@Dunnocantthinkofone @allthiscarryon @missmollygreen

You're all very welcome to join me on my 6.30am run on Friday.

Hopefully I'm not going to need to prevent a dog being killed again.

However the other examples are regular occurances.

But i expect it's easier to believe I've made it up. S'alright. I understand it's easier to say I'm lying than find a reasonable excuse for the poor behaviour i witnessed today.

No one said you were lying. I merely pointed out that as someone with an awful lot of experience of dogs and dog walking, what you describe is not the “norm” and my experience does not suggest that most dog walkers don’t consider others.
The vast, vast majority of dog walkers that I come across are polite, with well trained dogs. We walk past, exchange a polite good morning, all dogs off lead, with no issues. That is my “norm”. An occasional asshole yes, but not every week or even every month.

Balloonhearts · 16/09/2026 21:38

I don't really think it's dog owners any more than any other group. It's just people in general, 90% of the time are pricks. I've mostly started assuming everyone else is a cunt unless proven otherwise.